Would you sleep with a married person?

[crissynh50pt]

A bad habit of mine

Admittedly I have.

UMM WAY MORE THAN ONE FOR ME.. BUT IM USUALY MARRIED WHEN I DO IT TOO

 

[BBW_T&A_Lover]

I would if the guy was a jerk to this person and she wasn't getting pleasured or treated the way she should.

If I knew the guy and he was genuinely a nice guy and treated her like gold, but the sex just isn't fulfilling...................that's a pretty tough call for me to make.

 

[Blonde_Shay]

Yes, as long as the better half is aware of it

 

[ADogWithABone]

I think I would if I felt it was more of a benefit to the people involved than a harm to them.

It would be on a case by case basis, and by knowing the circumstances. I'm not very dogmatic, and usually just try to do things for the better good, and it's easy enough to sleep with people where the better good is the outcome. I don't think that I should be the one to say that for all couples never sleeping with an outside person is the only good way to do it, although I also wouldn't want to be a part of one person using me to harm the other.

 

[Vix_Giovanni]

Would I sleep with a married person? I do every day.

 

[blue80driver]

I have. And it was a very long time ago.

 

[DDBustyBrit]

Been there done it and would again, in fact for me it’s aafer and my first choice as we both have equal risk

 

[Bigspurt]

Yup

No question that I would. I have.

 

[blue80driver]

Been there done it and would again, in fact for me it’s aafer and my first choice as we both have equal risk

Very very good point DD

 

[LizVegas79]

I agree - if you're both married it seems like the best way to go to me.

 

[Lost_Yonder]

Been there done it and would again, in fact for me it’s aafer and my first choice as we both have equal risk

I agree - if you're both married it seems like the best way to go to me.

While on one level it makes the most sense, it is also the most complicated. Practically, the issue of scheduling and finding a place is really difficult. It also means there is twice the possibilities of being caught. And if so, it usually ends up that the other is informed of what is going on creating an even bigger mess for everyone.

 

[Travler99921]

In my 50's I recognized I was bisexual. I came out to my wife and she approved of me having sex with men but with certain rules. One the rules was that the men be married. We felt safer that way, both emotionally and from a STD standpoint. Generally my malee sex partners were just becoming aware of their homosexual desires or had not had gay sex for years. I had no shortage of sex partners. I loved being the first man to make another man cum.

 

[Tabithablack]

Why would I want someone else's bullshit?

 

[ADogWithABone]

Why would I want someone else's bullshit?

Mine is probably an unpopular view here, but I think the reason to sleep with a married person is that you are less likely to get their bullshit. Their real commitments and real life are with their spouse, with all of the benefits and costs that come with that, while you two are just having fun and it will never be more or less than that.

 

[UnderMyKilt]

Technically, I guess yes.

Over the years of my "youthful follies", I've had several relationships with what I would call a "still married person". Meaning that though they may have still been legally married to someone else, they were estranged and no longer physically living with their spouse by the time I became part of the mix. I would never be a "home wrecker".

 

[thespiceoflife]

I did last night. When we met I didn't know he was in a relationship. Now he says that knowing I'm available every couple of months or so keeps him sane within his marriage. I can live with that. The married/partnered women I've slept with usually had similar reasons. A revenge fuck is often a bad thing though.

The one rule I have is that I don't sleep with the wives or partners of friends or people I like.

But I have slept with married people. I appreciate that sometimes people get hungry, sometimes they're starving, that sometimes a little of what you fancy but your partner doesn't can help keep you well. We all have appetites.

I try not to judge. Recently I found out the wife of a best friend had been sleeping around on him for years. But when I found out why, she had my sympathy, though she really should have left him much earlier than she did.

Life, eh!? Fucking complicated.

I have been that married person. It requires a lot of mutual trust to sustain but have to say it has got me through some rocky periods and also provided some of the emotional high points of my life.

 

[JenniferSimms]

I mostly fuck married men. The ones who like to fool around, and those are easy to spot, want sex without a relationship so we have something in common...

 

[vibes]

I mostly fuck married men. The ones who like to fool around, and those are easy to spot, want sex without a relationship so we have something in common...

A successful policy

 

[Hardnippled]

Wouldn't stop and think twice about it. I've leaned through time, if an attraction is there, play your card and get in the game. Then there"s no "if I had only " involved. You tried, and if it works, great, if itdoesn't, you know you gave the effort, instead of standing there playing pocket pool. There may be a day when your wife feels the same way.

I really like your thoughts on that subject of if the is an attraction do it. I feel the same way. I bet your a bundle of fun!!!

 

[Billsexpot]

Yeah, probably

 

[Serendipity06]

I did in my past (before I was married) and I am not proud of it. I’m married now and I would be devastated if my husband did that to me. If you want to F around, then find a single person.

 

[wifewatcher1997]

Without a doubt.
When the wife plays, she prefers married men as well.

 

[dick912]

Did I?

I did in my first marriage. Have not in my 2nd marriage which has lasted longer than my 1st.

 

[jjbourne23]

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[Tabithablack]

Mine is probably an unpopular view here, but I think the reason to sleep with a married person is that you are less likely to get their bullshit. Their real commitments and real life are with their spouse, with all of the benefits and costs that come with that, while you two are just having fun and it will never be more or less than that.

Fair enough point.

Here's my issue and it excludes swingers, hotwife, open marriage or anything where the spouse is aware and consenting of their other half's actions, so I'm talking cheats male and female.

Cheats are one of lowest forms of life there are. They are betraying a trust and love and breaking the heart of that person(because sooner or later you're always found out) and for what? Sex?

So to me if a person would do that to someone they care about what would they do to someone they just met?

Nope, I've never been so desperate or horny that I need to lower myself to sleeping with a two legged dog and contribute to their sleazy behavior and cause pain to another.