your deepest, darkest, hottest fantasy...if you could, would you?

[silverwhisper]

knowing all the possible ramifications, whatever they might be: whatever it is, would you actually, if given the opportunity, live out your deepest, darkest, hottest fantasy?

ed

 

[toys_em_us]

knowing all the possible ramifications, whatever they might be: whatever it is, would you actually, if given the opportunity, live out your deepest, darkest, hottest fantasy?

ed

In fact, I have!

 

[tbs230]

yes i would

 

[Cathleen]

Ed - multiple choice next time! Unless you're Santa Claus I ain't telling.

Hell yes!

 

[NaughtyLil1]

I'm not sure. Somethings are better left tucked away.

 

[silverwhisper]

cate: OK, i'm failing to see how the answer isn't one of the four, to be honest.

ed

 

[DarkBee]

I have a lot of dark fantasies I'd rather not share with the world (although I write about it in my stories, but even there I can't cover all of my fetishes and dark desires). If any one of those would ever happen to me, I have to be in the mood for some raunchy, dirty sex will I live my fantasy; things must lead up to it and just happen because they have to happen, if you know what I mean.

 

[fire_breeze]

knowing all the possible ramifications, whatever they might be: whatever it is, would you actually, if given the opportunity, live out your deepest, darkest, hottest fantasy?

ed

If I have to live with the consequences..... it depends.

 

[silverwhisper]

i think for me it depends--there are ways mine could be done that the ramifications would be mitigated but w/out really looking at the situation i cannot be certain it would be worth the downside.

ed

 

[lindahotstuff]

I tend to live out my fantasies, but one I would love is to be in bed with my hubby and a real transexual. The ones who look like women but still have a cock. I believe they can't get an erection but my bi side would love kissing and masturbating her(him?) while playing with his (her?) cock. Hubby is quite happy to play along as well. Maybe these people only exist in ASia, I live in Australia and of all the pics I have seen, none seem to be of Aussies. ANy one know where I can get hold of an attractive TS? Anyone had experience with one?

 

[DarkBee]

I tend to live out my fantasies, but one I would love is to be in bed with my hubby and a real transexual. The ones who look like women but still have a cock. I believe they can't get an erection but my bi side would love kissing and masturbating her(him?) while playing with his (her?) cock. Hubby is quite happy to play along as well. Maybe these people only exist in ASia, I live in Australia and of all the pics I have seen, none seem to be of Aussies. ANy one know where I can get hold of an attractive TS? Anyone had experience with one?

From what the 'media' (DVD's, internet) show us, most of these transsexuals seem to live in Asia (mostly Thailand) and Brazil, although they are probably everywhere, you just need to look around (it's allowed to have sexual reassignment surgery in Iran).

 

[Little Bird]

I think there's a great difference between "hot in theory" and "hot in practice". I can think of some stuff that is really hot when you think about it, but thinking about actually doing it makes me Ewww!!!

 

[smile_n_laugh]

maybe not

Fantasies are (at least for me) a way to ease the pressure of the routine. They are not a replacement. Something that the heart desires, but the mind classifies it as morally wrong, the fantasies are a good avenue to verbalise these activities. I wouldn't like to play out most of my fantasies in real.

 

[p_akopian]

I think there's a great difference between "hot in theory" and "hot in practice". I can think of some stuff that is really hot when you think about it, but thinking about actually doing it makes me Ewww!!!

Hmmm...like what?

 

[eudaemonia]

No. The fantasy would lose its potency (natch).

 

[SweetErika]

Linda, why do you think T-girls can't/don't have erections? If they're in transition and taking powerful hormones or have psychological issues related to that, there could be problems. However, I think there are plenty out there who don't have erection difficulties.

Nope, I have no desire to live out my deepest, hottest fantasies. I like to live out specific elements, or little/light tastes of them, if you will, but I'm not in any way attracted to the reality of those fantasies or allowing them to lose their potency, like E said. In fact, in many cases, I know I'd find the reality to be repugnant and trying to act out the fantasy would clearly be a form of self-harm.

I'm not exactly sure why there's so much dissonance in this area, or why I developed these dark fantasies at such a young age when I had a pretty damn good childhood, but I've come to terms with enjoying the fantasies for what they are and learned to put them in a completely different box from my "realistic" fantasies.

There are more mild fantasies that I intend to live out because I'm certain the reality would equal or exceed the hotness of the fantasy, however. "Forcing" a male sub especially to lap up every drop of Hubby's cum from my pussy, preferably with some encouragement from my crop or another toy and some kind of humiliation/taunting, would be an example of such a fantasy. Topping Hubby and a female sub together could be pretty hot in reality, too. [NOTE: If you're a Horny Net Geek, do NOT PM me to discuss these further. Smart, funny, caring, sexy, available people in WA are encouraged to apply for these positions, however. ]

 

[Cathleen]

I'm thinking my deepest, darkest, hottest fantasies aren't so deep, dark or hot since I'd love to bring some to life.

 

[ImpishSeraph]

I don't think I would...I like to leave some things to the imagination...

 

[SweetErika]

I'm thinking my deepest, darkest, hottest fantasies aren't so deep, dark or hot since I'd love to bring some to life.

Maybe they're not all that deep or dark, but that doesn't mean they aren't really hot!

 

[EjAcKuLaToR]

Definitely

I would definitely act on my greatest fantasy if I could.

 

[mjl2010]

Been there, done that.

Am living it now. Let me tell you, some things were meant to stay fantasy. Others were meant to live out. If I were giving advice, I'd say think very carefully before you act on what you wish for. You just might get it and live to regret it. Or, if you're really, really lucky, you'll live to enjoy it.

Think carefully before you act.

MJL

 

[silkybiblue]

inhibitions really do suck don't they ?

 

[VelvetDarkness]

One of my biggest fantasies (as anyone who has read my posts knows) is to be used by Master as a sexual favour and passed around other men. I would seriously love to have 3 cocks at once, just once in my life. Master has zero interest in making this happen for me but if it were possible and he would enjoy it I would be happy to make my fantasy an RL memory.

I am such a slut.

 

[silverwhisper]

i have to confess i'm mildly surprised by that, velvet. perhaps it's b/c i'm not in the life and hence am somewhat ignorant, but it often seems to me based upon my limited knowledge that the "slut as party favor" meme is a very common one.

ed

 

[bobsgirl]

i have to confess i'm mildly surprised by that, velvet. perhaps it's b/c i'm not in the life and hence am somewhat ignorant, but it often seems to me based upon my limited knowledge that the "slut as party favor" meme is a very common one.

ed

All different flavors of D/s, Ed. I think there are lots of couples who live their lives very quietly and don't partake of the more ... spectacular activities.

I always thought all Dom/mes were into giving pain. You know -- sadistic, mean disciplinarians. I was very pleasantly surprised to learn that that ain't necessarily so either.


sorry for the hijack.