SandraMustard
Literotica GYLF
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I've yet to experience this…
No information provided to understand why and suggest possible reasons.
I haven't really, unless you count it happening because of clit-on-pubic-bone, but I've not had sex with a man who has experience besides me... he was a virgin
However, I can do this with dildos. There is a nubbed one I have that gives me multiples every time. Blame this also for my size preference being above average. Can't help it. it does sometimes make me wish that I could experience someone who had a bigger dick and knew better what to do with it, but my love for my guy really is worth way more than that. Plus I find women way more sexually attractive anyway...
There are two big points you made that suggests many of the women who report they cannot orgasm or have difficulty orgasming from PIV are the result of limited conditions. If I read your post right, you've been with ONE man who doesn't make it happen. You CAN have PIV orgasms because of success with dildos (your G-spot functions adequately). The solution for you (other than another lover) is find a position or technique with your SO that stimulates your G-spot. My husband says there are condoms called French Ticklers that have ridges for added stimulation. You might try one.
[ The following are my opinions and interpretations without research ]
Since the presence of a female G-spot was defined and generally accepted not so long ago, biologists have had a hard time defining where and what it is exactly. Is it the backside of the clitoris? Is it a gland like the male prostate?
What is probably certain, women differ in physical location and sensitivity there. Men differ in penis girth, ridge size, and shape (curvature). I know the ridge of my partners' glans rubbing across my G-spot is what stimulates me to orgasm. Not the deepest penetration but the shallowest. I'm sensitive enough that angle doesn't matter but doggy-style or extreme tilt (legs on shoulders) makes contact more intense.
My husband's penis is thicker than average and always gave me good stimulation. Since becoming swingers, I had one partner who was rather slender, chose to stay deep in missionary position, and failed to get me off. This supports my contention that failures are a combination of reasons.
[ Note to bogusguy: I went back and re-read all your posts. I interpret them differently today and felt my snarky comments were out of line. For what it's worth, I edited them and offer this mea culpa. I wouldn't blame you if you ignore me or tell me to fuck off. ]
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