DMBFFF
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I'll respond to the other points when I'm not on a phone. But 're this:
"Sad to read about the miscarriage.
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I think you've misread the post. The pregnancy wasn't a result of not taking precautions - it was an IVF conception.
They didn't miscarry - the baby died during the birth.
Oops: my error. Sorry.
And they weren't facing the possibility of raising a handicapped child - it was 'incompatible with life'. There was next to no chance of her surviving beyond a week or two.
I overlooked that too a bit, though my argument stands [I'm somewhat sure of]; and I'd likely give a women a pass in that event, too.
Again, I got to give these pages a better read—as adrina indicated; but it will likely be later.
Also, you seem to be implying it's the woman's job to 'take precautions'. You do understand how pregnancy happens?
Kind of. Aside from rape, a woman, or a man, is responsible for what happens in sex, at least in the practical sense. As a woman you likely know that more than I. You have a far far greater interest in your own health and happiness than any man—save maybe some close male relatives or a very good male SO (or maybe SOs). Unless you refrain from procreative sex, practice near 100% effective contraception, have a half a million in the bank account, or the certainty that the man impregnating you is very loyal and capable, or live in a country that'd treat your pregnancy and raising children as something that itself worthy of, say, +60% PCI pay, or a decent combination of these, what happens to you is essentially your responsibility.
(If I was a woman, I'd be such a feminist. I'd likely live in my feminist-dream-world-of-sorts.)
