Your Impression

[PacificBlue]

What is your impression of me? I rarely get this kind of feedback and when I do it's usually not what I expected.

So be blunt. Be honest. I've been around for several months you've seen my posts. What do you think?

 

[*bratcat*]

Just a friendly warning, m'dear...

 

[PacificBlue]

Yes, I know what I'm asking for. I figure I will get some honest answers and some that are only meant to be hurtful. Isn't that life though?

This isn't about whether you like me or not, although thank you. It is about what kind of impression I give. I think I know but I'd like to see if I'm accurate. I, like most, am my own worst critic and it's sometimes helpful to solicite outside opinions.

 

[Saturn Return]

Alright..


You seem like a person that is pretty open and honest with others about yourself. You aren't afraid to ask for advice, then take it.

You have been very open about your weight..even though a few people you've developed an online friendship with have been mean spirited when finding out you aren't the thinnest girl in the world.


You are helpful and kind...and often very uplifting towards those whom are feeling down.

You handle your troll incredibly well..
(As you know..for every 100 people that like you, you get one free anonymous asshole following you around for the sole purpose of being an absolute dick.)


How's that?

 

[Todd]

ya seem like a decent gal, i would have to have sex with you to be sure though

 

[MissTaken]

HMMMMM

Well, you strike me as a honest and sincere person. I imagine, too, that you are particular about whom you permit to be close to you.

 

[Siren]

Ok here goes, siince I am in this mode today anyway

 

[modest mouse]

I'll open my mouth, with the caveat that my knowledge of you is limited.

I would say that you have a gentle sense of humor. You give people alot of breathing room before you speak up. You are very sensitive, sometimes overly so, this may be linked to low self esteem...which you should know is unfounded. You have a maternal quality, warm, nurturing. You would benefit from cutting yourself some slack on occasion. You have a tremendously gorgeous ass
. You are a terrific hugger. You enjoy quiet moments of self reflection but wish that people had a better view of the inner you.

I could be off base but there is my 2 cents.

 

[Shy Tall Guy]

Re: Ok here goes, siince I am in this mode today anyway

I have to agree with everything Siren said, especially this:

dont look to others to tell you what you already know about yourself......... which is......

that you are a prize to know, be friends with and love.

 

[PacificBlue]

I ask the question here because I don't have any that are standing in front of me to ask. I have few friends outside of work and I wouldn't ask this question of those that I work with.

I used to hang with a group of singles that I went to church with but stopped attending that group months ago. I didn't like being told what to think, how to feel, or who to date. I haven't found my niche in another group yet and I'm asking because when I stopped going to this group one week, I never heard from anyone. That leaves me wondering about what kind of impression I give that I could disappear back into the shadows without any concern. I hung out with this group on a weekly basis for more than a year.

 

[christophe]

Pacific Blue u should have a pm!

 

[Siren]

 

[bluntforcemama]

you're awfully nice, and I worry that people will take advantage of that and walk all over you.

 

[april-wine]

What is your impression of me? I rarely get this kind of feedback and when I do it's usually not what I expected.

So be blunt. Be honest. I've been around for several months you've seen my posts. What do you think?

Hello PB,

My impression of you......You are a sweet and caring person, I have seen you step up and offer hugs whenever needed......Don't lose your focus, you know deep down who you are.....that person shines through with every post....

 

[lobito]

like you have to ask... you already know my answer PB.

 

[cymbidia]

I know you in perhaps just a little different light than others here on the GB. Not better or more, just different.

I see in you someone who's searching.

You're turning choices and needs and avenues of personal exploration and growth over in your mind, trying some on as you look in the mirror, checking the fit as you drive to work.

You long for a breaking out of the strict and rigid limits that have so far delineated your life - but you're kinda afraid to just do it, just go for it, just be bold and brash... because...

You're afraid to be hurt. Again.

You're afraid to put yourself out on the end of the limb, the jiggly end, too far from the strong center to reach and hold in case that jiggly end won't support you. So you look out there and think about going out there and reach out as far as you can go - but you don't let go of the main trunk, the place you've spent your life in safety (if not happily), because you're really not sure you can survive the fall, if that jiggly end didn't hold you.

You're changing. You're redefining yourself and what you want from your life, personally, romantically, sexually, and professionally.

Change is difficult.
It sometimes hurts to look in the mirror and see what you want to be superimposed like a ghost over what you are. It can be so slow as to be very discouraging, especially as the regular mundanities of life creep by, as you pay your bills and do the laundry and mop the floor.

I've been watching you change. I've noticed a newfound sense of sureness in your posts, a centeredness that wasn't so noticeable back in, oh, June or July.

That jiggly edge?
It may not hold you, darlin', but you'll see sights out there that you're never gonna see hugging the trunk.
You know that, too.

 

[Siren]

Your Impression is Impressive Cymba

 

[Cheyenne]

I see you as a survivor. One who was job hunting and ultimately was succesful.

I think somewhere along the way I posted previously that you would get through that job loss experience, but never be quite the same again. You know now that you are strong enough to survive the loss of a job. And you also know how easy it is to lose a good job when you have it. Your sense of security has been shaken and you will never completely get it back. That isn't necessarily a bad thing, though, if it keeps you on your toes.