Your secret fear..

[Purrde Flower]

Lets say your in a relationship with a person you believe is almost perfect for you.. (I say almost because no one is ever 100% perfect) He/She are Smart.. Funny.. Sex.. Fantastic in bed.. What would be your secret fear in this relationship that you are afraid to talk about because you don't want to upset them or yourself in finding out the answer?

 

[Never]

That they think people who read comic books and RP are geeks. I mean, they'd be right and all but really..

 

[HeavyStick]

Frimost being an in-law.

 

[Kitte]

I talk to my SO about most of my fears...except for those really dumb paranoid ones that even I know are rediculous. Those I just try to push out of my head as my own insecurity and let them go....

He does alot to soothe my insecurity though and I dont think he even knows it. The fact that I trust him 100% helps.

I made a point of not holding my past against him. It isnt HIS fault I didnt always make the wisest relationship choices in the past. Why should he suffer?

 

[plasticman33]

I'll never let her know that there really are monsters under the bed!

 

[His_kitty]

I think admitting that I loved them, not only to them but to myself.

You run the risk in telling someone that you love them, what if they don't return the feelings? What if they were perfectly happy with the way things were?

I know that has happened with me, only in reverse, on several occasions.

 

[HeavyStick]

I think admitting that I loved them, not only to them but to myself.

You run the risk in telling someone that you love them, what if they don't return the feelings? What if they were perfectly happy with the way things were?

I know that has happened with me, only in reverse, on several occasions.

*stalk*

 

[Purrde Flower]

My greatest fear.. Is this just a dream? Is it real? Is it going to last? Am I a hobby he is going to drop?

 

[His_kitty]

*stalk*

How's biz today, sugar?

 

[His_kitty]

My greatest fear.. Is this just a dream? Is it real? Is it going to last? Am I a hobby he is going to drop?

Ah I'm bad for that, so I purposefully try and sabotage things.

 

[BlueDaisy]

Purrde, is this just a hypothetical question?

Blue

 

[Purrde Flower]

Purrde, is this just a hypothetical question?

Blue

No It's never hypothetical at least not with me.

 

[Purrde Flower]

Ah I'm bad for that, so I purposefully try and sabotage things.

I don't think i would try and purposly sabotage it. I'm more the type to keep it all inside me for forever (from pervious awful, harmful experience).

 

[Freya]

My greatest fear.. Is this just a dream? Is it real? Is it going to last? Am I a hobby he is going to drop?

That, and will he discover that I'm truly not worthy of this kind of feeling? That he wants someone with less baggage, less issues, more strength - or someone more interesting, more fun, more intelligent.

 

[His_kitty]

I don't think i would try and purposly sabotage it. I'm more the type to keep it all inside me for forever (from pervious awful, harmful experience).

Well when I say purposefully I don't really mean that I am aware of what I"m doing when doing it.

I can look back afterwards and see it.


I have issues when it comes to relationships, I know. lol

 

[Purrde Flower]

That, and will he discover that I'm truly not worthy of this kind of feeling? That he wants someone with less baggage, less issues, more strength - or someone more interesting, more fun, more intelligent.

oh yea! This one is on my list also.

 

[Guest]

 

[Kitte]

That, and will he discover that I'm truly not worthy of this kind of feeling? That he wants someone with less baggage, less issues, more strength - or someone more interesting, more fun, more intelligent.

I have NO idea what you are talking about.....really...who me?????

 

[Freya]

I have NO idea what you are talking about.....really...who me?????

It's funny you know. People make jokes about everyone here is just one person posting under so many different user names - but at times, I swear, you'd almost believe it. So many of us have the same fears, the same worries, the same traumas in life.

 

[Kitte]

It's funny you know. People make jokes about everyone here is just one person posting under so many different user names - but at times, I swear, you'd almost believe it. So many of us have the same fears, the same worries, the same traumas in life.

Well we all have a few things in common...that brought us to this place...so that predisposes us to similar traits i guess...

either that or there are far to many insecure people in the world.

 

[Shaq]

Sexual identity conflict. What is it about me that seems to make the women I date question their attraction to males of our species...hmmm....

 

[Lasz]

I have no fears in life

Arabs seem to scare you.

 

[Eumenides]

That I'm gonna screw it all up.

 

[Freya]

Well we all have a few things in common...that brought us to this place...so that predisposes us to similar traits i guess...

either that or there are far to many insecure people in the world.

Bit of both I think. One good thing is that we have the opportunity to meet others like ourselves, so we can kick each other's asses when it gets out of hand.

Edited to add a ditto to Eumenides.