Would you sleep with a married person?

[horny_n_hot]

I would and I have.

 

[Lost_Yonder]

Fair enough point.

Here's my issue and it excludes swingers, hotwife, open marriage or anything where the spouse is aware and consenting of their other half's actions, so I'm talking cheats male and female.

Cheats are one of lowest forms of life there are. They are betraying a trust and love and breaking the heart of that person(because sooner or later you're always found out) and for what? Sex?

So to me if a person would do that to someone they care about what would they do to someone they just met?

Nope, I've never been so desperate or horny that I need to lower myself to sleeping with a two legged dog and contribute to their sleazy behavior and cause pain to another.

Wow! very simplified, generalizing, and moralizing - in short, in my humble opinion, a bunch of crap...

I just deleted the long version of this. I would hope that at a minimum we could at least appreciate, even if not agree with, that those who choose to "cheat" have a variety of reasons why, with long histories within their relationships, with varying degrees of emotional commitments, all of which we on the outside of those marriages have absolutely no clue about. To sit in judgement of them with just a blanket "cheaters will burn in hell" kind of attitude is ... idiotic!

 

[curl4ever]

Wow! very simplified, generalizing, and moralizing - in short, in my humble opinion, a bunch of crap...

I just deleted the long version of this. I would hope that at a minimum we could at least appreciate, even if not agree with, that those who choose to "cheat" have a variety of reasons why, with long histories within their relationships, with varying degrees of emotional commitments, all of which we on the outside of those marriages have absolutely no clue about. To sit in judgement of them with just a blanket "cheaters will burn in hell" kind of attitude is ... idiotic!

^^^^ This. Thank you for saying this so eloquently.

Fifteen years ago my wife made the unilateral decision that she was done with sex and that my opinion was irrelevant. I tried diligently and lovingly to fix this for years, but I believe that her continued rejection indicates that SHE is the one who broke our vows. I haven’t cheated yet, but I don’t think I would feel very guilty if I did.

(I have a pet theory about this... If having sex for seven years is grounds for declaring an automatic common-law marriage, I believe that rejecting sex for seven years should be grounds for declaring an automatic common-law divorce. )

 

[flanneland]

Never did a married woman and would like to believe I wouldn't.

 

[SquidProQuo]

I haven't but I would feel bad being a "homewrecker". I would only make an exception for my marriage professor crush that I never got over. I'd have wild sex with him repeatedly and compromise my scruples if I knew I had the chance. It is my ultimate sexual fantasy to fuck him. That would be a big deal because I otherwise don't want to sleep with a married man. I'd feel too guilty. But he's my lone exception. I'll just have to masturbate about him as I often still do, even though I first had him for class five years ago. I never let go of my obsession with him.

 

[PearlyDewdrops]

I have been that married person. It requires a lot of mutual trust to sustain but have to say it has got me through some rocky periods and also provided some of the emotional high points of my life.

Emotional high points. Someone to trust and get us through difficult times. We all need those.

 

[Lost_Yonder]

I haven't but I would feel bad being a "homewrecker". I would only make an exception for my marriage professor crush that I never got over. I'd have wild sex with him repeatedly and compromise my scruples if I knew I had the chance. It is my ultimate sexual fantasy to fuck him. That would be a big deal because I otherwise don't want to sleep with a married man. I'd feel too guilty. But he's my lone exception. I'll just have to masturbate about him as I often still do, even though I first had him for class five years ago. I never let go of my obsession with him.

While some fantasies/obsessions are best to leave as just that, sometimes acting on them can be the most fulfilling, overcoming the void of "if only...". Many professors don't act on our many lusts and desires for good reasons - professional ethics, careers, etc. But it doesn't mean we don't have them and with an opening from a student to say it is ok to flirt, to imagine something more, particularly with a past student, can open possibilities that are otherwise suppressed... In short, if you desire, explore the possibility - he may just have the same fantasy/obsession as you!

 

[curl4ever]

While some fantasies/obsessions are best to leave as just that, sometimes acting on them can be the most fulfilling, overcoming the void of "if only...". Many professors don't act on our many lusts and desires for good reasons - professional ethics, careers, etc. But it doesn't mean we don't have them and with an opening from a student to say it is ok to flirt, to imagine something more, particularly with a past student, can open possibilities that are otherwise suppressed... In short, if you desire, explore the possibility - he may just have the same fantasy/obsession as you!

^^^^ This.

 

[dougmarting]

I mostly fuck married men. The ones who like to fool around, and those are easy to spot, want sex without a relationship so we have something in common...

Are you in TX?

 

[TerryBrown6367]

Admittedly I have.

If the opportunity arises...hell yes

 

[Islander55]

I have slept with a two married men but have generally tried to avoid it. The first was just sex. Well maybe his having a sailboat had something to do with it too. The second was a good friend and his wife could not have cared less.

 

[bone251]

Never sleep when there is a S.O. But sex, yes.
Some mature escorts are married and that is how they get laid.
It depends on who and the risk.

 

[lostsamantha]

I do sleep with married people

 

[brightsmile]

Sleeping with married men is something I don't want to do.

 

[FGB]

There was this little chicka named Lisa with whom I had a hit it and run relationship for several years.

One time after not seeing her for a few months she came over one evening and tried to fuck me to death for a couple hours before we had some pillow talk.

That is when she told me she was married the week before!

She knew I would be double pissed because she married a friend of mine and that is why she waited until she got all the Dick she wanted before telling me.

I don't normally fuck married women...unless I have clearance.

Ya see, I have this allergy to Hot Lead and Sharp Steel!

Makes me bleed!

 

[bbwbabygrl]

Major fantasy

 

[Smoothshavendad]

Major fantasy

Naughty girl!

 

[curiouschattycouple]

All the time...

 

[WerdNerd]

Married person, or persons.

 

[bone251]

I do sleep with married people

 

[GiannaG]

Yes, I would. No strings and just sex

 

[cumcrazyasss]

Yes if the wife knows and is cool with it. Or joins in!

 

[grannykat]

Married or not, I do feel much more comfortable with older and stable partners.

 

[BrendaC]

Married Men Preferred

I'm married, and life is good. I've had affairs, and trysts, and prefer to involve myself with married guys. The last thing I need is some single guy I'm sleeping with deciding he wants to go from lust to love. I've had guys stalking me, and it aint fun. First time a guy starts complaining to me about his wife, wanting to leave her, or any of that relationship stuff, it's over.

 

[Hitchiker69]

I've enjoyed at least 6 married women that I can remember off the top of my head. I've been propositioned by several more.
Would I do it again, now that I'm older and living in a small, town? In this town there are no secrets, everyone knows everybody's business.
I think I'll keep it in my pants, and wank to my memories.