cymbidia
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Questions about bruising from a GB thread
Can anyone shed anymore light on the question of bruising - or playing safely?
cym
Can anyone shed anymore light on the question of bruising - or playing safely?
cym
Originally posted by willfulbrat
My current fantasty involves needleplay. It's up in the air right now as to whether or not that will come to reality tonight.
And speaking of bruising, does anyone know what causes bruising too easily?
cymbidia:
The needleplay:
You getting or giving?
Where?
What gauge?
Play or permanent?
Restrained or not?
The bruising question is a good one to ask in the BDSM thread, babes. Bet someone there knows.
willfulbrat
I'll be getting. I've not had any training for needleplay yet.
She is going to pierce down the outside of my arms, lace the needles and tie me to the cross by the lacing, and singletail me. And if we play again, she talked about corsetting with needles.
This piercing will be temporary. I would like to have my nipples repierced again, permanently.
She will use 24-18 gauge.
Right now I still have severe bruising from a relatively light caning. My Mentor says he doesn't think I should play again until we find out why I'm bruising so badly. Do you think it could be old, deep bruises coming to the surface from the caning?
cymbidia
I don't have a clue why you could be bruising so easily and so badly, willful. Some medicines interfere with clotting. Do you take aspirin? What about smoking/drinking? I've heard that smokers/drinkers bleed and bruise more readily, too.
There are ways to minimize bruising caused by playing hard though. Go read here: http://www.castlerealm.com/library/jadesoap2.shtml
and here
http://www.prophett.net/library/info/bruising.html.
Here's an all-purpose BDSM links page, one of the very best i've ever seen, that has an *extensive* section on playing safely: http://www.prodomination.com/resour...e/helplinks.htm
Sounds like you're playing hard, darlin'. You must feel that your Dom/mes are taking good care of you or you wouldn't be playing so hard, right? As someone who has seen the inside of an ER a couple of times, i gotta say this to you: be sure you're safe. Even then, even safe in the care of someone who really cares for you and tries hard to be safe with you, for you, accidents happen. Most of us end up in the ER once or twice but you gotta play safe and play smart, babes, even while you're playing hard, to make it only once or twice instead of more often.
This ought to go on the BDSM thread.