BlueSugar
Faceted Sensualist
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Or he walks in on me while I'm dressing...or showering...and within seconds, he's slammed into me, with his hand over my mouth to keep me from screaming. Sudden, with no warning.
-snip sheath-
Sometimes are the best ones of the week start like this for me too.
We also in the beginning of the relationship (in the beginning of every relationship I was/will get into) when the time is right I clearly clearly state what would be too much and the things to not do ever or he will be castraited with a rusty dull spoon. THough, in the heat of the moment once or twice the "not ok ever" things, I found myself hearing echoing off the walls back at me in my own voice .... when you just start out, testing the waters of what you like -so to say- safewords and reasurances are great and needed, (this also applies to something 'new' that you both want to try) ((research is also good, and lots of talking)) it helps build trust and skill at knowing the other persons body as well as you would know your favorite recipie or a musical instrument ...
I love to be treated and looked at as a musician's prised instrument.
-snip sheath-
Sometimes are the best ones of the week start like this for me too.
We also in the beginning of the relationship (in the beginning of every relationship I was/will get into) when the time is right I clearly clearly state what would be too much and the things to not do ever or he will be castraited with a rusty dull spoon. THough, in the heat of the moment once or twice the "not ok ever" things, I found myself hearing echoing off the walls back at me in my own voice .... when you just start out, testing the waters of what you like -so to say- safewords and reasurances are great and needed, (this also applies to something 'new' that you both want to try) ((research is also good, and lots of talking)) it helps build trust and skill at knowing the other persons body as well as you would know your favorite recipie or a musical instrument ...
I love to be treated and looked at as a musician's prised instrument.