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I've been around for a while, made the odd connection here and there, particularly in the past, and I've really enjoyed getting to know a number of people here. My connections have somewhat diminished in more recent times through a combination of being less active and others moving on. It's just the ebb and flow of a forum such as this :).
 
I have made a few connections. 2 I have met in person. 1 simply as a hi nice to meet you because she happens to live in the same city. Also because it had been questioned in the past if I was who I said I was. I wanted someone to be able to verify if necessary. The other was a lot more than a simple hi. We don’t keep in touch anymore and I am quite fine with that. It was fun during that time, but it hit me hard when it ended.

As for connections off the board, I have had a few. I have been here a long time. I have made some friends. I have had some great conversations with Corbal and Aussie. Wings, even though we haven’t chatted in a while is a great confidant and friend. She knows more about me than any of my closest friends.

BC is my guardian angel on this planet. She helped me during my most troubling time. I have paid her gratitude and kindness forward ten-fold.

I have made some great private message connections. The problem is I am TERRIBLE at replying in a timely manner. I am not on as much anymore. I don’t come here for the same reasons I originally did.

Most know I come here now just to banter, flirt and have fun. Anyone and everyone should know they can message me and say hello. I enjoy getting to know others. That’s why I start the threads I typically do.

This place has saved me in some ways. It has hurt me in ways as well. It can be addicting and fun, but can take you away from what’s happening in your real life. In the end though, don’t allow it to become a stress point for you. We all have enough stress in our daily lives. We do not need an erotic porn board to cause even more stress.
 
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Uncounted number of crushes over the years.

I have met 6 or 7 Litsters. Several were romantic meet ups. A few just friends. Was way thrilled to meet Azul just a couple weeks ago!

Husband is mrppv. My hunny is DarkSimian.

Been in lust and love. Been crushed on and crushed and then really crushed :(.

Lit is like a ride at an amusement park. You get all worked up waiting in line, you get on and all the twists and turns and loops excite you and make you sick at the same time, you get off thinking that was the last time and get right back in line again...
 
just stumbled upon this thread. I have been here forever, but sometimes lately can go for month or so without connecting.
My RL ex brought me here - he is still on here, but not much at all. I had my own page and was up over 20000 posts, but when they started clearing out old threads I lots posts. oh well.
I have met 4-5 guys and gals in the early days here, all were just friendly connections. Spent the day at Universal Studios with one and his GF. met Cian at a restaurant when he was in town for work - he brought me Oreos and a glass of milk. Silly man. He was a sweet heart. We had lots of deep conversations. Met another when I was working in Georgia - he still posts occasionally here. Most of them are no longer here.
I took a break for awhile, when a coworker and family friend mentioned some pics I had posted here. He would never say what his lit name was, but kinda freaked me out a bit.
There are a few current crushes I chat with, but don't interact with much on the boards.

I don't try to figure out all the who's who. I am just me - the same here as I am in RL.
:rose: shmily
 
So I was going through my inbox this evening to do a nervous purge and realised I've made some great friends here. It sucks that you fall out of synch with some people, but that's life...

And if anyone is in touch with MessierObject, please say hello. I have a huge smile after going back through our ridiculous messages.
 
I think someone brought this up on the Nosey thread recently. I'm always nosey about this kind of thing... I don't know if it's just me, but it seems like a lot of people post more openly these days. But I was never involved in what was going on behind the scenes at all when I first started, so maybe I just see more of it now that I'm more active.

What do you think?
 
cheekygirl75 said:
I think someone brought this up on the Nosey thread recently. I'm always nosey about this kind of thing... I don't know if it's just me, but it seems like a lot of people post more openly these days. But I was never involved in what was going on behind the scenes at all when I first started, so maybe I just see more of it now that I'm more active.

What do you think?
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I flirt openly with lots of people. I like to keep people guessing. ;)
If I’m in a relationship with someone, you likely wouldn’t be able to figure out who it is by my posts.
 
Lonelywife1205 said:
I flirt openly with lots of people. I like to keep people guessing. ;)
If I’m in a relationship with someone, you likely wouldn’t be able to figure out who it is by my posts.
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That was the case with me. I've had two serious relationships on here over the years....
 
No connections. Just dramatic endings that shouldn’t have been. *hides behind my fan and flutters my lashes*
 
I have made platonic connections with quite a few people. There are people that I talk to every day or almost every day and those are the ones that I feel I have made the strongest connection to. They are the ones that I share with and who share with me. Most of my friends are of the female variety and there are five very special ladies in my life and three very special guys. These are the people I consider to be my good friends. I laugh with them regularly and think of them often. Romantic links don’t seem to happen and I am normally the female friend who helps them find romantic connections elsewhere. My Lit relationships are pretty much the same as my real life ones.
 
I've been here off and on for years and made some good friends. I don't chat to them all daily but I know we are there for each other. I've met a few in RL, one of which I still chat to outside lit.

I've become close to one or two and cocked up a couple of relationships.

ATM I'm very close to one.:heart:
 
Although I have changed my screen name (this is my third, none overlap), I have been on Lit about 15 years. Over that time I've made some good friends and had some nice "relationships". I've never met anyone in person, though it has been discussed.

For me there is an awareness of the difficulty of maintaining a relationship in this environment. There are multiple boundaries each of us have and finding someone who will 1. navigate that with you and 2. be compatible or accepting of those boundaries. This is difficult even with two people who want it to work.

Do we talk sex, if so, when? First conversation? How does a guy approach it in an environment with so many inconsiderate or creepy guys, without being perceived as just another one of them?

Do you share pics - ever? Do they include your face? Are they erotic? Is it wrong to ask?

Do you give your name? Location?

How much can you trust the other person, and how long does that take?

Everybody is entitled to their personal standards and comfort zones, but it's a tricky dance figuring that out. Anyway - take this for whatever value you give it.
 
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