WTF does this mean!!?!

[QuickDuck]

I'd keep the money. He obviously wanted to give it to you, so why not keep it?

Exactly.

Sometimes someone just wants to be nice.

Yes it was alot of money, but at the same time, he wanted you to have it.

Happy birthday and enjoy it.

I doubt the "you got paid for sex" angle came into it.... I would like to think you would have been given it as a gift, even if he hadn;t gotten sex.

I know i have done strange things like that before, simply because I wanted to.

 

[Cheyenne]

I am joining Lickerish in that astonishment.

You have been gone a long time.

What made you decide to return?

Glad to see the 'old guard' coming back.

I was wondering that myself. But it is nice to see some of the oldies back in town.

 

[Jim_Henson]

More astonishment here... and the thought that I should turn av's on.

 

[horny_giraffe]

To some people, money is simply not a big deal. Sometimes, because they have plenty (me) and other times because they just don't care to think about it. $500 is not a lot of money for me.

He was probably just too lazy to buy anything.

 

[Mischka]

Keep the money, but don't spend it. Instead, I recommend putting it into a mutual fund or at least a savings bond. Then you won't have weird associations with anything you'd buy with it, and it can quietly earn interest over the years until you want to splurge on something big.

 

[onewingedangel]

No committment!! after 11 months? I dont know about that... sounds kinda creepy when you throw the money thing into it.

 

[patrix]

I'm thinking he wants to get some butt sex going. give up the brown eye sweetie, for $500 he should be able to ride your hershey highway to his hearts content.

 

[Azwed]

I was wondering that myself. But it is nice to see some of the oldies back in town.

As long as Patryn does not come back.

 

[horny_giraffe]

I'm thinking he wants to get some butt sex going. give up the brown eye sweetie, for $500 he should be able to ride your hershey highway to his hearts content.

Yeah--if you're a whore named Sera.

 

[Melody_lane]

I am joining Lickerish in that astonishment.

You have been gone a long time.

What made you decide to return?

Glad to see the 'old guard' coming back.

I guess it has been awhile.
I've been busy! Working two jobs, getting ready to start school, while trying to maintain some kind of active fitness and social life. It leaves a miniscule amount of free time; sleep usually wins out over chit-chattin'.

I needed a bit of advice here, honestly---that's why the return. I wanted to hear diverse, possible reasons before I made any kind of decision. I like to believe I always consider all of the possibilities, but it's rarely true.

I don't want to make a mistake with this guy...I don't think I've ever cared so much for anyone.

 

[MechaBlade]

So, the guy I am dating for 11months, did an INCREDIBLY confusing thing...

For my birthday, he took me out to dinner, got me a little buzzed and fucked me.....all as per my request.

Then, he gives me, in a very nice, but very simple card......500 dollars.
I am seriously considering giving it back to him.

He keeps reminding and insisting that we are not in a relationship, not going to have a commitment, and here he is giving me a very hefty sum of money for not even a landmark-type birthday.

What does it mean? Or does it not mean anything?
Should I give the money back?

Help me, help me!


melody_lane

If this happened to me, I'd be as happy as a clam. Unless you're looking for a commitment. Then I feel embarrassed that you're still with him.

 

[Jim_Henson]

There is a PM with your name on it... and you should read

http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=80465

There is something about this guy, isnt there

Hmm maybe its Dix in disguise!

 

[Melody_lane]

I'm thinking he wants to get some butt sex going. give up the brown eye sweetie, for $500 he should be able to ride your hershey highway to his hearts content.

Been there, done that. Nice try.

Originally posted by horny_giraffe
To some people, money is simply not a big deal. Sometimes, because they have plenty (me) and other times because they just don't care to think about it. $500 is not a lot of money for me.

He was probably just too lazy to buy anything

$500 is a lot of money given the status of our relationship. It was more than was necessary.
And I don't think it was a case of laziness, either. He's just simply not lazy....besides, the card showed too much thought.

 

[Melody_lane]

There is a PM with your name on it... and you should read

http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=80465

There is something about this guy, isnt there

Hmm maybe its Dix in disguise!

You know, I re-read that thread. Seems this guy has been torturing me for awhile, huh? And, unfortunately, I do want a commitment from him.
We still get along wonderfully, the sex is still incredible, and my feelings have only grown stronger and deeper.

Now, where do I find this PM!?
This place has changed ten times over since I was here last.

 

[Jim_Henson]

Click on the scroll bar down below the boom post.... and scroll it right up to the top. Private messages, and then click on it

(I fucking KNEW I was goign to have to explain it!)

 

[Jim_Henson]

You know, I re-read that thread. Seems this guy has been torturing me for awhile, huh? And, unfortunately, I do want a commitment from him.
We still get along wonderfully, the sex is still incredible, and my feelings have only grown stronger and deeper.

Get him to give me the money, adn I'll commit to you

You have another one...

 

[bknight2602]

So, the guy I am dating for 11months, did an INCREDIBLY confusing thing...

For my birthday, he took me out to dinner, got me a little buzzed and fucked me.....all as per my request.

Then, he gives me, in a very nice, but very simple card......500 dollars.
I am seriously considering giving it back to him.

He keeps reminding and insisting that we are not in a relationship, not going to have a commitment, and here he is giving me a very hefty sum of money for not even a landmark-type birthday.

What does it mean? Or does it not mean anything?
Should I give the money back?

Help me, help me!

melody_lane

What's wrong with money? It would work for me!

 

[ReadyMike]

In the big picture, $500 isn't that much money.

As Supreme Moral Arbitor, I say keep the cash.

 

[Cheyenne]

As long as Patryn does not come back.

What makes you think she ever really left?

 

[Saytur]

The only thing that matters is how it makes you feel, $500 ain't changing anyones life.

There's a reason you're uncomfortable, find a solution that alleviates that feeling or you'll regret it.

 

[SGTBIGDOG420]

this guys a fuckin idiot if he cant figure out what you like to recieve after 11 months or hes just to lazy to shop either way dump his ass, keep the cash and find someone with a brain.

 

[Dixon Carter Lee]

It doesn't sound awful. I don't think he's "paying for sex". He could be feeling a little guilty for making you stay exclusive for almost a year, without any sort of commitment. Guys do stupid things out of guilt. They want to "fix" things. It's not a pay-off. This could just be his way of giving you a really, really good backrub.

I'd say everthing's fine, as long as you're still okay with the no commitment thing. If you're not okay with that, I'd say you might want to think about ending it soon. After 11 months, a guy knows where a thing is going, and isn't likely to change.

Bottom line, he might have been tacky, but I don't think insulting.

 

[Melody_lane]

I don't think it was awful. I don't think it was insulting.

I just think it is confusing to give that amount of money to someone you only consider to be a friend, that you happen to have a sexual relationship with.



Somehow these threads always seem to go off somewhere not intended. Sometimes it makes for a really interesting read, sometimes....not so much.

 

[Guest]

Can I shag you for 11 months? I won't give you $500.

 

[Xander]

Okay I am gonna stand over here with the rest of the stunned people, for seeing you aorund again Melody.

As for your problem...sorry, it sounds fishy. But for the world i ahve no idea what to say about it. sorry Girl.