Giving my first handjob tomorrow night

[mark217mark]

Married guy here with only straight experience so far. But acting on one of my fantasies (with my wife's approval) I've arranged to give a handjob tomorrow night for my first time touching a cock that isn't my own. I plan on going slow and savoring....but any advice beyond that?

 

[snakey123]

Married guy here with only straight experience so far. But acting on one of my fantasies (with my wife's approval) I've arranged to give a handjob tomorrow night for my first time touching a cock that isn't my own. I plan on going slow and savoring....but any advice beyond that?

enjoy yourself my first time we had great hands on fun

 

[steve6161]

Married guy here with only straight experience so far. But acting on one of my fantasies (with my wife's approval) I've arranged to give a handjob tomorrow night for my first time touching a cock that isn't my own. I plan on going slow and savoring....but any advice beyond that?

Sounds fun, just remember to take your time, enjoy the feeling and texture of a hard cock but most of all enjoy.

 

[shirleycd]

Married guy here with only straight experience so far. But acting on one of my fantasies (with my wife's approval) I've arranged to give a handjob tomorrow night for my first time touching a cock that isn't my own. I plan on going slow and savoring....but any advice beyond that?

I wish the best of luck!

 

[bimori]

Married guy here with only straight experience so far. But acting on one of my fantasies (with my wife's approval) I've arranged to give a handjob tomorrow night for my first time touching a cock that isn't my own. I plan on going slow and savoring....but any advice beyond that?

Just treat it like it is your own cock. Tease it play with his ball bring him to the edge then make him wait.

 

[Jerseyboy52]

I really need to hook up.

I'm jealous. It's been years. Enjoy.

 

[frog1965]

I'm jealous. It's been years. Enjoy.

been years for me too

 

[partsecond]

Married guy here with only straight experience so far. But acting on one of my fantasies (with my wife's approval) I've arranged to give a handjob tomorrow night for my first time touching a cock that isn't my own. I plan on going slow and savoring....but any advice beyond that?

Just a little beer, but just have fun. Being naked with another man, both with hard dicks is just a lot of fun.

Put on some porn, and be ready to have some fun.

 

[gunthernehmen]

Do you have an option to let him cum in your mouth or at least on your face?

Just treat it the way yours likes to be treated. You're a man. You know what things feel like. Just don't forget in the heat of the moment and handle it rougher than you should.

 

[gunthernehmen]

And come tell us about it after!

Or even better, have your wife post a running commentary for us!

 

[txfuncouple]

Married guy here with only straight experience so far. But acting on one of my fantasies (with my wife's approval) I've arranged to give a handjob tomorrow night for my first time touching a cock that isn't my own. I plan on going slow and savoring....but any advice beyond that?

Advise would be to enjoy it and have fun. Is it mutual stroking or just you doing him? I know if it was me and things were going well, after stroking him for a while and getting him nice and hard, I wouldn't be able to resist the urge to go down and finish him with my mouth.

 

[shirleycd]

Advise would be to enjoy it and have fun. Is it mutual stroking or just you doing him? I know if it was me and things were going well, after stroking him for a while and getting him nice and hard, I wouldn't be able to resist the urge to go down and finish him with my mouth.

Neither could I resist that temptation.

 

[interwebs]

Neither could I resist that temptation.

Same the urge to give a blowjob would be to good to resit

 

[HardOne3440]

No way I could keep myself from sucking that cock!

 

[TallOne]

If your wife has agreed to allowing just the handjob you must restrain yourself and limit it to that. Even if she’s there and gives in to the heat of the moment and urges you to, stick to the agreed rules and throughly talk out any changes to those rules when not in the moment. Key to a successful swinging relationship which this is sort of a footstep into.

 

[txfuncouple]

If your wife has agreed to allowing just the handjob you must restrain yourself and limit it to that. Even if she’s there and gives in to the heat of the moment and urges you to, stick to the agreed rules and throughly talk out any changes to those rules when not in the moment. Key to a successful swinging relationship which this is sort of a footstep into.

That's actually really good advice. If that's all you have permission for, then just do that. If she's with you and offers for you to do more, then go further with her blessing and do what she says she's okay with. Either way its a win.

 

[interwebs]

If your wife has agreed to allowing just the handjob you must restrain yourself and limit it to that. Even if she’s there and gives in to the heat of the moment and urges you to, stick to the agreed rules and throughly talk out any changes to those rules when not in the moment. Key to a successful swinging relationship which this is sort of a footstep into.

Yeah i agree me and my gf know what we do that what makes it work

 

[Astroman72]

Yeah, if I was in that situation, it would be pretty hard to resist sucking him if he wanted me to.

And really, I doubt that there are too many guys out there who are okay with a handjob from a guy, but would refuse a blowjob.

But, I don't know anything about the rules for swinging, so I'll defer to others.

 

[little cletus]

I agree. Would be next to impossible to not suck a cock I was given access to.

 

[TallOne]

Yeah, if I was in that situation, it would be pretty hard to resist sucking him if he wanted me to.

And really, I doubt that there are too many guys out there who are okay with a handjob from a guy, but would refuse a blowjob.

But, I don't know anything about the rules for swinging, so I'll defer to others.

Basically if you’ve won the lottery and have a spouse that lets you indulge in bi activities you play within whatever rules there are.

Risk of STDs escalates exponentially going from hj/bj/anal with random hookups.

 

[4yourpleasureiam]

Just don't get your face to close because you will not be able to resist a kiss or two or three or lose control and jump to the next delight.

 

[bimori]

Just don't get your face to close because you will not be able to resist a kiss or two or three or lose control and jump to the next delight.

This would be a hard task. (No pun intended). To play with a cock and to make it cum and then let all that cum go to waste with a tissue. It just not right. Let no cum die in the garbage.

 

[mark217mark]

Results

It was everything I wanted and needed it to be. He got to the house and we talked a few minutes and I couldn't stop staring....he wasn't really passable....but had a thin feminine figure and was wearing a skirt with leggings and a silky top. He was wearing a brunette wig, and looked exactly like a sexy CD should: girly and sexy and a little mannish. After a few minutes of nervous small talk he asked if I was still interested and he took the leggings off and we went to the bedroom.

He laid down on the bed and I reached up under the skirt and found a soft cock that got stiffer and stiffer. I stroked him as slowly as I could with lots of ball massaging and thigh tickling. I'd asked him to be verbal and he was....asking for a firmer touch or faster stroke.....and he asked if I wanted him to cum or to wait and I couldn't resist.....I told him to let it happen and began a steady stroke and I felt his balls start twitching and then his cock pulsed and then he was shooting....

I got him a towel and we chatted a bit more, and I asked if I could play with him some more, not even caring if he could get hard. I did some more, and he asked if he could touch me. I was a bit hesitant about that but was so hard my cock almost hurt so I let him. He had me sit down and had me exploding in about one minute. I've been hard all day thinking about it.

 

[gunthernehmen]

Just wait till you get permission to suck him.

It's amazing.

 

[TallOne]

Awesome! How did the conversation with your wife go afterwards? She’s going to need some reassurance that you’re not just discovering you are outright gay. So try not to obsess over it and spend some good time worshipping her. Appreciate her for allowing you to have this experiment, they’re rare birds.