Altterrific
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Please share your experiences (in this thread or by PM to me) if you've had positive or negative experiences with one night stands or longer term affairs with people outside your primary relationship (while you were married or had a significant other.) I'd like to hear what transpired by the person who did the cheating.
Please provide details like these:
How did you meet the person you eventually cheated with?
How long did you know him or her for before you gave in to temptation with that person?
What made you cross the line from being faithful with your SO to cheating with the person of your affair?
Was it an emotional or physical affair first and what did it turn into later?
What did you get out of the affair that you didn't get from your primary relationship?
Was this the only affair you ever had? (If not, you may post about others separately.)
Are you still involved in this affair?
If the affair was ended, who ended it, and why?
How did ending the affair feel to you?
Did you spouse or SO ever find out about your affair?
Do you have any regrets for what you did? Would you do things differently or the same next time?
Post-affair, were there consequences later in your primary relationship with your spouse or SO? If so, what were they?
Was one of those consequences acquiring an STD or STI?
About the personal bios posted here:
This thread is NOT for judgments, rude comments, probing questions or attacks by readers. I would just like to hear people's experiences with being the cheater and how it went. So, posts relevant to the topic only please and NO comments on them from readers. If anyone has a question or comments about what you've read, please PM the poster about it privately.
Some people do cheat, I'd like to delve into the why's and how's. If you have a problem with the topic, rant about it elsewhere. Negative comments posted about the potentially offending nature of the topic of this thread will be ignored by me. If you have any other questions, feel free to PM me and I'll answer if I think it's warranted. Thanks.
Please provide details like these:
How did you meet the person you eventually cheated with?
How long did you know him or her for before you gave in to temptation with that person?
What made you cross the line from being faithful with your SO to cheating with the person of your affair?
Was it an emotional or physical affair first and what did it turn into later?
What did you get out of the affair that you didn't get from your primary relationship?
Was this the only affair you ever had? (If not, you may post about others separately.)
Are you still involved in this affair?
If the affair was ended, who ended it, and why?
How did ending the affair feel to you?
Did you spouse or SO ever find out about your affair?
Do you have any regrets for what you did? Would you do things differently or the same next time?
Post-affair, were there consequences later in your primary relationship with your spouse or SO? If so, what were they?
Was one of those consequences acquiring an STD or STI?
About the personal bios posted here:
This thread is NOT for judgments, rude comments, probing questions or attacks by readers. I would just like to hear people's experiences with being the cheater and how it went. So, posts relevant to the topic only please and NO comments on them from readers. If anyone has a question or comments about what you've read, please PM the poster about it privately.
Some people do cheat, I'd like to delve into the why's and how's. If you have a problem with the topic, rant about it elsewhere. Negative comments posted about the potentially offending nature of the topic of this thread will be ignored by me. If you have any other questions, feel free to PM me and I'll answer if I think it's warranted. Thanks.
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