Your Spouse's/Partner's Secrets

[Justfantasies]

I've gotten very turned on by "interviewing" my wife and past grilfriends about their sexual histories. Once they know that I will be accepting of their past dalliances, out come some pretty sexy tales . . .

.. . So I'd like to know, do other men like to do this too and what secrets have you learned from spouses and lovers? And do you women like to "confess" like this or hear about your men's past?

 

[Dirk1958]

I get really excited hearing about the first time my wife almost got to suck dick, but adults coming home spoiled it.

A girl friend (not girlfriend) from the past was a little too drunk one night and told me how she used to sleep over at her friends house, and go downstairs to give blowjobs to the friends brother. Time had passed; they no longer were together. However the boy had been coming around asking if it could happen again. She got tired of it and laid him down. She told me how she sucked him to near completion then walked away. I got bone hard then, and its been fantasy material since.

When I chat one on one with a gal I don't get off much on cybersex. I'd rather hear her confessions.

 

[Justfantasies]

Wife

I think confessions are much better than cybersex to . . .

Once I made my former wife confess to all the affairs she had while at college. She was a little embarrassed at first. But when she realized how much it was turning me on, she really got into it. We started with the fairly conventional "had sex with him on the first date," to the truly erotic. She said that one of her boyfriends loaned her to another guy for the weekend.

 

[Justfantasies]

any more?

 

[LazerGuided]

Wife's Confessions

After watching Sex, Lies and Videotape I asked my wife the same types of questions. Learned a few things and had great sex that night.

When she was a teenager she went to a hotel with a member of a band after the concert where she gave him a blow job. Believe it or not, she was a virgin at the time and he didn't want to take her virginity so just had her suck his dick instead. She was willing but he thought better of it.

During her first marriage her husband and best friend wanted to swap partners. They fucked like rabbits and my wife and her friend's husband spent the time talking and eventually making love. Her husband and friend were really pissed because it had been more than just physical sex. I expressed my interest in swapping at one time and this experience was why she wouldn't go along with it, afriad I'd be jealous. You can't un-ring the bell.

I also heard about her experimenting with another woman. A huge fantasy of mine but one she won't consider doing again for me. I never got many details other than to know who the other woman was, it was someone I knew through her.

This is exactly the kind of thing, "confessions", that I'd like to chat about with a woman. Looks like I may have to settle for guys relaying what they've learned about their wives. I hope we'll get more RL stories.

 

[Burwell]

I just HAD to join in with this thread, having been linked to the plaground forum by accident after following a link to it in somebody's signature.

This is really just a straight answer to the original poster's question rather than the relaying of any particular story, but hell yes, it is an enormous turn on for me when my wife tells me some of her past secrets and experiences. The more details the better!

I think that sometimes she feels as though some of the things she might tell me might make me feel bad or... whatever... but of all the things she's told me, that's never happened. We both had a life before we met each other, that much is obvious, and it makes no sense to get upset about that kind of stuff! I'm sure I never would, no matter what she'd done. I'm sure that in our long future together a lot of other stories will come out, possibly even wilder than the things she's already told me! But I guess we'll see...

Generally, the same doesn't seem to be true the other way around. She doesn't seem to like to hear my stories.

As for details of the things she told me... well, she told ME details about herself, so I don't feel it's my place to post those kind of details here, in public view. But yes, it turns me on!!

 

[Justfantasies]

I admit that it is the swapping and sharing confessions that turn me on the most. The tale that I mentioned in my last post took place when Emily was in her 20s. Her boyfriend had an old school friend over to stay for the weekend and this guy kept eyeing her . . . Emily also admitted to her boyfriend that she fancied the guest.

Apparently, they all got a little drunk and Emily ended up making out with both the guys. Finally, her then boyfriend said it would be OK if the she and guest made love and apparently Emily kept them both pretty happy throughout the weekend.

I get pretty turned on just retelling the tale and soon after Emily told me the first time, we renacted the scenario with an old friend of ours. LazerGuided. It's amazing what a little drink can do to loosen things up, and just start small, a few kisses, no more. It can lead to so much more.

Burwell, your wife is soooo gorgeous. Surely, you can share just a little of her adventures. Perhaps she would even want to tell them to us herself?

 

[LazerGuided]

Mr B, tell Mrs B she is absolutely beautiful! Made a small side trip from this thread to yours with her pictures.

 

[LazerGuided]

JF,
If the right situation arose, I might give it a shot. At this point though, I don't have any friends I'd like to swap with. And there have been less than great results on previous excursions into my perversions.

One of my fantasies is to direct my lady to subtlely (and sometimes not so subtlely) expose herself in public. One night after a few drinks I was able to convince my wife to go topless as we drove home. I dropped her off out front of our house and asked her to go around to the back of the house and wait topless in the driveway for me to drive the car around. She did and I was totally turned on when the car's headlights flashed on hers. She looked so good. Several years after that she brought the episode up with a marriage counselor and asked what was wrong with me.

I felt betrayed and since then have pretty much kept my fantasies to myself. When we were first married we used to take turns reading erotic stories to each other in bed. Now she doesn't know I read or write stories and through yahoo groups have porn pictures delivered to my email inbox.

Probably not much erotic in that story, sorry. But once I got started it kind of just spilled out.

 

[Justfantasies]

I think my current wife likes to expose herself too. . . although she doesn't like to talk about it. She plays piano and one time she wore this little black skirt with a big slit in it . . . It got me pretty excited watching her and knowing that other people could see too.

There was one guy in the audience who was clearly rubbing himself while he watched her and I think he actually came doing it!

Vacations are always a good time for a little sexual exploration. There is usually at least one couple around who'd like to play.

 

[Burwell]

Honestly, I'm not quite comfortable with spelling out all the details of the stories I've been told or even that we've both been involved in. I'll talk to her and see if she's ok if I share, but nothing until then.

I get pretty turned on just retelling the tale

Yeah, I know what you mean... retelling a story gives me the chance to relive it all again in my mind, so I love to share these kind of things!

One of my fantasies is to direct my lady to subtlely (and sometimes not so subtlely) expose herself in public. One night after a few drinks I was able to convince my wife to go topless as we drove home. I dropped her off out front of our house and asked her to go around to the back of the house and wait topless in the driveway for me to drive the car around. She did and I was totally turned on when the car's headlights flashed on hers. She looked so good. Several years after that she brought the episode up with a marriage counselor and asked what was wrong with me.

I felt betrayed and since then have pretty much kept my fantasies to myself.

Wow, that sounds like a real shame! I can understand how upsetting that must have been... feeling as though you shared an experience that you both enjoyed only to find out years later that she hadn't enjoyed it at all...
I do have a lot of fantasies in a similar kind of area, but after reading that I'm gonna be really careful to make sure that anything we ever do is something that we REALLY BOTH want to do before I try pushing her towards doing anything.

Not that I'm saying you pushed her, but.... I'm gonna be really, really careful about it all now!!

 

[Justfantasies]

To LazerGuided

. . . it may be that she enjoyed the experience at the time, but is feeling a little regretful now and blaming you for it as a result.

 

[Justfantasies]

bump.

 

[lostpcat]

I will just have to put my two cents in and say right on to this thread..true confessions are the hottest..way better than rp.
what i love the most is womens secrets....married women and moms that have sexual fantassies or secrets they are afraid to share with anyone...when you get them to open up its like a floodgate of sexual release.
I once was having after work drinks with friends when it ended up just me and this married mother of 3 hostess hanging around....she let lose like she was in a confessional....she said she never thought she would ever be able to share these things because of being judged by those she loved but because we had nothing between us...why not. she felt she could trust me...she trusted me for three hours in her car and in a motel..it was great

 

[Azuldrgon]

In reality, I knew my wife's past before we hooked up. She wasn't very good at keeping her past secret from anyone that worked with us either. Funny thing was that she was well reformed before I took her.

 

[ttlvr]

My wife, when we were casually dating, would tell me of her prior sex life. Great details.. her prior boyfriend had her at a new years party, three times, with other people around. I would love to have been there, seen it.

 

[Justfantasies]

Bump . . .

 

[Justfantasies]

Bump . . .

 

[Isevil1976]

My wife loves to tell stories, just the other day while pouring a cup of coffee she offered up how one of her old boyfriends would have her masturbate while telling him the same stories, guess what I have her do now?