Facing your fears. Nice. To me, a bechamel is almost always a means to an end, not an end in itself. If I leave it in bechamel state, I'll usually at least add some red pepper flakes. Oh, and fresh nutmeg, almost without fail.
It actually was a fear. I've been afraid of burning the milk.
You're absolutely right. Bechamel is a means to an end. If you haven't, try adding a fumet and dry vermouth reduction then serving over a nice piece of white fish. *swoon*