Yo femsubs

[Netzach]

Ok, a quick rundown of people NOT into a D/g thing.

My switching ass represents.

Anyone?

 

[CutieMouse]

He calls me "Baby", but that's kind of his (currently reserved) standard way of addressing the person he's trying to charm the panties off of... but no, other than that, I wouldn't ID things as D/g.

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

Me . Never have and no tenacity towards it in the future.

 

[Netzach]

Yeah, I'm sometimes baby but the way the bartender I have the hots for is baby or he's Baby big B.

 

[Netzach]

Just checking to see if I'm a freak show or if there are others of my ilk.

 

[CutieMouse]

Yeah, I'm sometimes baby but the way the bartender I have the hots for is baby or he's Baby big B.

Exactly. LOL

I looked into D/g stuff about a year or so ago, and part of me sees the appeal, kind of, but I just don't go there. I'm not all that sure why... I think I'm sticking with the "irrevernt asshole/custom fitted pussy" descriptor, instead.


(Can we tell it's been a really long few weeks, and the Mouse is eyeballing the wine in the frige?)

Edited to change wine to vanilla rum & coke, and fix a typo.

 

[Netzach]

Exactly. LOL

I looked into D/g stuff about a year or so ago, and part of me sees the appeal, kind of, but I just don't go there. I'm not all that sure why... I think I'm sticking with the "irrevernt asshole/custom fitted pussy" descriptor, instead.


(Can we tell it's been a really long few weeks, and the Mouse it eyeballing the wine in the frige?)

Aw crap, I better go get some before I'm SOL and it's Sunday.

/selfhijack

 

[shy slave]

I am with rebecca and cutie on this.

Thanks to some people here I understand the dynamic alot better than I did, but I would still struggle to call someone that, or fully understand the connotation of what I was actually saying.

I find the same with the word 'Master' I can't recall a single time I called Andante that. It just seemed false, as if I had stolen the word from someone else.

I tend to call people 'darling' or 'gorgeous'

It is the way I say it that makes the difference, not who I say it too.

Andante used to call me 'girl'

With his accent it sounded very intimate.

As to this new person I am talking to...at present I use his name. I know he likes 'Sir' but it is too early to call him that. Not a word I have ever used, will have to see how it feels in my head when I say it out loud.

 

[A Desert Rose]

Not my style but then goth clothing's not my style, either.

Oh Lord, that's a scary picture in my head now... me dressed in goth stuff.

But whatever trips your trigger.

 

[shy slave]

Not my style but then goth clothing's not my style, either.

Oh Lord, that's a scary picture in my head now... me dressed in goth stuff.

But whatever trips your trigger.

If you do dress up like that, we will wait a pic as proof

 

[Quint]

...........

 

[Netzach]

Why don't you go start a thread or something, missy.

Aw, thanks!

 

[MasterPhoenix]

Not a fem or a sub, but will chime in...

A lot of My style as a Dom is very Daddy... and right at this moment, our relationship is very D/g.

*slips back out of the thread*

 

[wicked woman]

Nope not for me, but that's one of the things I like about D/s. It's not one stop fits all. It has enough flexibility that we all seem to be able to find someone who agrees with what we want/need.

 

[A Desert Rose]

Nope not for me, but that's one of the things I like about D/s. It's not one size fits all ages. It has enough flexibility that we all seem to be able to find someone who agrees with what we want/need.

I fixed your post to fit my size... LOL

This is why goth stuff on me would be so scary.

 

[Byakuya]

ok, I'm naive.. what does D/G stand for? I looked in the dictionary and I couldn't find it.. I looked in urbandictionary.com and the only thing it said was something about Draco Malfoy/Ginerva Weasley from Harry Potter.. someone help me out here..

 

[A Desert Rose]

ok, I'm naive.. what does D/G stand for? I looked in the dictionary and I couldn't find it.. I looked in urbandictionary.com and the only thing it said was something about Draco Malfoy/Ginerva Weasley from Harry Potter.. someone help me out here..

Daddy/girl or Daddy/little girl in addition to the usual D/s or M/s

 

[catalina_francisco]

Not my or our thing either...lol, I actually think he has a bigger aversion to it than I, and that's saying something.

Catalina

 

[Netzach]

Not my or our thing either...lol, I actually think he has a bigger aversion to it than I, and that's saying something.

Catalina

I asked him if he liked being called Daddy. I know this T girl he plays with calls him that sometimes, so I wondered.

He sighed and rolled his eyes and said "if you must." Nah, I don't must.

 

[Bandit58]

It's not in our dynamic either. He is Master, or Sir. It would feel a bit icky for me to call Him Daddy

 

[catalina_francisco]

I asked him if he liked being called Daddy. I know this T girl he plays with calls him that sometimes, so I wondered.

He sighed and rolled his eyes and said "if you must." Nah, I don't must.

I can't even say where my aversion comes from...perhaps it is that I don't ever wnat to go back to my childhood, even a fantasy form...or maybe I just can't let that bit of feminism go whereby I feel the need to have a 'Daddy' to nurture, guide, and mold into what he thinks fit...strange given I am OK with it as a slave, but then perhaps it is I see that as an adult role to someone who values those things I am and have learned as an adult.

Catalina

 

[ecstaticsub]

To be honest I'm not sure...probably a little bit. I call him Daddy but he has never referred to me as his little girl nor do I act like a little girl with him. He is nurturing in some ways, one of his orders 2 years ago was that I always keep my car at least half full of gas and that I keep a car adapter for my cell phone in my car at all times.

In my marriage I am extremely independent and I take care of husband, kids the house the bills everything. My husband expects me to take care of myself. No complaints from me, that is just the way things are.

But it is wonderful to have a "Daddy" that does check up on me to make sure I am taking care of myself.

 

[myinnerslut]

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[BiBunny]

Ok, before I can even comment, I have to say, Netz, I your new av.

I'm not sure which category I fall under here. I like ageplay to an extent. It's not a lifestyle choice for me, though; it's more of a fun thing to play with occasionally.

However...and this is a big "however"...even when I do the little girl thing, he is never, never, never, NEVER under any circumstances "Daddy." Daddy is my biological father, whom I worship and idolize. (I have the biggest non-sexual Electra complex you ever did see; I'm an only child, Daddy's little girl, and all that.) No man will ever measure up to my Daddy in my mind--B. included--, and to call someone else "Daddy" is the biggest sign of disrespect toward my father that I can possibly imagine.

For that reason, I won't even consider a relationship with someone who's into the D/g thing. Not to mention the fact that many of the practitioners of this particular brand of BDSM are so sickeningly sweet with one another that I teeter on the brink of diabetic coma every time I have to listen to a forty-year-old "little girl" wax romantic about "Daddy."

 

[ecstaticsub]

I can't even say where my aversion comes from...perhaps it is that I don't ever wnat to go back to my childhood, even a fantasy form...or maybe I just can't let that bit of feminism go whereby I feel the need to have a 'Daddy' to nurture, guide, and mold into what he thinks fit...strange given I am OK with it as a slave, but then perhaps it is I see that as an adult role to someone who values those things I am and have learned as an adult.

Catalina

It is a funny thing about words..I understand the M/s dynamic and Sometimes I can see myself in that role. But never, ever could I handle being called a slave. The word to me personally never means consent.