Yet another anal thread

[SuperShyGuy]

First off, I know there's like 4000 other threads floating around on anal. Indulge me anyway.

I've never done anal play before and I'm just trying to get started, by myself. I've tried a couple times getting a finger up there, and to be honest I'm finding this rather difficult to manage. I haven't managed to get even one finger up there so far. No it isn't a mental block, I'm fine with trying this and rather curious about the whole thing.

First off, I'm having trouble keeping the muscles in my lower back and buttox relaxed, and obviously that isn't helping any. Is there something I can do to relax them a bit on my own? Maybe a posistion I should be trying this from that hasn't occured to me? By the way, I've been trying from lying on my back.

Secondly, I live off in a small town so I don't have access to any of the great lubes specifically sold for sexual usage, since there's no sex shops around here. What can I use that's more readily available? (This part sounds so stupid but I'll ask anyway) Is water a good lubricant to use? If not what should I try?

Another question that might seem stupid, but I'm a rookie here. Just how far should I be trying to get my finger to go? I mean it shouldn't be any problem to bury just a finger all the way up my ass should it?

I'm betting there was something else I wanted to ask but I've forgotten it for now. Anyway can anyone help me out here? Thanks.

 

[Guest]

First off, I know there's like 4000 other threads floating around on anal. Indulge me anyway.

I've never done anal play before and I'm just trying to get started, by myself. I've tried a couple times getting a finger up there, and to be honest I'm finding this rather difficult to manage. I haven't managed to get even one finger up there so far. No it isn't a mental block, I'm fine with trying this and rather curious about the whole thing.

First off, I'm having trouble keeping the muscles in my lower back and buttox relaxed, and obviously that isn't helping any. Is there something I can do to relax them a bit on my own? Maybe a posistion I should be trying this from that hasn't occured to me? By the way, I've been trying from lying on my back.

Secondly, I live off in a small town so I don't have access to any of the great lubes specifically sold for sexual usage, since there's no sex shops around here. What can I use that's more readily available? (This part sounds so stupid but I'll ask anyway) Is water a good lubricant to use? If not what should I try?

Another question that might seem stupid, but I'm a rookie here. Just how far should I be trying to get my finger to go? I mean it shouldn't be any problem to bury just a finger all the way up my ass should it?

I'm betting there was something else I wanted to ask but I've forgotten it for now. Anyway can anyone help me out here? Thanks.

Hi Sweety , long time no talk..
Try sitting at the desk , prop your legs upon it and try reaching under ... or standing maybe with a leg propped up upon something , easier access.
KY Silk E is a good one ... any store accessible. Water will wash away any natural lubricant your body may provide. And if you like it deep ... and it feels good , do it. Eventually you may even be able to try more than one or even a small vibe. And with the KY .. a lil goes a long way !

 

[SuperShyGuy]

Hi, Rain. Yeah I've been lurking a lot, so I haven't posted much recently.

KY Silk E is a good one ... any store accessible.

Really? I always thought that was a sex shop thing.

 

[Guest]

Hi, Rain. Yeah I've been lurking a lot, so I haven't posted much recently.



Really? I always thought that was a sex shop thing.

lol no sweety , some women have lubrication problems and use this .... you'll find it in the women's section in most stores. It's between 6 - 8 bucks a bottle. They also have tube gel. I like the bottle

 

[PrettyProse]

When I first tried anal, I had to push aside any notions I had gathered from people who didn't like it or wouldn't hear of doing it to just...do it. The first time, I couldn't go for long. The position we had was all wrong. The angle made it painful. I endured it for a little while. Then the next time we tried, I had him enter me while I laid flat on my stomach, I had already had my orgasm, he had plenty of lube and he went in slower. I was already relaxed and willing to try it out a second time, so things went smoothly and I actually enjoyed it enough to do it again a week later. Definitely not something I'd want to do every time, unless we've got toys to stimulate me and him more, like a vibrator so he can feel the vibrations as he enters me from behind. But he and I both really enjoyed that position: Me on bottom, stomach side down, and my legs together with him straddling me.

 

[OzoneRed]

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[qrayze]

the position I like best for solo anal play is me lying on my right side while my left hand "pokes" around the back door.

a tip you can do to help your sphincter relax is to massage it. put a bit of lube on the tip of your finger and just play with the rim of your anus for a bit, and when you start feeling aroused, begin to probe a little at a time.

I personally think that anal play isn't something to be done quickly but should be enjoyed slowly.

Oh, and when you're on your side, it makes it easy to read lit stories or watch porn.

 

[wicked woman]

This thread is over 7 years old folks. I'm sure we've had at least a dozen anal threads since then that you could add your contributions to.

 

[OzoneRed]

This thread is over 7 years old folks. I'm sure we've had at least a dozen anal threads since then that you could add your contributions to.

Never occurred to me to look at the post dates.

 

[PrettyProse]

Never occurred to me to look at the post dates.

LOL! Woops! Me neither. :\

 

[NippleMuncher]

A good rule of thumb, if you've had to go past page 2 or 3 to find the thread, it's likely better left dead. There are some worth reviving, such as joke threads, most are not.

 

[PrettyProse]

A good rule of thumb, if you've had to go past page 2 or 3 to find the thread, it's likely better left dead. There are some worth reviving, such as joke threads, most are not.

Huh...but this was on the first page when I found it. I think. I dunno. Lol.

 

[NippleMuncher]

Huh...but this was on the first page when I found it. I think. I dunno. Lol.

Just general info, but mostly pointed to the one who dredged up the old thread.