curiousisjane
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An intersting new thread. Thank you Clio.
An intersting new thread. Thank you Clio.
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Okay so it's great to see a bi/lesbian/ whatever girl thread. that's great. so jw how can a girl know for sure if she's bi or not? is it more than just having fantasies about girls?
My dear Clio, I have to say that she's the lucky one... very lucky
Okay so it's great to see a bi/lesbian/ whatever girl thread. that's great. so jw how can a girl know for sure if she's bi or not? is it more than just having fantasies about girls?
Hi Katelyn, thanks for posting. I myself am lesbian, have been pretty much all my life, and have never had any real interest in guys. So it was fairly easy for me to know that I was gay, even though it took me a while to get up the nerve to do anything about it.
As for being bi, well I'm sure some of it is having fantasies about girls, being attracted to girls, and having the desire to be sexually active with a woman. But my question to you is, do you really need to label yourself as bi? What I mean is that it's just a label after all. If you like girls, you like girls.
Anyone else have any words of wisdom?
I'm a lesbian, for but for several years I thought I was bisexual. Some people have asked if that was a kind of 'staging post', on the way to becoming gay.
I don't think so, at all. Looking back, I know now that I have always been a lesbian, but it just happened to take me quite a long time to fully realise that, and then properly embrace my sexuality. The reason? Not absolutely sure, but probably a combination of what society brought me up to expect about myself, along with the nature of the particular people who were important in my life.
I perhaps didn't fully identify as a lesbian until I met and fell in love with my girlfriend - the definitive love of my life.
When I identified as bisexual - in truth, I was sexually and romantically attracted to women, but because I was familiar with being with men, they still featured in my life, and the mix of both genders seemed to come naturally to me at the time.
Bisexual is a sexual identity in its own right - not a staging post, nor a cop-out, nor a half way house. It's as much to be celebrated as any other identity. In terms of what it 'feels like', as I think someone said, that will vary hugely with the individual person. Most typically, probably, you're simply attracted to both men and women.
sexuality is a very complicated thing. Everyone is unique and while that may form groups that people may classify and label, we are all unique, maybe for certain reasons or certain mysterious..
That is what makes it so erotic !
I always find it interesting when people say that bisexuals are jsut confused or can't make up their minds, like we all have to be one of the other, straight or gay. I believe in the Kinsey scale, that people fall somewhere on that scale whether it be totally straight, totally gay, or somewhere in the middle. People can't help their attractions or desires, they just are what they are. And how can I justify wanting people to accept my sexual preference if I am not willing to accept someone elses. ......Anyway, I respect the sexuality of others, just as I want them to respect my sexuality.
I'm a lesbian, for but for several years I thought I was bisexual. Some people have asked if that was a kind of 'staging post', on the way to becoming gay.
I don't think so, at all. Looking back, I know now that I have always been a lesbian, but it just happened to take me quite a long time to fully realise that, and then properly embrace my sexuality. The reason? Not absolutely sure, but probably a combination of what society brought me up to expect about myself, along with the nature of the particular people who were important in my life.
I perhaps didn't fully identify as a lesbian until I met and fell in love with my girlfriend - the definitive love of my life.
When I identified as bisexual - in truth, I was sexually and romantically attracted to women, but because I was familiar with being with men, they still featured in my life, and the mix of both genders seemed to come naturally to me at the time.
Bisexual is a sexual identity in its own right - not a staging post, nor a cop-out, nor a half way house. It's as much to be celebrated as any other identity. In terms of what it 'feels like', as I think someone said, that will vary hugely with the individual person. Most typically, probably, you're simply attracted to both men and women.
Looking forward to a great weekend . . .
Hope everyone has as much fun as I plan on having!
Looking forward to a great weekend . . .
Hope everyone has as much fun as I plan on having!
Oh I definitely plan to have fun.. I love weekends!
Would love to hear all about it . . . . .
Amazing. I have no other words.
Another amazing weekend. I could get used to this . . . .
I'm envious of those with amazing weekends!
I quite surprised myself last night.
My girlfriend drove me demented yesterday sending the most eloquently sexy text messages and, naturally, I responded in kind. Then she decided to go one up on me and the picture messages started. She thought this wonderful as she knew that I was as hot as hell and unable to do anything about it. Even the extra visits to the ladies were unfulfilling.
So I paid her an unexpected visit yesterday evening and no sooner had I got in the door I took her where she stood, and then some. I still can't quite believe that that greedy, dominating, devouring thing taking what she wanted and how she wanted it was me - me who, a mere few weeks ago had never kissed (really kissed) another woman.
I'm rather proud of myself. My girlfriend's rather proud too - she claims to have great instincts and that "I knew what I was doing when I homed in on you"!!
We have a weekend together to look forward to now. OK, a fair amount of it will be spent on a marathon 26 mile walk through track, peat bog and mountain pass but what harm? I know the area and know of a few places to duck off trail while we wend our way to the finish and to our hotel.