WTF is it with the incest!?

[TomTeacher19]

None of us chooses our sexual wiring. Incest and yes, age difference FANTASIES (only), are so common it’s nearly unremarkable.

There are millions of bodies out there that almost everyone if they looked at from behind or the neck down or the the waist down you would find attractive and have some level of sexual thought or interest or desire for. And huge parts of that group are people who also happen to be under 18 or related to you or off limits for any number of good reasons. Doesn't change the attraction or initial thoughts or make them wrong or horrible. It's part of life and being a human. Fantasies don't hurt people.

 

[Theatreslut]

Excellent.
And your parents
Children.
Your work colleagues
Your Pastor.
Congregation.
Nothing to hide here after all...

There is a difference between not hiding and forcing people to be part of things they aren’t interested in.
For me, my husband knows everything I do here, and sometimes participates.
My mom and my husband’s parents actively would not want to know. Telling them would feel like forcing them into incest
I don’t have kids. My adult niece knows that she can talk to me about sex and that I’m sex positive. Anything else would be creepy
One of my pastor’s knows he has listened as I’ve figured out where my ethics lie. He doesn’t know what site or any details because that would be unethical giving the power dynamic.
I don’t hide anything from any of my friends. Some want to know more than others. I respect that. Some would be fine with details but sharing those details with them would feel weird because of our relationship.

 

[Theatreslut]

My wife sure does! And she's read and helped edit all my stories, too. I encourage her to read everything I've ever posted here on Lit.

I've not posted one remark or liked a single comment on Literotica that I can't defend as ethical. I don't have a problem with porn, or kink that is ethical.

I admire you for this

 

[Theatreslut]

I wish that stories involving incest had a clear label on the top. I really don’t care if it’s your thing. It’s not mine, and I don’t want to get partway into a story and discover it

 

[BlueChamisa]

I wish that stories involving incest had a clear label on the top. I really don’t care if it’s your thing. It’s not mine, and I don’t want to get partway into a story and discover it

I agree that people should not force their particular interests on anyone, or insert them into threads that have nothing to do with their kink. I just object to the shaming of someone's FANTASIES ... especially by any one of the lovable pervs/kinksters here. No need to do that!

 

[Theatreslut]

I agree that people should not force their particular interests on anyone, or insert them into threads that have nothing to do with their kink. I just object to the shaming of someone's FANTASIES ... especially by any one of the lovable pervs/kinksters here. No need to do that!

I think there is a difference between shaming and asking people to keep potential ptsd triggers to threads meant for them, so people can avoid them.
Fantasies involving consenting adults are fine. Unfortunately, for people who have been SAed, running into posts in random places talking about those fantasies does harm.
It’s the same thing as rape play. If everyone involved is actually consenting, go for it. Just try not to re traumatize people who are trying to take back their sexuality.
Have as many threads and stories as you want. Go wild. Just please label it and allow for spaces that don’t include that kink.

Somehow, I never accidentally run into gay male content. Which is something that doesn’t do anything for me, but which is an hugely important part of people’s lives, and a kink for others. Yet that content tends to be labeled so I know it’s not going to be my thing.

I feel the same way about things I do like. Hell, I even put a warning on the top of one of my stories that a man was involved, because previous chapters had been only women, and not everyone wants to hear about an erect penis (not to equate genitalia and gender)

 

[BlueChamisa]

I think there is a difference between shaming and asking people to keep potential ptsd triggers to threads meant for them, so people can avoid them.
Fantasies involving consenting adults are fine. Unfortunately, for people who have been SAed, running into posts in random places talking about those fantasies does harm.
It’s the same thing as rape play. If everyone involved is actually consenting, go for it. Just try not to re traumatize people who are trying to take back their sexuality.
Have as many threads and stories as you want. Go wild. Just please label it and allow for spaces that don’t include that kink.

Somehow, I never accidentally run into gay male content. Which is something that doesn’t do anything for me, but which is an hugely important part of people’s lives, and a kink for others. Yet that content tends to be labeled so I know it’s not going to be my thing.

I feel the same way about things I do like. Hell, I even put a warning on the top of one of my stories that a man was involved, because previous chapters had been only women, and not everyone wants to hear about an erect penis (not to equate genitalia and gender)

I was SA's as a boy, unfortunately (scoutmaster; still in prison; am part of the settlement with the Boy Scouts of America, who allowed him to continue harming boys long after I blew the whistle).

I will still stand by the right of any person to use their imagination for anything they like, so long as they do not impose it on people who do not wish to be a part of it. In that, we agree: People shouldn't intrude with their fantasies/kinks in threads where they don't belong.

But I have been a writer (a paid writer) my entire working life, and I strenuously resist the notion that certain things are "not allowed" to be imagined.

Consider, for example, the incredible popularity of murder mysteries and true-crime podcasts. I actually understand the delicate sensibilities of the latter, after hearing about the terrible murder of someone whose family I knew on a "true-crime" podcast (it turned me off of "true-crime" anything, in fact).

But I would never insist that people not be allowed to create or imagine as they wish.

Warnings are good. People should be courteous and correctly title their posts.

 

[Theatreslut]

I’m sorry you experienced that. I don’t think anyone here is saying that some kinks shouldn’t be allowed.
I think we are on the same page here. Enjoy your kinks just keep the discussion and stories in places where people are consenting to that kink

 

[BlueChamisa]

I’m sorry you experienced that. I don’t think anyone here is saying that some kinks shouldn’t be allowed.
I think we are on the same page here. Enjoy your kinks just keep the discussion and stories in places where people are consenting to that kink

I think that's more than fair.

 

[LMWM321]

I admire you for this

Thanks @Theatreslut

.. ..My wife knows we have a huge libido disparity in our marriage and understands that I need an outlet that is not destructive to our relationship. She's totally fine with my looking at porn and writing erotica (with her as my muse) so long as it's themes are consensual - ie., there is no coercion, violence, misogyny, etc.. AND so long as the porn I look at doesn't take my sexual interests in directions and distances that leave me feeling bored with the kind of sex that she enjoys. And it doesn't. ..Not even close. I'm totally nuts for my wife; even more so now than when we began dating.