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...as we, apparently, all seem to do, if you were ultimately able to find the right guy with the right cock, etc., how did you make it happen? How (and where did you find him) did you get from seeing pictures of him, or meeting him irl, to being down on your knees between his legs, sucking his huge cock?
 
...as we, apparently, all seem to do, if you were ultimately able to find the right guy with the right cock, etc., how did you make it happen? How (and where did you find him) did you get from seeing pictures of him, or meeting him irl, to being down on your knees between his legs, sucking his huge cock?

This is why they invented the internet lol. For me it was a transgender woman I met on a dating site. After chatting and camming for a while, I traveled to meet her. I spent a week with her and it was a great experience.
 
This is why they invented the internet lol. For me it was a transgender woman I met on a dating site. After chatting and camming for a while, I traveled to meet her. I spent a week with her and it was a great experience.

What was the dating site? ;-)
 
What was the dating site? ;-)

There are several dating sites which focus on transgender women in the Philippines and Thailand as well as other countries. Among them are Ladyboykisses, Myladyboydate, Pinalove and ThaiFriendly.

The term ladyboy used to be used there but it has become passé. My girlfriend always refers to herself as transgender.
 
There are several dating sites which focus on transgender women in the Philippines and Thailand as well as other countries. Among them are Ladyboykisses, Myladyboydate, Pinalove and ThaiFriendly.

The term ladyboy used to be used there but it has become passé. My girlfriend always refers to herself as transgender.

Speaking of which, I still don't understand the genetics in the case of those transgenders who physically and facially really do seem like girls, except they have a penis. Is this a known genetic phenomenon in science, to your knowledge. In other cases, I think someone was born a boy, and only later figured out that his/her inner identity was female. I am certainly not an authority on the subject but I'll admit some of those Thai ladyboys/trandgenders that I've seen in porn make me horny.
 
Speaking of which, I still don't understand the genetics in the case of those transgenders who physically and facially really do seem like girls, except they have a penis.
It's the genes you inherit that affect your bone structure and thereby, physical appearance. I expect you've seen cis-gender women who look like men? Same thing - whatever gene combinations you were dealt at conception will later affect your appearance, most especially after puberty.

That said, you can halt the effects of puberty on a male XY developing body by blocking the natural hormones - notably testosterone. Doing so inhibits the normal process that creates those defining male physical characteristics...
- bone density, shoulders & rib cage, adam's apple, facial & cranial bone, long limb length etc. If you stop that happening then a person retains that androgynous appearance we see in kids.

Now if you introduce estrogen you can encourage female characteristics, but like testosterone, they can only work with a person's gene combination ie if grandma had large breasts you might too... I'm not sure parent/grandparent inherited traits are anything other than probabilities.

Is this a known genetic phenomenon in science, to your knowledge. In other cases, I think someone was born a boy, and only later figured out that his/her inner identity was female. I am certainly not an authority on the subject but I'll admit some of those Thai ladyboys/trandgenders that I've seen in porn make me horny.
So back to Escierto's lovely gf. Her genes are drawn from that east asian/polynesian group which compared to anglo-saxon males are not as tall, less bone thickness, different facial shape etc so she's ahead of the game in that respect.:)

You're quite right that a person figures out their gender identity along the way. For many people, that might mean a whimsical notion one afternoon that they dismiss "Of course I'm a boy" but for transgender people there's a insistent and consistent mismatch "Why is everyone calling me a boy? - I'm a girl!"

If it's shown that an individual is definitely trans, the earlier those hormone changes can be altered the better. They will fit into society because they'll take on the physical appearance of their gender identity - often called 'passing'.

I sometimes have a giggle at the posted photos of 'shemales'. I'm not photoshop expert and clearly many of those playing around with cut n pasted dicks have lost all sense of reality! The most obvious trait to check, if you're interested, is ribcage size, waistline, forehead... which are almost impossible to reverse once natal puberty has occurred. Don't compare trans women to a standard that even most cis-gender woman don't match! Standards are BS in any case - we shouldn't judge a person by their appearance should we?

Hope this helped :)
 
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There are several dating sites which focus on transgender women in the Philippines and Thailand as well as other countries. Among them are Ladyboykisses, Myladyboydate, Pinalove and ThaiFriendly.

The term ladyboy used to be used there but it has become passé. My girlfriend always refers to herself as transgender.
We are living in Thailand right now and as a CD sissy myself it is fantastic. Some, especially older ones, still use the term "ladyboy", but most just say "trans" or "tranny".
 
...as we, apparently, all seem to do, if you were ultimately able to find the right guy with the right cock, etc., how did you make it happen? How (and where did you find him) did you get from seeing pictures of him, or meeting him irl, to being down on your knees between his legs, sucking his huge cock?
are you wanting to meet people IRL
 
It's the genes you inherit that affect your bone structure and thereby, physical appearance. I expect you've seen cis-gender women who look like men? Same thing - whatever gene combinations you were dealt at conception will later affect your appearance, most especially after puberty.

That said, you can halt the effects of puberty on a male XY developing body by blocking the natural hormones - notably testosterone. Doing so inhibits the normal process that creates those defining male physical characteristics...
- bone density, shoulders & rib cage, adam's apple, facial & cranial bone, long limb length etc. If you stop that happening then a person retains that androgynous appearance we see in kids.

Now if you introduce estrogen you can encourage female characteristics, but like testosterone, they can only work with a person's gene combination ie if grandma had large breasts you might too... I'm not sure parent/grandparent inherited traits are anything other than probabilities.


So back to Escierto's lovely gf. Her genes are drawn from that east asian/polynesian group which compared to anglo-saxon males are not as tall, less bone thickness, different facial shape etc so she's ahead of the game in that respect.:)

You're quite right that a person figures out their gender identity along the way. For many people, that might mean a whimsical notion one afternoon that they dismiss "Of course I'm a boy" but for transgender people there's a insistent and consistent mismatch "Why is everyone calling me a boy? - I'm a girl!"

If it's shown that an individual is definitely trans, the earlier those hormone changes can be altered the better. They will fit into society because they'll take on the physical appearance of their gender identity - often called 'passing'.

I sometimes have a giggle at the posted photos of 'shemales'. I'm not photoshop expert and clearly many of those playing around with cut n pasted dicks have lost all sense of reality! The most obvious trait to check, if you're interested, is ribcage size, waistline, forehead... which are almost impossible to reverse once natal puberty has occurred. Don't compare trans women to a standard that even most cis-gender woman don't match! Standards are BS in any case - we shouldn't judge a person by their appearance should we?

Hope this helped :)

Whenever I read your posts in response to this type of question, I always think to myself, “I am so glad that she is here!”.
 
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The term ladyboy used to be used there but it has become passé. My girlfriend always refers to herself as transgender.
Perhaps but its common usage, stick around for another 100 years or so.
"transgender" it may be, however it is also white-wash polite-speak for the grey people to use... and therefore a copout if something more appropriate is useful and understood.
All these have variations that just add to the obfuscation, which is what 'they' want to happen...
 
You're quite right that a person figures out their gender identity along the way.
You say that with some authority, yet we know that a certain society close to us (and populations here, so we see them) where young boys are taken into and treated as girls from toddlers- because society there doesnt have enough 'daughters' to push around and do work for them- thus so 'Faʻafafine' are 'made', not born.

This patriarchal society (that includes manly attributes as anti-female violence, rape, thuggery and murder of children etc.) is accepted when it is clearly NOT acceptable in any society. Once made (ie aged and growing up) such people may identify how they choose- many, many commit suicide because of social issues and anxiety (they are also expected to 'put out' like women of old) or suffer the consequences.

These are vastly different to children reaching puberty or maturity and 'discovering' their different qualities... that may be optional to them; others are not.
 
Some fucking moron wants to slam the use of the word “transgender”? How about being respectful and using the word that they prefer? Believe me, the Philippines is not a progressive society (of course neither is the US!) but if even there, they are ceasing to use the word “ladyboy” what does that tell you?
 
...as we, apparently, all seem to do, if you were ultimately able to find the right guy with the right cock, etc., how did you make it happen? How (and where did you find him) did you get from seeing pictures of him, or meeting him irl, to being down on your knees between his legs, sucking his huge cock?
I found the right guy while browsing on Squirt. We started messaging come to find out we are from the same small town and he was a year behind me in school. He invited me to his house and some hot sex followed. He loved me sucking his cock but all I ever got was a handjob. That was fine with me. This turned into a at least weekly meeting. He would text me when he was horny. I would beat it over to his place. The front door was unlocked and he would be waiting in a hot jock or just standing there naked. I couldn’t wait to be on my knees swallowing his hard cock. Sometimes I would swallow his big load and sometimes just shoot it all over me. This happened in my late 50’s.
 
...as we, apparently, all seem to do, if you were ultimately able to find the right guy with the right cock, etc., how did you make it happen? How (and where did you find him) did you get from seeing pictures of him, or meeting him irl, to being down on your knees between his legs, sucking his huge cock?
I've posted this in many threads, but here goes again the short version.

I was 40, twice divorced and very horny. The old Yahoo had chat rooms for bi and gay folks. He was younger, maybe 31-32 and he lived in the next town and lived alone in an apartment building. He seemed real nice and invited me over. I panicked at his doorway, but finally got the courage to let him ring me in.

Within five minutes I was naked with his cock in my mouth. From memory the next time we met the following week I bent over and he took my ass.

I had not been with a guy oral or anal in almost 25 years! We played for about three years, including two three MMM threesomes. Some great times!!!
 
You say that with some authority, yet we know that a certain society close to us (and populations here, so we see them) where young boys are taken into and treated as girls from toddlers- because society there doesnt have enough 'daughters' to push around and do work for them- thus so 'Faʻafafine' are 'made', not born.

This patriarchal society (that includes manly attributes as anti-female violence, rape, thuggery and murder of children etc.) is accepted when it is clearly NOT acceptable in any society. Once made (ie aged and growing up) such people may identify how they choose- many, many commit suicide because of social issues and anxiety (they are also expected to 'put out' like women of old) or suffer the consequences.

These are vastly different to children reaching puberty or maturity and 'discovering' their different qualities... that may be optional to them; others are not.
I've heard about the Samoan culture ( why hide the name? ) . In the rest of the world we call that child abuse and quite the opposite from what I was describing. It would be a mistake to draw conclusions by a false comparison. Listening to and respecting your child as you guide them through life is not what is reported to happen with Fa'afafine. I don't understand the process by which the parents 'divine' what gender their child = Superstition? Magic? but it sounds like bullshit.

I'll link this over to my thread because I can see posters are expecting a different style of thread/discussion. Happy to carry on there if you like.
 
Speaking of which, I still don't understand the genetics in the case of those transgenders who physically and facially really do seem like girls, except they have a penis. Is this a known genetic phenomenon in science, to your knowledge. In other cases, I think someone was born a boy, and only later figured out that his/her inner identity was female. I am certainly not an authority on the subject but I'll admit some of those Thai ladyboys/trandgenders that I've seen in porn make me horny.
I went through puberty as a male even though it felt wrong. Years later I transitioned. I hired a makeup person to teach me about makeup. She had never met anyone in my family. She did her thing and then let me look in the mirror ... and I was a dead ringer for my mother.

I don't think I "pass" ... but I've lost track of the number of times a store clerk or other total stranger uses female pronouns to address me.

The point being, much of what we term "gender" is presentation.
 
I went through puberty as a male even though it felt wrong. Years later I transitioned. I hired a makeup person to teach me about makeup. She had never met anyone in my family. She did her thing and then let me look in the mirror ... and I was a dead ringer for my mother.

I don't think I "pass" ... but I've lost track of the number of times a store clerk or other total stranger uses female pronouns to address me.

The point being, much of what we term "gender" is presentation.

Wait a second. You don’t think you pass yet you were a dead ringer for your mother?
 
It's the genes you inherit that affect your bone structure and thereby, physical appearance. I expect you've seen cis-gender women who look like men? Same thing - whatever gene combinations you were dealt at conception will later affect your appearance, most especially after puberty.

That said, you can halt the effects of puberty on a male XY developing body by blocking the natural hormones - notably testosterone. Doing so inhibits the normal process that creates those defining male physical characteristics...
- bone density, shoulders & rib cage, adam's apple, facial & cranial bone, long limb length etc. If you stop that happening then a person retains that androgynous appearance we see in kids.

Now if you introduce estrogen you can encourage female characteristics, but like testosterone, they can only work with a person's gene combination ie if grandma had large breasts you might too... I'm not sure parent/grandparent inherited traits are anything other than probabilities.


So back to Escierto's lovely gf. Her genes are drawn from that east asian/polynesian group which compared to anglo-saxon males are not as tall, less bone thickness, different facial shape etc so she's ahead of the game in that respect.:)

You're quite right that a person figures out their gender identity along the way. For many people, that might mean a whimsical notion one afternoon that they dismiss "Of course I'm a boy" but for transgender people there's a insistent and consistent mismatch "Why is everyone calling me a boy? - I'm a girl!"

If it's shown that an individual is definitely trans, the earlier those hormone changes can be altered the better. They will fit into society because they'll take on the physical appearance of their gender identity - often called 'passing'.

I sometimes have a giggle at the posted photos of 'shemales'. I'm not photoshop expert and clearly many of those playing around with cut n pasted dicks have lost all sense of reality! The most obvious trait to check, if you're interested, is ribcage size, waistline, forehead... which are almost impossible to reverse once natal puberty has occurred. Don't compare trans women to a standard that even most cis-gender woman don't match! Standards are BS in any case - we shouldn't judge a person by their appearance should we?

Hope this helped :)
This is the most insightful post I've read on the topic.
 
I've heard about the Samoan culture ( why hide the name? ) . In the rest of the world we call that child abuse and quite the opposite from what I was describing. It would be a mistake to draw conclusions by a false comparison. Listening to and respecting your child as you guide them through life is not what is reported to happen with Fa'afafine. I don't understand the process by which the parents 'divine' what gender their child = Superstition? Magic? but it sounds like bullshit.

I'll link this over to my thread because I can see posters are expecting a different style of thread/discussion. Happy to carry on there if you like.
The photoshopping is terrible. Use of hormones does reduce the male size or increases the female attributes. M2F on hormones do not have larger cocks as hormones will take that away. Erections can stop and nipples and breasts develop. Stickgirl has been one of the best to speak of reality of what really happens.
 
The photoshopping is terrible. Use of hormones does reduce the male size or increases the female attributes. M2F on hormones do not have larger cocks as hormones will take that away. Erections can stop and nipples and breasts develop. Stickgirl has been one of the best to speak of reality of what really happens.

My girl without hormones. She did a little photoshopping but not too much.58AB0EB7-B8BB-4733-A050-93CF6DC067AC.jpeg
 
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