policywank
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SlutAddicted, the title of this thread is, "The Men Who's Wives Have No Sex Drive Support Club." You need to create a thread called, "The Men Who's Wives Are Bitches Support Club."
There's a difference.
There is a lot of overlap between those two clubs.
Too the extent that either spouse has no sex drive the best place to start is with understanding but that goes both ways. Unfortunately sex is a delicate topic and it is often assumed that the understanding onus is primarily on the spouse who wants more.
I know a number of women who have an arsenal of gender specific excuses that they use to not only deny their husband' sexual requests but to also delegitimize them. I don't think these women are bitches. They see themselves as commpassionate people and for the most part I agree. That is why they need to invalidate their husband's desire in order to justify ignoring them. And we all have female friends and relatives all too willing to distort entirely female empowerment concepts into weapons we use against good caring men in our lives.