you don't love me

[LiFeNdEaTh]

you love my dick.

lol...


quick story short...

ive been seeing this girl for the past 5 months, an come to look at it.. she's already telling me those words "I LOVE YOU". she expected me to say it back, an all i said was "thank you, now i know" lol.. sounds tough, but hey... i'm not feeling her the same way she does for me.


yep.. just had to air that out.

 

[AprilMorning]

I would have just acted like I didn't hear her...

 

[LiFeNdEaTh]

I would have just acted like I didn't hear her...

at first i did, but than she repeated at me.

that's when i said what i said..

<--- doesn't like hurting girls feeling.. but damn, some of them just move a bit too fast for me when it comes to loving them back. lol

sad, but true talk.

 

[eyer]

Not interesting...

 

[Tryharder62]

As a friend and a girl - I am guessing there has been sex involved. 5 months. You are really surprised there may be feelings involved? The intimacy turns the love meter on high for some people. Be gentle

 

[LiFeNdEaTh]

As a friend and a girl - I am guessing there has been sex involved. 5 months. You are really surprised there may be feelings involved? The intimacy turns the love meter on high for some people. Be gentle

don't get me wrong, she's coo people.. but i'm just not ready for all that loving shit, lol..

 

[Tryharder62]

Just be yourself. That's all you can do.

 

[devinity7]

I'd just tell her that you take that stuff seriously (not that she doesn't) and it takes you longer to develop those types of feelings. Maybe she won't expect to hear it back when she says it.

 

[ms_ann_thrope]

I never considered you as a sexual being. Zoom.

 

[LiFeNdEaTh]

Just be yourself. That's all you can do.

that's what ive been doing, for the most part.. i'm just gonna act like i didnt hear it lol... cuz honestly, i dont know what else to tell her. she already knows i want nothing that serious, but if it do... it'll take some time, cuz i dont like rushing stuff.

 

[LiFeNdEaTh]

I never considered you as a sexual being. Zoom.

sheeiiiit... i'ma mothafucking freeeeak when it comes to sex!

 

[mustang200]

You'd be surprised at how many women (and some men) consider the act of coitus to be a formal proposal of marriage contract.

 

[Noor]

I am very slow to love and most guys get frustrated by that.
Also there is love and there is love, but often I see people mistake lust for love.
She maybe just confused. I get in lust a lot, being in love is a fantasy which is nice for a bit but if there is no action behind to follow, it is meaningless.

I would ask her where she wants things to go and see if that is where you want to go. I have had men tell me they love me especially after sex or waking up in the morning, I am sure they believed it at the time but it's just words. Unless they want to change the relationship/interactions it is just a feeling, nothing more.

I forgot sexual obsession which some people think of as love.

 

[koalabear]

that's what ive been doing, for the most part.. i'm just gonna act like i didnt hear it lol... cuz honestly, i dont know what else to tell her. she already knows i want nothing that serious, but if it do... it'll take some time, cuz i dont like rushing stuff.

Just tell her you are still focusing on the lust.

 

[LiFeNdEaTh]

Just tell her you are still focusing on the lust.

lol.. i might just do that, let's see what happens tomorro when she comes over.

 

[Squibbs]

don't get me wrong, she's coo people.. but i'm just not ready for all that loving shit, lol..

Plus she's your sister.

So there's that.

 

[LiFeNdEaTh]

This message is hidden because Squibbs is on your ignore list.

 

[ms_ann_thrope]

You'd be surprised at how many women (and some men) consider the act of coitus to be a formal proposal of marriage contract.

I guess that technically makes me a bigamist.

 

[knot_sweet]

"I love you" is not a question, but when said most people wait for an answer.

Quoted off a random facebook page, but still none the less true despite the source.

There's not much you can do about how she feels if you've already explained you're not looking for that kind of relationship yet.

 

[LiFeNdEaTh]

"I love you" is not a question, but when said most people wait for an answer.

Quoted off a random facebook page, but still none the less true despite the source.

There's not much you can do about how she feels if you've already explained you're not looking for that kind of relationship yet.

i know, kinda of a knucklehead girl at times when it comes to her listening or taking what i told her serious. lol

cuz sometimes, i feel like it doesn't go thru her head at times. lol

 

[imFlyingsolo]

I agree with koalabear...

Be honest and tell her you are in the lust phase yet and not ready to move to the next L word.

 

[LiFeNdEaTh]

I agree with koalabear...

Be honest and tell her you are in the lust phase yet and not ready to move to the next L word.

i will... she's coming over tomorro.