Would you sleep with a married person?

I have & would gladly do it again. :)
My 1st wife cheated on me & for many years I would have never cheat on my 2nd wife but we've been sexless for over 11 years & I succumbed to cheating a few years back. Although I felt guilty for awhile, I understand people are human & have built in desires that are powerful.
 
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I have slept with married women. Not a lot and they were women I had met while travelling on business so it was just a one time thing.
 
Only if I were married to him. I've been cheated on - it hurt, dreadfully. I wouldn't do to that to another person.
 
Never slept with one, but have been given BJs by them. Usually it's not a hidden thing and also filmed for their viewing pleasure after. Wish I'd gotten copies for myself!
 
yes. i have had sex with five married women (no sleeping involved) one of those was my brothers wife (no. i'm not proud of it, but i cant change history. she wanted it and so did i) i was single i did not "un-sleep" around while i was married.
 
Over the years, when I was single or divorced, I've had the pleasure of being with several married women but always as part of 3some to start and then seeing the woman alone with her husband's knowledge and consent. I wouldn't want to do it any other way as I was on the other end where my then wife was with one or two other men behind my back and I wouldn't want to inflict that pain on others.
 
Sleeping with anyone would be cheating on my wife. I could never do that to her. But we are a hotwife couple. And we’re kind of split on the issue. On one hand, married men would be safer. Most likely the’d be just in it for the sex. Not mess with our marriage. On the other hand, my wife doesn’t want to be a “homewrecker” if it goes awry for him. It hasn’t been an issue for us yet. We’ll cross that bridge if we get to it.
 
A huge fantasy of mine has been to be a fuck toy for a house wife that has clearly been denied sex for quite a while.
 
I would not make it a point to try and pursue a married woman or convince her to break her vows. If she were the one showing interest in me, though, I think it might be hard to say no. After all, if she's got her mind set on cheating, if it wasn't with me it'd probably be with someone else.
 
I can see that logic/justification.
I have never cheated and suspect I never will but I also enjoy fantasies of open marriage, swinging, hot wifing, etc. it would be very hot to be the toy of a horny, frustrated housewife.
 
I have and will :)

A lot of the women I have slept with have been married, and unhappy, and they were really good in bed.......extremely uninhibited and wouldn't stop cumming.

No guilt for me, I am single, and the thing is that the thrill of it wears off for them and they go back to their domesticated life (or at least stop fucking me!!)
 
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I'm wondering what guys thing sleeping with a married woman. What do you think you are doing to her husband? My wife strayed once and I always wondered if the guy was spiting me or just getting his rocks off. Still, Id like to know what he thought about me. Did he care he was trashing me?
 
I'm wondering what guys thing sleeping with a married woman. What do you think you are doing to her husband? My wife strayed once and I always wondered if the guy was spiting me or just getting his rocks off. Still, Id like to know what he thought about me. Did he care he was trashing me?

This is a legitimate question and I'm sorry it happened to you like this. It truly sucks and has long term ramifications for some people to find out their spouse cheated on them. Some of the husbands of the women I've been with knew, so they don't count in this response. Of those that didn't know, it had nothing to do with the husband, as far as I was concerned. I wasn't doing it to spite the husband or out of some sick, twisted revenge against a man I don't even know.

The harsh truth is she made the decision to sleep with other men. I'm not responsible for anyone else's decisions or actions. I am responsible for sleeping with a married woman, but she is responsible for her marriage. I've asked women that I've met online if their husbands know what they are up to, but I've never asked this of any of the women that I've met in the hotel bar. As far as I'm concerned, her arrangement with her husband is none of my business. If she wants to sleep around without him knowing, at least I'm a respectful partner that won't ask too many questions, will keep it between us regardless, and she won't have to worry about getting into a dangerous situation with me.

Further, it wouldn't bother me if my wife slept with someone else. So I tend to go into these arrangements with a mindset that this is a fun time, just like it would be with a single woman. Yes, some men do it because they are assholes. I would be hurt if my wife fell for someone that petty. Hell, I'd probably leave her for her poor judgement! Otherwise, it wouldn't bother me if she had fun, it was consensual, and he had a healthy amount of respect for her. As long as they aren't badmouthing me, which my wife would never do, it has nothing to do with me at that point.

Good luck to you, man. I truly wish you all the best.
 
Prefer Men in Stable Marriages

I'm married and very satisfied, but I do go out on him. When I do, I almost always choose a stable married guy as long as I'm not friends with his wife. I've had past problems in affairs with guys who got it in their heads that I was the girl for them. I don't need that kind of drama.
 
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