WTF is with men? (Yes its a rant dont read if it offends you)

[Mistress]

What the fuck is up with men? You give them your heart, you give them your time and energy, your whole god damn soul and body...and they still arent fucking happy!

One minute they love you, then they are not sure if they still love you then they are fucking pissed off at you because your close friends have been comforting you over the fact that your heart has been broken. They say their 'position' has been filled when they see that someone just one fucking person has actually made you smile through all the tears!

Fucking go to hell, I'm not in the mood to mess with mind games, I don't want your fucking riddles, I just want you make up your god damn mind and stick to it so I can finish dying inside and go on with my fucking life! Blows to be in love....

And lord knows I am....

Sighs and shakes her head

 

[Guest]

You were warned about KidRock!

 

[Xander]

You were warned about KidRock!

Look, Fuck off you potlicker. THAT was uncalled for.

I am sorry to hear you are in pain Mistress....whoever the guy is......

 

[Mistress]

You were warned about KidRock!

I shit on KidRock1, this isn't about him.

 

[Guest]

We all saw the beautiful card you sent him, pledging your love. Don't lie.

 

[Mistress]

We all saw the beautiful card you sent him, pledging your love. Don't lie.

Oh fuck off...I never once said I loved him....

You know what though as much as you try to upset me by mention DumbFuck, it isn't going to work I got far more things in my life to upset me right now. You have no clue....
And you really need to get a fucking life, that shit went on at the beginning of the year...months ago, your really fucking pathetic.

 

[ToddHwrd]

Just leave the girl alone and let her rant and rave and get it out of her system, don't be an asshole and try to bring her down farther............

 

[Angel]

Misty..

Everyone fucks up. Sometimes it's a lack of communication, or a mistake on the part of one person. Sometimes people just don't give a fuck. You've been on both ends recently. Some people though you were the biggest bitch in the world for it. Are you? No. So maybe this guy isn't either - other than from where you're standing. It just sucks when you're on the recieving end.

We've all fucked up somewhere in a relationship. Nobody is perfect. Then again there are those out there who make it a point to fuck up constantly. It sucks but it's true.

Either way you feel like shit right now. Venting helps. Vent away. But don't let it get you too down. Sometimes shit happens for a reason.

 

[estevie]

I'm sorry Mistress. There is nothing we can say to make you feel better, I know there isn't. But just know that we are here for you should you need a shoulder. Rant away!

Men can be such asses sometimes, they don't know they are doing it half the time. YOU make the decisions about YOU. If this guy keeps messing with your head, you have the choice not to let him. I know that is easier said than done when you are in love, but you have to do it for you.

 

[Shy Tall Guy]

Men can be such asses sometimes, they don't know they are doing it half the time.

Sure we can be asses, and yes we often don't know it - but the same is true for women too - we don't have the corner on the market, not by a long shot. Men may not always wear their hearts on their sleeves, but we get our feelings hurt and our hearts broken too.

I know this isn't helping Mistress any, but does it really help her to bash men? How about just bashing people in general - hmmm?

I am sorry Mistress that you are hurting.

 

[LukkyKnight]

nah, go ahead, bash men - the troll is pretty clearly male.

"While You Loved Me"

If I ever write the story of my life
Don't be surprised if you're where it begins
Man, I'd have to dedicate every line on every page
To the memories we made, while you loved me

I was born the day you kissed me
And I died inside the night you left me
But I lived, oh how I lived
(I lived) While you loved me

I'd start with chapter one, love innocent and young
As the morning sun on a new day
Even though I know the end, Well I'd do it all again
'Cause I got a lifetime in, while you loved me

...just don't start rumors, I'm lobbing in a song nothing more.

 

[Dryfus3368]

I am sorry to hear about your bad breakup. It's hard. Nothing anyone can say will make it better. Hope that you make it through ok, and as the others have said, if you need to rant and rave, go ahead and rant and rave. We've all been there so we understand.













Dryfus

 

[Wanderer D]

Thank you all again. It's good to know she has people here who care.
*bow*

 

[modest mouse]

Mistress, I know you are in pain but I could have easily used your rant with the addition of some 'wo's. It goes bad sometimes no matter who is involved, or else all women would be lesbians.

 

[estevie]

Sure we can be asses, and yes we often don't know it - but the same is true for women too - we don't have the corner on the market, not by a long shot. Men may not always wear their hearts on their sleeves, but we get our feelings hurt and our hearts broken too.

I know this isn't helping Mistress any, but does it really help her to bash men? How about just bashing people in general - hmmm?

I am sorry Mistress that you are hurting.

I'm far from men bashing there, STG! I know women can be just as bad. But we weren't talking about women, a woman didn't hurt her, a man did...I structured my reply to that fact.

Trust me, my reply could have been alot worse with the men I have had to deal with today!

 

[Guest]

Awww..poor baby**HUGGY**

I call this kind of behaviour "stupid human tricks"
..and as mm said sweety, women are good at this sort of shit too..but i beleive the problem here DOES have to do with gender generally speaking..

Women get upset..tell their friends, cry, rant and generally Communicate alot when we're upset, we may even seek validation of our "worthiness" from another male, we don't see this as replacement..
ie"how could he be replacing "you" when all i ever do is cry about you, he's just trying to cheer me up" sort of thing..

Men on the other hand(yes i know i'm generalising alot)...will NOT tell you what's wrong, you're sposed to guess
and heavens help you if you guess wrong, lol..
sooo all that emotional turmoil just builds, and builds..all the while they're saying.."who me? NAH..nothings wrong.." and suppressing like crazy
'till they "pop"..sounds like that's what happened to you, but i'm just guessing..

whoever the guy is he should be flattered.. not pissed off,
his tantrumms got to you soo much you needed to vent your pain, beleive me boyo..if she didn't care..she would'nt talk about it so much.

i hope you feel better soon Mistress

Troll..what's your problem..won't any of the lit ladies talk to you?

so do you monitor the cyber-loves of everyone on the board, waiting for a chance to stick the knife in?
Cos that's pathetic..really really pathetic, you know if you eased up on the vitriol..you might not be so lonely.
just a thought.

 

[ZoeKat]

yeah..that was me..my computeer banishes cookies for fun

have some chocolate Mistress, that always cheers me up**offers box**

 

[*bratcat*]

 

[estevie]

We should just block em all...and stick with the women!!

k, but can we bring them out to play every once in a while? ohhhh, and to take out the garbage and fix our cars too? hehee

 

[*bratcat*]

wellllll....

 

[Xander]

This says it for me...I won't reply to anything else because there are a couple of those men that have supremely pissed me off today...toss in one sister-in-law...and ggggggrrrrrr.....

you send one email to someone pointing out that this is ONE reason why you don't post anything remotely resembling personal...and before you know it...WWXII is going off around you and you have NO clue what is going on until you start getting nasty emails from every direction...


We should just block em all...and stick with the women!!

okay thank you Cat, We're all assholes and bastards...A lower life form if you will.....kick me like a dog why dont you.

 

[*bratcat*]

 

[ZoeKat]

**whispers**hey Xander...

if the males in my family where defending someone with a major drug problem that was endangering not only her own child, but mine*hypothetical*as well..and i was being made into the bad guy for being responsible...and protecting my kids..

I'd be thinking they'd make good gimps too...LOL

which is just a shot in the dark BTW..i'm not speaking for *bratcat*..i hardly know her.. i really like what i've seen so far tho..

the "WAR" between the sexes is one of my pet hates..i'll shutup now.

 

[ZoeKat]

i know i was gonna shut up...but ROFLAO..

i REALLY don't get it, do i?..Mwahhahahhaaa
yup, i'm a total 'tard

 

[Xander]

hey, I haven't emailed YOU...Xan...ya know I love ya...

to tell the honest truth...all the Idontloveyouanymoremyheartisbrokensomeoneelseismovinginonmyex threads are getting kinda depressing...

I was trying to add a titch of humor...sorry if it insulted you.

You didnt insult me Cat. I know I'm insignificant to every single ex gf I have ever had in my entire life.
Most of them wouldn't care one way or the other if I lived or died.

Someone mmoving in on an ex of mine....well it's no longer any of my concern. If it stings (Which of course it does) you usually wont hear it from me.
No longer any of my business...............