Would you sleep with a married person?

[IsItBad]

admittedly

sadly, i have
on several occasions
i have actually given it alot of thought
why did it happen
what caused it
etc

i think it is easier.....more likely....that a married person can sleep with another married person
single people are less likely to sleep with married people - not that it doesn't happen

in fact, i have a friend of about 20 years who has never had a serious relationship with anyone who wasn't married.....she is a beautiful successful lawyer....but she always winds up with a married man.....who, of course, entices her and leads her along always promising he is about to leave his wife......and of course he never does.....in the end she winds up heart broken and resolved never to do it again.....until next time.......

as for me, a married woman came onto me at a christmas party.....i am just not the kind of guy women usually come onto......i did try to avoid it.....but she kept coming back....and after a month or so....we kissed....and when we kissed i knew we would have torrid sex and that it would probably not end well.....we had an amazing year long affair......in which we had more sex than i had had in my previous 20 years of marriage.....who knows what would have happened had her husband and a group of others not walked in on us making out in our usual all in way....but what did happen was everyone got hurt and it ended in all of the ugliness anyone generally thinks can happen

the second time was much more deliberate.....after about a 5 year stretch of trying every thing known to man to rekindle some form of romance in my marriage.....i flat out gave up and posted an ad on CL.....and there i found the single most beautiful and amazing woman i have ever been with.....she was married ....i was married.....it was an amazing romance that lasted for almost 2 years.....and should have lasted forever in retrospect......it also did not end well....she wound up getting a divorce.....and although i did not......it was somewhat the end of any chance of any kind of actual physical relationship with my wife

hindsight being what it is.....i would say.....avoid relationships with married people.....but the best physical relationships i have ever had were both with married people

 

[mywife4othermen]

Admittedly I have.

So have I. My wife......

 

[ChrissyCD64]

Of course. My wife and I slept with a married couple last night. Me with the husband, her with the wife.

 

[gametime07]

Not my proudest moments, but I have. So has my wife.

 

[blkjames]

On many occasions,both at one time or the other.

 

[BoredIndianaDad]

Married?

I have and would

 

[fma20fma]

hi

not yet. awaiting opportunity.

 

[sinfulpleasure67]

not yet. awaiting opportunity.

Well hello

 

[HornyMarriedMale]

I would

I’m married.. and I’d sleep with another married woman... definitely

 

[EmpressV]

I never let them sleep!

 

[sinfulpleasure67]

I never let them sleep!

Who needs sleep anyway. It’s over rated

 

[Shi_One81]

I’ve slept with several. Some wives knew and some didn’t.

 

[BusDee276]

Yes of course

 

[Smoothshavendad]

Yes of course

Where do I sign up?

 

[NEOhio1972]

Where do I sign up?

I will pile on the unanimous vote.....

Have been caught before hough.....thats no fun!! I highly recommend secrecy....

 

[Hitchiker69]

I've had several married women. Some where their husband knew, others that didn't. One was separated from her husband, a few complained that their husband hadn't touched their ass for years.

 

[Traveler99921]

Married men

After I came out to my wife, and she had a chance to think about it, she said she prefered i would have sex with married men. It was easy to recruit married guys who wanted to have a gay experience. It seems there are many married guys that need a good blow job.

 

[Islander55]

I have slept with married men in my misspent youth but I would shy away these days unless their wife was totally OK with it. I am too old to deal with drama.

 

[MissMandy86]

I have many times and never thought twice about it

 

[lil_jenni]

I sleep with my hubby every night, and he's married.

But I don't think that's what you meant.

I hooked up with some married guys when I was in college, and it never bothered me. Years later, I had some married clients in my short stint working at a brothel. That bothered me a little, but I rationalized it away.

Now days, even if I weren't married, I don't think I would except if it was a threesome or swap situation and the wife was a participant. But since I am married and my Hubby would never go for anything like that, I can't see ever doing it again.

 

[EdEc]

I spent a lovely afternoon with a beautiful married woman in Quito. She was very exciting and excited to be having sex with someone other than her husband.

 

[ConstanthornyM]

UMM WAY MORE THAN ONE FOR ME.. BUT IM USUALY MARRIED WHEN I DO IT TOO

Yes I have, more than once

 

[Illinoisguy1980]

I have. Currently married myself

 

[BoredAsianWifey]

Done that

Be There done that

 

[skate and fuck]

I have. Some with approval/participation from the husband. Others it was a secret. It was not complicated, which was good.
Both parties seek to get what they were after. It's transactional.

It leads to stagnation.
I'm not going to say I was objectified, or any of that namby-pamby millennial bullshit, but I was a dildo with a pulse, and at first that helped me justify that to myself: if a woman has an interest in cheating, she will, who she does it with is almost meaningless.

I could have been anyone, In the situation I am hard cock and a beating heart. I still do it occasionally, and didn't/dont feel guilty. Sometimes it serves a purpose in my life as it serves a purpose in their life, it fulfills a need- from both sides.

Sometimes I can resist the low hanging fruit, and sometimes I cant. It miss the days when it felt naughty.