Your first bdsm fantasy...

[jasonlf]

I just thought I'd share my first BSDM fantasy with you guys, and get some of yours.

The girl in this fantasy would be a innocent-looking blond girl... kinda a daddy's little girl type.

She would be asleep with me, in my bed. I wake up, and slowly pull her arms above her head, and fasten them above her. Then, quietly and softly go down to her legs, and tie her feet spread eagle on the south of the bed. Now, I'd blindfold and gag her.

Then, I'd be careful not to wake her up, as I cut her nightclothes and lingerie off.

I'd then stand back for a second and admire my work .

(time for the fun to begin ;D)

I'd take a feather, and slowly run it down her neck, between her breasts, down to her pussy... seeing her slowly awaken to the light sensation. I'd continue to brush her with the feather from head to toe, slowly moving from a light sensation to a more serious attempt to tickle her.

Once she was awake and aware, I would stop using the feather, and begin to use my hands to tickle her. I love watching her buck up and down, trying to get away, but she can't.

After I've tortured her for a few minutes, I'd notice how she's starting to get wet, and I'd begin sucking lightly on each nipple, all still while tickling her, and letting her squirm.

When I was done with her tits, I'd begin tickling her as furious as possible. As I heard her squealing through the gag, I'd pick her up by her hips, and drive myself into her.

^^^
rawr.

The thing that's so hot about that to me, is the idea of the girl/sub tied down, helpless, bucking and trying to get away.

I'm also big into discipline... but as far as a single encounter, this would be able as hot as it gets for me at least that I've figured out so far.

Too bad I've yet to find an opportunity to experience

 

[SueJ]

Oh gee, Jason, I was with you until you got to the tickle part. Do any subs here get wet from tickling? You'd lose me for sure on that one. If my husband tickles me in bondage play, there is absolutely NO SEX for a VERY LONG TIME afterwards! That's a "mad" I don't get over easily.

 

[Sir_Winston54]

I prefer to do my "tickling" with a flogger, crop or cane... or a violet wand.

 

[slave C]

I prefer to do my "tickling" with a flogger, crop or cane... or a violet wand.

I do like your style Sir Winston. slave c

 

[tealsphynx]

I don't like being tickled....

On topic to the thread's purpose....I don't really have fantasies, I just start playing and go with what feels right at the time. Though as I've posted in my chastity play thread I hae recently started little bits of fantasy-ing (damn I hate when I can't think of the right word to say..) and writing them into short stories for my SO...He'll be going away for a short span in several months and I want to send him with some special erotica to read. If they turn out any good I'll be submitting them here on Lit to see what other poeple think of my writing. Though I did have fantasies about using a strap-on before I knew what BDSM was, but at the same time that alone really isn't completely BDSM. My boyfriend at the time was trying to coax me into anal sex...I told him I'd try it if he would (I have a dildo that is a little on the larger side...then again so was he) after using it on him once I wanted to do it more...but he wasn't into it. My DH is though...but he keeps complaining that it stings. The sadistic streak in me wants to keep giving it to him dispite the discomfort (I love his little wimpers and squealy noises beneath the gag), but the loving individual in me says to stop. I think we'll try one of those numbing lubes and see if it helps.

 

[jasonlf]

Oh gee, Jason, I was with you until you got to the tickle part. Do any subs here get wet from tickling? You'd lose me for sure on that one. If my husband tickles me in bondage play, there is absolutely NO SEX for a VERY LONG TIME afterwards! That's a "mad" I don't get over easily.

The point of the tickling is more to facilitate the girl flapping around on the bed like a fish out of water, screaming for me to stop

I've found, through personal experience, that tickling is one of the easiest ways to introduce some bondage elements into a vanilla relationship... If you can't tie a girl up and spank her to make her squirm... 'wrestle' with her, pin her to the ground, and tickle her in play

 

[lektra]

Hmmmm. I've never been tickled as foreplay. Then again, I've never had any trouble with the whole needing to be led into bdsm

L.

 

[Marquis]

Tickling is fun

 

[DVS]

Oh gee, Jason, I was with you until you got to the tickle part. Do any subs here get wet from tickling? You'd lose me for sure on that one. If my husband tickles me in bondage play, there is absolutely NO SEX for a VERY LONG TIME afterwards! That's a "mad" I don't get over easily.

It's a fantasy. The woman is a sexual object in his mind. She doesn't have a choice. Actually, in his mind, it's her choice that she always comes back for more.

 

[HawkEye38]

It's a fantasy. The woman is a sexual object in his mind. She doesn't have a choice. Actually, in his mind, it's her choice that she always comes back for more.

::In my best Sigmund Frued accent:: Vy zon't you haf a zeet on zis nize comvy couch?

Now, tell me about your motzer...

 

[HawkEye38]

cripes! did your avatar just move... ok, that's my signal to go to bed... goodnight all.

 

[DVS]

::In my best Sigmund Frued accent:: Vy zon't you haf a zeet on zis nize comvy couch?

Now, tell me about your motzer...

My motzer died.

There's this woman, and she's naked. And, there is a jar of lube on the table...

This isn't a fantasy of mine, but it could be the start of one. Actually, I have so many fantasies, I should start my own thread.

Wait a minute. I did! The link is below.

 

[SueJ]

My motzer died.

There's this woman, and she's naked. And, there is a jar of lube on the table...

This isn't a fantasy of mine, but it could be the start of one........

Well, DVS, I sure like this fantasy more than the tickling one, at least the start of it. (Haven't read your latest installment yet though) lol

 

[shy slave]

Jason - if anyone tickled me at any time, they had better be able to run fast once they have untied me, because at that point i may want to use a any implement I can find and see what its like to switch !!!

 

[DVS]

Well, DVS, I sure like this fantasy more than the tickling one, at least the start of it. (Haven't read your latest installment yet though) lol

Oh, I understand what you mean. Tickling is a very powerful feeling, and if you are tied up and out of control, it can be torturous. I don't advise it as something a Dom should do to his sub for any length of time. Some people are very ticklish and don't see it as sexual at all.

But, I understand what he meant by his fantasy of it. It wasn't the tickling so mush as the violent movement it caused in her, trying to get away. I am aroused by such movement, but I know tickling isn't the way to accomplish it.

Now, as a fantasy, and if it stays a fantasy, I see no problem with it. But, as a reality, long term tickling can cause such a violent reaction in some people that it would last long after they were untied. I wouldn't turn my back on someone in that frame of mind. Man knows no wrath like that of a bound woman tickled?

My next installment is close to posting.

 

[DVS]

cripes! did your avatar just move... ok, that's my signal to go to bed... goodnight all.

Maybe it was the ghost of Sigmund, disturbed by your accent?

 

[bustyblondebombshell]

well, sounds like a good enough fantasy to me.....

can I be the innocent blonde?!?!

 

[SueJ]

Man knows no wrath like that of a bound woman tickled?

Oh, we sooooo understand each other!

Shy Slave, yes, a switch in roles sure does sound not only appropriate under those circumstances, but even FUN. And I sure as hell never ever thought I'd hear myself say that! Why, I'd even help you take somebody on under those conditions. <laughing>

 

[DVS]

hmmm...

Suspension. First grade. (oops... didn't I mention somewhere else that it was a harmless fantasy)

You might have to clarify that for me. Was that suspension from the ceiling in the first grade, or was that suspension from class in the first grade?

 

[HawkEye38]

Maybe it was the ghost of Sigmund, disturbed by your accent?

That's what i get for posting late at night

 

[curiousjen]

It was less than a year ago I shared my submissive feelings with my husband. He was the first real life person I ever shared them with.He was not surprised, sex had been naturally evolving that way since we'd met really, but I think he was surprised that my feelings ran deeper than just sex. Really though, it was a case of learning that there was a name for what we did, rather than "discovering" bdsm and going from there.

My first BDSM fantasies however, were practiced as a child in my marathon masturbation sessions. I was very experimental for a twelve year old, hot wax, ice, self spanking.

My parents are born again christians and they used to have a lot of true life biographies about sinners who were redeemed or christians that had horrific things happen to them. There were a couple by nicki cruz and one, i can't remember who its by but it was called "rape- my story". Athough it made me guilty as hell some of the bits in that made me horny as hell. Those biographies were the only porn I could ever get away with.

I used to like punishment, and my school friend and I would play corprol punishment games at dinner time.

as a teenager who discovered the internet I would go in yahoo chat and ask the men there to tell me to " do anything" and that i "liked pain" and although i usually didn't do what they said (so not total submission but getting there), I used to wank furiously imagining that i did.

Some of these memories are only coming back to me now...its really incredible to think how deep it runs. Good thread!

 

[jared23]

It was shortly after I had my first homosexual experience... I had met this guy at the bar, and later when he was giving me a blow job back at his place, I start to think how hot he would look dressed up as a woman, tied up spread eagle, with his ass hole easily accessible for me to do as I please...

Also though about how it would be if he was being spanked while I'm sucking him off...

 

[Bikewer]

First fantasy? I'd have to go way back to grade school, long before I had any ideas about sex at all. I was always fascinated by bondage, taking images from "mainstream mass-media" as it were.
Even as a kid in grade school I invented characters who would be captured, tied up, and dominated. No doubt influenced by the numerous TV Westerns that I watched as a kid.

 

[sigsauerprinces]

i think i was about 9 and had just read Salems Lot by Steven King, which is about vampires...and afterwards i had the strangest craving to be bitten by one. The fantasies didnt involve sex per se-just the vampire coming to the window, me letting him in, and him getting on top of me and biting me..i liked to imagine the feeling of his teeth going into my neck, and the fear..and i would get all tingly imagining these things. thats the earliest that i can remember being drawn to anything bdsm-ish

 

[sosniagara]

I was at Disneyworld as a kid. I forget how old I was. 10ish perhaps.

It was in one of the rides. The one with the "ghosts". When the trolly thing went past the ghost images of turn of the century women cleaning I wished that they were not light projected ghosts so I could go over to them and do the cleaning that they were doing so they could relax. Took me *years* to figure out what my feelings ment but I finally did