Yes, I am a dominant woman!

[Perpetual_Edge]

I want to come out of the closet! I need to accept the fact that there is no label or title for the type of woman I am.

Here is a little history and I'll try not to bore you. Being a strong and feminine woman is not easy. In my daily life, I have to tell people what to do and be motivating as well as positive all the time. I always have to have an answer and if I don't, I will find it. I enjoy it most of the time. In my relationships, I have found myself with men who think I am intimidating but are attracted to me nevertheless. They have wanted total submission from me but have not treated me as well as I would have liked. Therefore, I end up "pissing" them off because I am not as simple and uncomplicated as they would wish. One man even said, "all you have to do dear, is do as I say, all the time". I have never heard such ridiculous words coming from a man! Nothing would please me more than to open myself up to a man I adored and felt respect from. This man would be neither a smart ass or insecure about his sexuality. He would be open to me taking charge and totally orgasmic from my words and touch. The next day, he would be able to sense when I am feeling softer and more submissive. We would go with the flow of our passions and be able to read each other's wants and desires by various techniques like facial expression, breath and body language. Do any of you have any idea of what I want? Am I on the right track? How do I find a man who is not such an ogre! Why do I keep choosing these types or are they choosing me!

 

[Betticus]

Hi.

 

[MasterPhoenix]

welcome to the site... There are many ways you can find that which you seek.

 

[Xelebes]

It seems that I CANNOT SEND YOU A PM!!????!???!!!!???!! WHY???????!!!!!!!

 

[submissiveknight]

I had to scroll back up because the first thought that came to my mind is she has to be from Texas. I was right lol. It just a standing joke between my Mistress and I we always laugh at the mentality most men in Texas have for women.

 

[neonflux]

Perpetual_Edge,

Wishing you a hearty welcome, from a switch Texas sister.

And no, what you want is not too much to ask.
Neon

I had to scroll back up because the first thought that came to my mind is she has to be from Texas. I was right lol. It just a standing joke between my Mistress and I we always laugh at the mentality most men in Texas have for women.

Being Texas born and bred, am not sure how to take that, LOL.

After all, only Texas could have produced Molly Ivans and Anne Richards

Neon

 

[Aeroil]

It seems that I CANNOT SEND YOU A PM!!????!???!!!!???!! WHY???????!!!!!!!

Lollercoaster

Wow, I've never seen Xelebes' eyes get so buggy like that.

 

[trojan_man_co]

be yourself

sexuality and your inner self is something to be discovered its not something that happens over night. its about looking at yourself and organizing all those chaotic thoughts and ideas and realizing who you really are. any one who CANT handle that, you should keep out of your life. for what matters ultimately is your self.

 

[Retrieval]

I want to come out of the closet! I need to accept the fact that there is no label or title for the type of woman I am.

Here is a little history and I'll try not to bore you. Being a strong and feminine woman is not easy. In my daily life, I have to tell people what to do and be motivating as well as positive all the time. I always have to have an answer and if I don't, I will find it. I enjoy it most of the time. In my relationships, I have found myself with men who think I am intimidating but are attracted to me nevertheless. They have wanted total submission from me but have not treated me as well as I would have liked. Therefore, I end up "pissing" them off because I am not as simple and uncomplicated as they would wish. One man even said, "all you have to do dear, is do as I say, all the time". I have never heard such ridiculous words coming from a man! Nothing would please me more than to open myself up to a man I adored and felt respect from. This man would be neither a smart ass or insecure about his sexuality. He would be open to me taking charge and totally orgasmic from my words and touch. The next day, he would be able to sense when I am feeling softer and more submissive. We would go with the flow of our passions and be able to read each other's wants and desires by various techniques like facial expression, breath and body language. Do any of you have any idea of what I want? Am I on the right track? How do I find a man who is not such an ogre! Why do I keep choosing these types or are they choosing me!

There's such a thing as wanting to much.

 

[BlueEyesInLevis]

Why do you assume he would be so adept at reading your non-verbal clues? Just because he loves you? I think you are assuming too much and you need to have enough conviction in your emotions to be confident in verbalizing them. Can you honestly say you can always read a man's mind?

Furthermore, you seem to suggest that the mood and tempo of the lovemaking be all your decision. You say you dont want a man to be insecure in his sexuality, but in effect it seems to me that you do, in that you never once seem to consider his needs or desires.

Im sure there are men out there that are perfectly willing to subordinate all their needs and desires to yours, but just dont be suprised when they turn out to be little more than your doormat.

 

[Xelebes]

Lollercoaster

Wow, I've never seen Xelebes' eyes get so buggy like that.

You haven't seen buggy yet!

 

[submissiveknight]

Perpetual_Edge,

Wishing you a hearty welcome, from a switch Texas sister.

And no, what you want is not too much to ask.
Neon




Being Texas born and bred, am not sure how to take that, LOL.

After all, only Texas could have produced Molly Ivans and Anne Richards

Neon

Don't get me wrong I Texas!!! It's for sure that you usually can't find men that are more polite in their ways than a Texan, yes maam is certainly a favorite phrase

The joke between my Mistress and I is the fact that most not all Texan men will kind of overlook a woman's view towards something, like wave it off non-chalantly. Not that they don't respect women. It's just the personality trait that alot of them give off.

It started with our old neighbors and how they treated their wives! Now whenever She sees it, "oh that's just a Texan man thing" She says. lol

It's certainly not ment to be taken in a bad way though.

 

[neonflux]

Don't get me wrong I Texas!!! It's for sure that you usually can't find men that are more polite in their ways than a Texan, yes maam is certainly a favorite phrase

The joke between my Mistress and I is the fact that most not all Texan men will kind of overlook a woman's view towards something, like wave it off non-chalantly. Not that they don't respect women. It's just the personality trait that alot of them give off.

It started with our old neighbors and how they treated their wives! Now whenever She sees it, "oh that's just a Texan man thing" She says. lol

It's certainly not ment to be taken in a bad way though.

he he he he he... what part of texas are you living in? (and yes, there are many texas men who act that way, but I haven't found that to be only true of texas )

 

[submissiveknight]

he he he he he... what part of texas are you living in? (and yes, there are many texas men who act that way, but I haven't found that to be only true of texas )

North of Houston. Seems more prominant here, but I really didn't notice it till my Princess pointed it out to me! Sometimes it's hard to see, but othertimes it's plain as night and day.

 

[Tuomas]

I want to come out of the closet! I need to accept the fact that there is no label or title for the type of woman I am.

Here is a little history and I'll try not to bore you. Being a strong and feminine woman is not easy. In my daily life, I have to tell people what to do and be motivating as well as positive all the time. I always have to have an answer and if I don't, I will find it. I enjoy it most of the time. In my relationships, I have found myself with men who think I am intimidating but are attracted to me nevertheless. They have wanted total submission from me but have not treated me as well as I would have liked. Therefore, I end up "pissing" them off because I am not as simple and uncomplicated as they would wish. One man even said, "all you have to do dear, is do as I say, all the time". I have never heard such ridiculous words coming from a man! Nothing would please me more than to open myself up to a man I adored and felt respect from. This man would be neither a smart ass or insecure about his sexuality. He would be open to me taking charge and totally orgasmic from my words and touch. The next day, he would be able to sense when I am feeling softer and more submissive. We would go with the flow of our passions and be able to read each other's wants and desires by various techniques like facial expression, breath and body language. Do any of you have any idea of what I want? Am I on the right track? How do I find a man who is not such an ogre! Why do I keep choosing these types or are they choosing me!

I think you are suffering from the typical malase of our society. And, you must be rather atractive...

Anyhoo, people have been brought up with this largely over-romanticised view of relationships, and they expect everything to be like in the movies. It's not. People make mistakes. And it's not because they are men, but because they are human.

And, you have been subjected to a long string of assholes. That I can sympathize with.

 

[Aeroil]

I think you are suffering from the typical malase of our society. And, you must be rather atractive...

Anyhoo, people have been brought up with this largely over-romanticised view of relationships, and they expect everything to be like in the movies. It's not. People make mistakes. And it's not because they are men, but because they are human.

And, you have been subjected to a long string of assholes. That I can sympathize with.

It's partially because they are men.

 

[myinnerslut]

It's partially because they are men.

lol

 

[Milkdrops1]

dominent women are cool.

 

[IsabellaSnow]

Being a strong and feminine woman is not easy. In my daily life, I have to tell people what to do and be motivating as well as positive all the time. I always have to have an answer and if I don't, I will find it. I enjoy it most of the time. In my relationships, I have found myself with men who think I am intimidating but are attracted to me nevertheless. They have wanted total submission from me but have not treated me as well as I would have liked. Therefore, I end up "pissing" them off because I am not as simple and uncomplicated as they would wish. One man even said, "all you have to do dear, is do as I say, all the time".

Can relate to part of this. Am totally dominant in regular life (no desire to change) but want a more dominant man. I would get wet if the right man told me I had to say yes every single time. Send me one of your castaways, would you?

 

[Lester_Hammond]

I want to come out of the closet! I need to accept the fact that there is no label or title for the type of woman I am.

Here is a little history and I'll try not to bore you. Being a strong and feminine woman is not easy. In my daily life, I have to tell people what to do and be motivating as well as positive all the time. I always have to have an answer and if I don't, I will find it. I enjoy it most of the time. In my relationships, I have found myself with men who think I am intimidating but are attracted to me nevertheless. They have wanted total submission from me but have not treated me as well as I would have liked. Therefore, I end up "pissing" them off because I am not as simple and uncomplicated as they would wish. One man even said, "all you have to do dear, is do as I say, all the time". I have never heard such ridiculous words coming from a man! Nothing would please me more than to open myself up to a man I adored and felt respect from. This man would be neither a smart ass or insecure about his sexuality. He would be open to me taking charge and totally orgasmic from my words and touch. The next day, he would be able to sense when I am feeling softer and more submissive. We would go with the flow of our passions and be able to read each other's wants and desires by various techniques like facial expression, breath and body language. Do any of you have any idea of what I want? Am I on the right track? How do I find a man who is not such an ogre! Why do I keep choosing these types or are they choosing me!

It sounds as though you're really a submissive woman. But that is besides any point. Have you visited any dating websites?

Lester

 

[wickedlady31]

dom

welcome...I too like to grab the bull by it's horns....
Put men in their place!

 

[Rubnesque]

I had to scroll back up because the first thought that came to my mind is she has to be from Texas. I was right lol. It just a standing joke between my Mistress and I we always laugh at the mentality most men in Texas have for women.

That was my first thought too

 

[Perpetual_Edge]

I had to scroll back up because the first thought that came to my mind is she has to be from Texas. I was right lol. It just a standing joke between my Mistress and I we always laugh at the mentality most men in Texas have for women.

Why is that, oh mighty knight you ? !!

 

[Perpetual_Edge]

Perpetual_Edge,

Wishing you a hearty welcome, from a switch Texas sister.

And no, what you want is not too much to ask.
Neon




Being Texas born and bred, am not sure how to take that, LOL.

After all, only Texas could have produced Molly Ivans and Anne Richards

Neon

Thanks to you my "Texas Switch Sister"!

 

[littlegirlslut]

Greetings! Well I can relate - to a point. I'm very dominate in my daily life. I'm a take control, take no BS, get out of my way I'm on a mission kinda gal. But then there is the other half of me who is a slave, submissive, little girl, and for Him basically whatever He wants. It is such a release for me to have and something I absolutely need.

Whatever you consider yourself, remember that you are YOU. Tis all we can be. I'm still trying to figure out what makes me who I am.

Good luck!