EdwardsOtherSide
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Top her, bottom for her, I am open minded.It's tough to top Helen Parr. And yet.
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Top her, bottom for her, I am open minded.It's tough to top Helen Parr. And yet.
Controversial opinion I heard repeatedly from locals in Las Vegas; Las Vegas was better when the Mafia ran it, the CEOs/MBAs/oligarchs have ruined it.
If corporations are not feeding/ growing, they are dying. There is no sustaining like a locally or privately owned business. That is what, in my opinion, makes them dangerous AND evil. That is what takes the humanity out of corporations.
IRL, I am a good bit older than you, but I'm but a wee lad in this world. But I have to say, you have mastered the literary grumpy old man pretty well.Two suggestions to more accurately describe much of what the forums priority and purpose is for some of the posters here.
Your 1st paragraph exhibits poor punctuation and stilted, (technically) nonsensical wording ("etc. [sic] ad nauseum.")
But I understood your message.
Language conventions (or usage patterns) have no King, little unanimity and constantly change. CLEAR THOUGHTS and BEAUTIFUL INSIGHTS shine as great achievements. Perhaps put down the police baton and lift your eyes to the universe. We can be special. Let's celebrate that and chillax about misplaced priorities.
Nicely written I concede happilyWords flow with a grin,
He clings to each earnest line,
Missing the sly wink.
Thank you, I strive to be the best I can at whatever I choose to do. I'm too young for a cane though.IRL, I am a good bit older than you, but I'm but a wee lad in this world. But I have to say, you have mastered the literary grumpy old man pretty well.
Can't you find a word cloud to shake your cane at. Or just some kids to chase off your Leaves of Grass?
In all seriousness, I obviously didn't see it in the past. I've only been on AH for about 7 months, writing for almost 9 months. Yes, there is self-promotion. The rest of us don't have 250 published books to hang our hat on. But mostly what I see is people telling jokes, arguing about life and talking about their hobby. All normal healthy things for people to do.
I probably do all the things you complain about. But I am also very passionate about my writing and making it better. I have a problem with being too obsessive about working towards goals. Over all, it has served me well throughout my life. But it also comes at a cost. For me, the relaxation and camaraderie found here is an important salve. Writing can be immensely frustrating endeavor.Thank you, I strive to be the best I can at whatever I choose to do. I'm too young for a cane though.
Part of why I have success here and in other markets is I understand priorities and where I need to put my energy. A lot of people here talk about either getting better as a writer in general, or trying to reach more people with their work. Neither of those things will happen thinking how your perceived in the AH actually matters or securing a dozen sure 5 votes from the friends you make.
You miss where I keep saying "some" because its not everyone, but here's the end game to my "old man" routine.
To get the attention of people here who want more here than how many likes their post gets or padding the reaction score. If that's what you want, carry on. If not, take a moment to think about what serves you and what doesn't on the quest to being more successful.
In the post you brought up about my market production, note how I end it with if you want to build up anything, you need to be serious about it and keep pushing. Want to post memes and be part of a circle jerk, have at it, but don't expect to progress to anything more than that. This place is like anywhere else on the net, the wrong people have the biggest voices and become the pied piper of meh.
It seems to me that you take this forum/board a lot more seriously than many of us. This is obviously not a crime, and is probably why I often find great insight in things you've posted. But being less serious is no crime either. The description you propose to change does say "socialize".Thank you, I strive to be the best I can at whatever I choose to do. I'm too young for a cane though.
Part of why I have success here and in other markets is I understand priorities and where I need to put my energy. A lot of people here talk about either getting better as a writer in general, or trying to reach more people with their work. Neither of those things will happen thinking how your perceived in the AH actually matters or securing a dozen sure 5 votes from the friends you make.
You miss where I keep saying "some" because its not everyone, but here's the end game to my "old man" routine.
To get the attention of people here who want more here than how many likes their post gets or padding the reaction score. If that's what you want, carry on. If not, take a moment to think about what serves you and what doesn't on the quest to being more successful.
In the post you brought up about my market production, note how I end it with if you want to build up anything, you need to be serious about it and keep pushing. Want to post memes and be part of a circle jerk, have at it, but don't expect to progress to anything more than that. This place is like anywhere else on the net, the wrong people have the biggest voices and become the pied piper of meh.
If people are offended at the attitude of taking the writing-which is the reason everyone came here-more seriously than clique building-than it exposes the problem more than anything myself or anyone else here ever will.
I respect both the role you see yourself taking, and the feelings behind this particular case.Anton Levy-founded of the Church Of Satan and renowned grifter-commented that Satan was the best thing that ever happened to the Catholic Church, he kept them in business.
I see myself in that light here on occasions, I say something blasphemous and people will come in and refute it, good for a forum team building exercise.
At the end of all of it, I hate seeing people prefer to dick around rather than reach their potential and worse are the ones that lead them down that road. Like that in every aspect in life, those that can't hate seeing anyone else succeed so they want them down to their level.
Be forum famous or be Lit story famous, free will rules all, but sometimes you need to hear the not so popular side of things to be able to make that decision.
Did I miss his/her electoral victory in Declarer of How It’s Done campaign?Anton Levy-founded of the Church Of Satan and renowned grifter-commented that Satan was the best thing that ever happened to the Catholic Church, he kept them in business.
I see myself in that light here on occasions, I say something blasphemous and people will come in and refute it, good for a forum team building exercise.
At the end of all of it, I hate seeing people prefer to dick around rather than reach their potential and worse are the ones that lead them down that road. Like that in every aspect in life, those that can't hate seeing anyone else succeed so they want them down to their level.
Be forum famous or be Lit story famous, free will rules all, but sometimes you need to hear the not so popular side of things to be able to make that decision.
Didn't you just post your own thread titled "#250", in order to gain accolades and compliments from AH?Two suggestions to more accurately describe much of what the forums priority and purpose is for some of the posters here.
First, the forum description
A place for writers and readers to self-promote and build their forum base and brand.
Because that seems to be the trend of the last couple of years, spending more time running around the forum like a politician sucking up and "I'll fluff yours if you'll fluff mine." like locking in the vote of a very small amount of people here is more important than appealing to and building up the reader base which is immensely larger.
To go along with the new forum slug I think we could suggest an AH anthem.
GoPro's biggest problem was that when waterproof action cameras became commoditized, they tried to hold onto their place as first to market and didn't lower prices.GoPro was a great example. They owned the market, they were the generic term for that type of camera became "GoPro".
Then the market got saturated, they were still making lots of money, but GROWTH we need GROWTH!!!! and they tried to start making drones. DJI kicked their ass, and they lost a ton of money.
I have yet to see a story which contains both numerous-early-technical-writing-mistakes AND clear-thoughts-and-beautiful-insights.Language conventions (or usage patterns) have no King, little unanimity and constantly change. CLEAR THOUGHTS and BEAUTIFUL INSIGHTS shine as great achievements. Perhaps put down the police baton and lift your eyes to the universe. We can be special. Let's celebrate that and chillax about misplaced priorities.
Counterpoint 1: It was quite a simple explanation with not much to discuss, and the 2nd person to make a joke was OP himself.Case in point. This thread was started by someone pointing out a common mistake in writing.
The entire thread other than his post is a bunch of jokes. Not one serious reply to someone trying to explain something.
https://forum.literotica.com/thread...word-for-a-man-who-gives-massages-is.1644973/
Quite the place to discuss writing, unless you're one of the chosen ones.
There's nothing to discuss in that thread. It's a dictionary entry.Case in point. This thread was started by someone pointing out a common mistake in writing.
The entire thread other than his post is a bunch of jokes. Not one serious reply to someone trying to explain something.
"New Wave" feminism is certainly on life support.Feminism is dead.
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