Your Lit connections

If i were going to have a crush these days it'd be on Miles.

He appears to have his shit together and I've never seen him be an asshole to someone who didn't deserve it. :D

But....but...he’s not British!!!!
<head explodes>
 
I wouldn't DARE mention the people who I have connected with so far. I know that their Lit-Rep will get crushed by association with my sex ass.

However, I have a special place in my heart for those kind Litsters who have been showing me the ropes, introducing their lives into mine, and not shouting at me (too loudly) when I go off on a (sex) tangent.

... just wonderful people.

Also: these American voices that I've had the privilege to hear ... what can I say but:

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I've been waiting to use that GIF for hours.
 
I was.musing last night that i tend to think of a crush as someone i don't know very well, or at all. But if we're including people we do know, then yes, i guess i have someone here who would qualify as a crush.

The thing is, he's been such a good friend for so long that i suppose i take him for granted sometimes and 'forget' how crushable he is. It's funny, the thing that always reminds me is remembering (for whatever random reason this piece of information pops into my head) how tall he is.🤷 He's several inches taller than me, and when i imagine looking up at him, i get that giddy, giggly feeling that you do when something's really good.

Then i go all blushy 'cause I've remembered that he's not just my dear friend - he's a man. With good, strong hands, a kind heart, an intellect that keeps me on my toes, and a flirt game that is unfailingly on point. And hot damn, he looks good in a suit!

He's top notch, and i can't imagine ever not crushing on him.:rose:

When did you see me in a suit? Never pegged you for a stalker. ;)
 
It is unlikely that anyone could truly piece together the web that is Lit.

High school is an apt description. Years and years (and even years) ago there was a big trade behind the scenes of people's personal information. Who fucked who. Who was pretending to be this, or that. Why doesn't this person like me, or how can I get her attention?

All the sort of things that make high school horrible and exciting.

The amount of gossip is probably the same as it ever has been, but it is more normalized now, I think. We just assume every married person here is cheating and everyone with a his in her signature line has multiple play partners. Back in the day it was still a novelty. Now it is just what it is.

There will be a blow up every so often and someone will leave (usually to turn up as an alt a few days later). There will be a clique that rises and will be labeled the "bully". New tits vs old tits. Hot guys being drooled over (from AVs that generally aren't really them).

It all part of a big playground. Entertainment at its finest.

I know connections happen here and great relationships occur. I think it is, however, built on a lot of "white lies" that help everyone just get through the days.

Personally I try to keep my relationships private and shy away from anything overt. I'll occasionally get asked if I am with such and such person and it makes me laugh more than anything else.

None of the above is bad, or good, or anything really. It is life in the 21st century where we all hope to make something special without a whole lot of consequences that disturb our lives.

In a nutshell.
The gal grapevine around here can get silly.
 
🤣🤣🤣

I hadn't realized my taste in men was still a matter of public knowlege!

Also, please note the following:
Non-Brit, no crush. ^ (Sorry, Miles :cathappy: )
So, so British. Definite crush.😍 ^
Sorted. :D
Did you ever meet BradBigBrain? He's not been on Lit for a while and not keeping the best health last I heard from him? He was a lovable, curl-up in front of the fire kinda guy and I miss his hairy arms. I'm sure he had hairy arms - the sort you can put a parting in.

My major crush - it's not secret, was Paris but, unless they've adopted another ID, I've not seen here in a couple of years. Around the same time was StacyTG, who I miss as a friend.

Jett and Phantom are both lovely, gentle men and where would I be without the insightful advice of Bramblethorn? Love to you all :rose:
 
Did you ever meet BradBigBrain? He's not been on Lit for a while and not keeping the best health last I heard from him? He was a lovable, curl-up in front of the fire kinda guy and I miss his hairy arms. I'm sure he had hairy arms - the sort you can put a parting in.

My major crush - it's not secret, was Paris but, unless they've adopted another ID, I've not seen here in a couple of years. Around the same time was StacyTG, who I miss as a friend.

Jett and Phantom are both lovely, gentle men and where would I be without the insightful advice of Bramblethorn? Love to you all :rose:

I did know 3B from a distance, he sermed friendly and well-liked. I'm sorry to hear about his health.:rose:

The only other name i recognize is Brambly's. She's a lovely person and i always appreciate her insights and her cool head. :)
 
Did you ever meet BradBigBrain? He's not been on Lit for a while and not keeping the best health last I heard from him? He was a lovable, curl-up in front of the fire kinda guy and I miss his hairy arms. I'm sure he had hairy arms - the sort you can put a parting in.

My major crush - it's not secret, was Paris but, unless they've adopted another ID, I've not seen here in a couple of years. Around the same time was StacyTG, who I miss as a friend.

Jett and Phantom are both lovely, gentle men and where would I be without the insightful advice of Bramblethorn? Love to you all :rose:

BBB was (still is, I'm sure) good people. I'm also saddened to hear that he is not in the best of health. He was delightful to post with.
 
BBB was (still is, I'm sure) good people. I'm also saddened to hear that he is not in the best of health. He was delightful to post with.

Tell you what - I'll drop him a line and report back. I was going to email him over the holiday but didn't so this is a good excuse.

ETA
Bum. His Gmail account has gone, so my email got returned. :(

EETA
I am delighted to report that Brad found me! He is taking care of his health, is happy and has someone to share his life now. :):):heart:
 
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Geez, I've seen this thread before, but never peeked in.

I have several acquaintances here, both new and old. None are intended to"go anywhere" romantically, as I am good in that aspect of my life. Therefore, crushes are just crushes for novelty or entertainment value. Most of my old crushes no longer post here; one notable exception being Corbal, of course...and I love her like a hot, smart assed, incestual sister.
Not that I'm into that kinda thing; but if I were; them yeah. That.

Newer crushes? That's an evolving situation.

There's certainly a network of people whose posts I enjoy, and actively look for when refreshing the page. Honey, Parker, JAF, Trekka, BFG, Alice (TSL), Fara, and several others.

Sticky mentioned SarahTG.. I recall being close to another trans girl years ago also, whose name currently eludes me. Alana something, I believe. I am sad there seems to be less camaraderie in that vein here than before. I feel other venues have attracted most of us, as I had a lot of connections on Instagram and Tumblr; now little here.
 
Do you like me like a relative, too? Cousin, maybe? Sister-in-law twice removed?






<~~ likes incest :eek: Grrr :devil:
 
When did you see me in a suit? Never pegged you for a stalker. ;)

[JeremyIrons]

You have no idea.

[/JeremyIrons]



Good grief, Honey. I barely know you, but I fear that if I were asked to name one identifying characteristic...

This honestly really surprises me, i don't have near the interactions with them on the boards as i did a few years ago.

Huh. 🤔
 
I'm not really the type to have public connections. I have some great PM relationships with intelligent people with filthy minds. Like it says: I'm here for fun.

I am also thick as two short planks when it comes to figuring out who's with who. Although, I think Numi has something going on with Hornblende. Maybe.

Curse you, Tan, we were trying to keep that quiet. Now we're going to have to switch to our alts. :D
 
i have made a few connections on here over the years. all but one have been purely online based, i think mostly because there seem to be a lot more people on the other side of the atlantic on here.

the one person i made a physical connection with, helped me open my eyes to see the core of the person i really am. it was a fairly short lived thing, but it was definitely life altering!

these days i’m here so sporadically it’s kinda difficult to connect with anyone
 
i have made a few connections on here over the years. all but one have been purely online based, i think mostly because there seem to be a lot more people on the other side of the atlantic on here.

the one person i made a physical connection with, helped me open my eyes to see the core of the person i really am. it was a fairly short lived thing, but it was definitely life altering!

these days i’m here so sporadically it’s kinda difficult to connect with anyone

Hi LS! :) long time no see!!
 
We've probably got enough for an orgy now. Twister anyone?
Did anyone bring lube and ibuprofen?
 
Confession: i got tired of talking about sex a while back. :eek: Like, years?

Never thought that would happen, but here we are. 🤷
 
Confession: i got tired of talking about sex a while back. :eek: Like, years?

Never thought that would happen, but here we are. 🤷

Yeah; sex is such a bore...

Good thing I appreciate boobs for their sheer beauty and extravagance; not as sex objects. Thusly, they are always a good topic.
 
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