Sistinas74
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- May 23, 2012
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I thought about this one for a couple of days now. My personal experiences often influences my thoughts on things but I always try to think how things are perceived by both sides of such conflicting issues as this. As far as "making amends" to those you have hurt in the past, the best I can think is to get run over by a bus in their presence or make a video of yourself crying hysterically because someone screwed you over just as bad. I would personally just move on and leave well enough alone. Besides if you didn't care that you did it at the time why bother beating yourself up about it now? It's in the past! The best thing to do if you really feel bad about it is just not to repeat the situation in the future. Also, I want to add that not feeling remorse or guilt before getting caught may be due to what led you to infidelity in the first place. Usually there are many damaging and hurtful events that occur over and over in a relationship prior to a person deciding to step out and have an affair. The resentment and anger make it easy to feel entitled to have an affair, or even more so not feeling anything at all.