Jerseyshore
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I'm in my mid-50's too, and I don't like to think of myself as older. Unfortunately, I have to except the changes. The worst one being (at least for me) is that right now I'm having erection problems that the pills cannot fix. I too had some very good fuck buddies who were older back when I was in my late 20's and early thirties. The difference perhaps from your story was that I was a top, that craved an older men who didn't mind me being such a randy top. One that I was especially compatible was a guy who was 14 years older than me. The first time I fucked him, I tried to make it good for him, but it was a bit painful. It wasn't so much my fault but the fact in his teens he had a lot of prostate infections for which he had to take antibiotics. Nevertheless, in some way it must have been enjoyable as he kept coming back. I loved giving him the full treatment -- carry him into the bedroom, give him long back rubs, rim him, finger him, and then finally penetrate him. For some reason his body fit mine like a glove. Unfortuantely, though my sex drive was so much higher than his, he could not deal with a serious relationship. he preferred to have a rotation of men for different days of the week. The sex was great, but it really got old only having my turn on Tuesdays. When I did have my appointments he rarely turned me down. He would even letl me fuck him during the night when I would wake up with an erection. He loved how I could slip it in again just from the lub that was still there from any earlier fuck that same night..
Older men do make WONDERFUL bottoms. They tend to know how important cleanliness is. They also are more likely to be ok with slower lasting sessions. They also know how to make a younger man feel strong, masculine, intelligent. They can also make you feel like you have a wonderful cock even if it is only average. They simply know how younger men need their egos stroked as much as their cocks.
Sadily, for myself, I was always a top. It gets harder to be a top as you get older as you just cannot do it as often, you cannot get hard on a dime, and like with myself many start to have erection problems. When I was young, I could easily fuck multiple times a night, and I could also do seconds back to back after the first time. Where as bottoms are like wine they get better over time.
I still get off on porn where the older, more masculine, more hairy, more muscular guy gets fucked. If someone were to watch me get off on that, they might think I'm putting myself in their shoes. Howevrer, I'm actually still putting myself in the shoes of the younger, guy so desperate to connect with a older wiser man who lets the younger man inside his body. Even with my erection problems, I will still state that there is NOTHING in this world more intense or satisfying than to have your entire cock inside a man who wants you inside him. I'm not talking about the kind of guys that want anything, and anybody up there, but someone who makes you feel like it is you personally who is invited inside.
For some over time, their interests change because they get bored with the same thing. I will never get bored wanting to be inside a butch, hairy, muscular, guy. As I have said before being inside a guy is the closest thing to heaven on earth. The only thing better is if you're loving each other too as that is heaven.
As an older bottom I like the changes in myself that makes sex less of a contact sport and more of a tender, longer-lasting experience. Your last paragraph is especially nice. My partner and I are very much in love and this relationship has the most oneness of any I have encountered. We are enjoying growing older together and enjoy our mature years very much.