Would you sleep with a married person?

[Bobby96]

Wife's Losing Libido

grannykat is correct, 56 with 61 yo wife here...

 

[MutualMatureMike]

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[goodsonformom]

You'd be amazed at how many older men there are whose wives have retired from the sexual part of their relationships. I take care of quite a few of them. We all deserve a fulfilling life.

So.......you're doing community service?

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

I have had sex with married women when I was younger, (20's, 30's...)
would I yet again???
No.

I have had sex with married men...
would I do it again???

Without hesitation.

 

[kate_thompson]

I have done so many times

 

[Gelista]

I have done so many times

Describe one for us

 

[justdamhorny]

Have I slept with a married person?, no. but I have fucked her, ate her pussy and sent her home to her husband much happier than when she arrived at my door!!!
Would I do it again, yes, I will because he isn't satisfying her and I haven't been allowed to have any at home for too many years to count.

 

[chazzc103]

Have and would do so again

Not looking for alot of drama need to be careful, have some ground rules. It lasted for over year, still contact each other.

 

[LibraStud]

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[MatthewRoydon]

I had and I would do it again.....

 

[Rip_isback]

You'd be amazed at how many older men there are whose wives have retired from the sexual part of their relationships. I take care of quite a few of them. We all deserve a fulfilling life.

Bless you.

I have and I would again.

 

[goodsonformom]

I have, quite a few times actually. But at this point I don't wanna be the guy that ruins a family....or fucks with someones head.....just to get my rocks off.....just sayin'

 

[goodsonformom]

My husband is a married man and I sleep with him all the time.

Ok, that was my joke answer. I have slept with married men but if the wife is not aware of it then I only do it if I know for a fact that the marriage is sexless or that the guy is putting up with a witch because he wants to keep the family together until the kids are out of the nest. There are a lot of guys like that and if they are safe and my husband agrees then I don't have a problem providing them with a needed sexual outlet.

So, you are another "chosen one?" Just curious......

 

[AlexGosford]

As long as I felt like they weren't just looking to fuck someone out of spite for their spouse, and they weren't getting any at home. I mean I've been in a sexless relationship and it's bullshit, you can do patient and understanding till the cows come home, ultimately you need that sexual intimacy.

Of course, sex with a married person with the consent* of their spouse is an entirely different kettle of fish.

*or participation

 

[seekrtadmyr]

Admittedly I have.

I have had a couple of married g/f's.
Nothing wrong with two people having fun when they can't get any attention at home.

 

[seekrtadmyr]

Only if I had permission from his wife

your avatar is smoking hot!

 

[mjolnir_1]

Have I ? Yes and numerous times. I got tired of being disregarded and ignored yet have a family to raise. I have been separated nearly 3 years now and she moved her guy in the same day I moved out. I still do more for my kids from an hour drive away than she does in the same house. As for sleeping with another married woman again, only if she is on the way out with her spouse.

 

[dashie33]

as long as T/their P/partner knows and agrees yes i will too much drama otherwise

Agreed. Hate drama.

 

[Lost_Yonder]

The hottest would be having her husband watch, or join us! But even if she was stepping out and exploring on her own, I am certainly open to being with a married woman, particularly given I'm married myself.

the biggest challenge with connecting with another married person though is scheduling!

 

[Asian_Flower]

Yes, once upon a time I had an affair with a married man before I met my husband. He was much much older than me and his wife had given up on sex. It was one of the most beautiful experiences of my life.

 

[dacoach44]

Well Flower...

Yes, once upon a time I had an affair with a married man before I met my husband. He was much much older than me and his wife had given up on sex. It was one of the most beautiful experiences of my life.

I am 74 and I think there a LOT of married couples who dont do sex.

 

[Lost_Yonder]

Yes, once upon a time I had an affair with a married man before I met my husband. He was much much older than me and his wife had given up on sex. It was one of the most beautiful experiences of my life.

Wonderful that you had such an amazing experience. Just curious, do you think what made it so special was that he was older or that he was married?

While I've had a number of affairs and hook-ups while married, I did have a couple of more serious relationships with much younger women. I think it was because I was married that allowed us to have such a connection - desperately needed the intimacy and she needed grounding with someone stable and secure, but the inability to have something more serious made it work. I think we would have undermined our connection had we been caught up in thinking about a more long-term or meaningful relationship. If that makes any sense...

 

[secret_passion_1949]

Had the thrill of doing that with 4 different women. Met all 4 online over a period of just about one year, and remarkably, spaced about 3 months apart. All 4 women were married at the time and so was I.

After a few weeks of chat/emails we would decide to meet. When we did there was no doubt as to what it was going to be about... right to a motel room. By previous agreement, each of the 4 women and I swapped underwear as 'souvenirs'.

There were two things that made these encounters a turn on for me:

1. I got away with all 4 of them. To this day, my now long ago ex-wife, has not a clue they ever occurred.

2. The fact that each of them were married at the time. There is something about the realization that you are fucking some other man's wife that is a powerful turn on. You are benefiting from that man's neglect of his woman. And I was lucky. All 4 turned out to be attractive, intelligent women in search of a few hours of 'escape' from the misery they lived in. No strings, just fun sex.

 

[dacoach44]

Makes perfect sense.........

Had the thrill of doing that with 4 different women. Met all 4 online over a period of just about one year, and remarkably, spaced about 3 months apart. All 4 women were married at the time and so was I.

After a few weeks of chat/emails we would decide to meet. When we did there was no doubt as to what it was going to be about... right to a motel room. By previous agreement, each of the 4 women and I swapped underwear as 'souvenirs'.

There were two things that made these encounters a turn on for me:

1. I got away with all 4 of them. To this day, my now long ago ex-wife, has not a clue they ever occurred.

2. The fact that each of them were married at the time. There is something about the realization that you are fucking some other man's wife that is a powerful turn on. You are benefiting from that man's neglect of his woman. And I was lucky. All 4 turned out to be attractive, intelligent women in search of a few hours of 'escape' from the misery they lived in. No strings, just fun sex.

I bedded a lovely dame I met here; even went to NYC to meet her. Years ago; we talk still. She wasnt getting enough at home.

 

[69plus1]

I have and will again. With partners of both sexes. Always has some baggage but at my age,71, you can't pass many up.
I would hate to think my last partnered sex was my last because of some outdated morals bullshit.
I had a wife cheat on me and with time found out it was never about me. It was between them. Didn't reduce the hurt but made it easier to deal with it.
We need to leard that sex and love aren't always connected.