Once upon a time, a certain comedian made a name for himself by saying "fuck". After awhile, another comedian came along and decided if that worked for the other guy, he would do it to, but more often. Not too long ago, I was listening to a comedian, and, maybe the problem was that I was sober, but he just wasn't funny. However, every second or third word was "the f bomb".
The thing is, it worked for the first because of the "what did he say?!" shock value. It worked for the second and the third for much the same reason. Now, though, it's almost like the period to a comedic sentence. Sure, there are some out there that don't cuss, but when we hear someone that does, on stage with a mic, it doesn't really phase us anymore.
I was reading through this thread from the beginning (again), and if anyone had pointed it out, I missed it. So, I thought I would as a follow up to Mindfondler's comment.
Part of the attraction for "talking dirty", whether it's the tamer "You have no idea just how much you turn me on, do you?" or the lines that would make a pornstar blush that have occasionally fallen out of my lips (Hey, I didn't think they could either but one stayed at the hotel where I was the only... oops, never mind), is that it isn't ALL THE TIME. It's different. It's unusual. It's a sign, or supposed to be, of just how turned on they make you.
And to work, it has to stand out.
And to stand out, I think it's pretty safe to say that there is a limit beyond which it's either humorous or sad. Of course, that limit is going to be different for different people.
As Mindfondler pointed out, his interest was piqued at first. Then it started to feel a little odd. Then, it was just uncomfortable. Because it just kept going and going without any feedback from him to indicate that he was with that program.
Some of the old time comedians talked about "dropping their pants" and how comedy has changed over the years. The old timers talk about how they would "drop their pants" when they started to bomb, and everyone does every now and again (so they said). The problem is, they continued, Modern comedians walk right out and drop their pants on the first line; Where do you go from there? If you start to bomb, you have no recourse.
Supporting what you just said.
Back on topic. It's been said before and I'll reiterate it here. Sometimes, "the knowing" isn't in "the telling", but "the doing."
I'm not sure if anybody has said that yet, but if not, then there it is. Not wanting to be needlessly cryptic, but if you want to seem natural, you have to make up your own stuff. Don't think of it as a test and instead just be wildly creative.