Would you sleep with a married person?

[rudrakshpathak]

The question is not about trust - but about sexual relationship. One can never know why a married person strays outside marriage.

I personally believe that monogamy is unnatural. Sexual attraction can happen at any time with anybody. It's a physical response and it has nothing to do with verbal or emotional commitments.

I understand this. It depends on how much you're involved

 

[hedonisatlurist]

I do often

 

[sweet_tease]

I have

 

[Yerkiddin]

I've never sought out a married woman, but I've failed to say "no" to at least three of them, long ago. Oddly, all of my affairs with a married woman were known about by their husband. The first ended when I figured out it was just sex, and nothing more. The second ended when I said, "I love you", at which point her husband said, "Stop.". That last one ended when the daughters started talking to their dad about me. Turns out, they were enjoying me being over, too. (The weird part there is that I didn't think I was spending that much time with them.)

 

[MascaraRuns]

I have. Although we havent actually 'slept' together.

 

[turbocs37]

Every time I've been with a married woman, it has been with the husband's approval and he has been present. I wouldn't mind my wife sleeping around as long as I was in the loop but I wouldn't want her to do it secretly so I don't think I would do it on the sly either. Sharing is hot but true cheating is both hurtful and dangerous.

 

[screwher]

I'm married and reasonably happy with my husband, but Monogamy dont work for me. If i do go out on him, i prefer a married guy who is happy in his marriage. Last thing i need is a BF driving by my house, sending me flowers, or any of that. Also, i wont have anything to do with a guy if i know his wife.

This hasn't happened for us yet, but I'd prefer that my wife's lovers be married. If he's happily married then there's a greater chance of no drama on his part. Any guy my wife is with I want him to just be using her for sex.

 

[screwher]

I've never sought out a married woman, but I've failed to say "no" to at least three of them, long ago. Oddly, all of my affairs with a married woman were known about by their husband. The first ended when I figured out it was just sex, and nothing more. The second ended when I said, "I love you", at which point her husband said, "Stop.". That last one ended when the daughters started talking to their dad about me. Turns out, they were enjoying me being over, too. (The weird part there is that I didn't think I was spending that much time with them.)

As the husband of a hotwife relationship I can see how these would be "deal breakers". Any non platonic relationship a guy is going to have with my wife is just going to be sex. Nothing more. If my wife is attracted to you, you're fully welcome into our home, our bed and her pussy. But the moments real feelings start getting involved, I'm going to say "Stop" too. Fortunately we're empty nesters now and our daughter is totally in the dark. So we're able to have this lifestyle. If our situation with her was different then I doubt there would be any other men involved.

 

[hedonisatlurist]

Every time I've been with a married woman, it has been with the husband's approval and he has been present. I wouldn't mind my wife sleeping around as long as I was in the loop but I wouldn't want her to do it secretly so I don't think I would do it on the sly either. Sharing is hot but true cheating is both hurtful and dangerous.

smiles but sometimes its best for the other not to know

 

[tallladiesman]

I would and I have
Her husband knew, my wife didn't
Would I do it again?
Yrs

 

[Snowbunnie12]

I’m married and I have slept with other people, no regret no remorse he knows and it was his idea in the first place. Not saying I’m a “whore” I choose my men wisely and it’s more of a “boyfriend” relationship than a one and done kinda thing... that’s kinda gross...

 

[Shelly2inme]

Of course

My husband is a married man and I sleep with him all the time.

Ok, that was my joke answer. I have slept with married men but if the wife is not aware of it then I only do it if I know for a fact that the marriage is sexless or that the guy is putting up with a witch because he wants to keep the family together until the kids are out of the nest. There are a lot of guys like that and if they are safe and my husband agrees then I don't have a problem providing them with a needed sexual outlet.

 

[shark968]

I've done it. Depending on the person, I'd do it again.

Both times I was single and they were married. The first time, she mentioned her husband had cheated on her first and she wanted some pay back. She was up front about it. I was happy to help.

The second one was a girl I had known for years. We always had a special connection. Things got a little crazy one night, wine was involved. One thing led to another and we had a great time. We had a few more great times before we stopped. She still means a ton to me. She always will.

Of course now I'm in a sexless marriage. I've lost the exact count, 5 years I think. So if an opportunity arrived and we connected, I'd be all for it.

 

[ChefMario77]

There are a lot of guys like that and if they are safe and my husband agrees then I don't have a problem providing them with a needed sexual outlet.

Thank you for doing the Lord's work...

 

[goodsonformom]

The slow slide.

I have slept with married women. Most were girl friends of my wife at the time. She shared them with me, and at times joined in sexual three-somes as a voyeur, other times she would watch from a dark corner or beg for details when I returned home from a night out with one of the girls. There was something attached to her jealousy and how it factored into my sexual activities that was her motivating energy behind creating these trysts in the beginning. Later I took the initiative in seducing and planning the liaisons. Knowing my wife, it was less about my pleasure or providing me with more sex. It was about her and what she needed, how her needs were being fulfilled. Don't get me wrong, I loved it, I loved the variety as I have always been a man who was very sexually active with both sexes. Although, I knew in the back of my mind, there was a potential "crash & burn" scenario in front of us.

After my wife and I separated I saw her girls friend, one of them actually quite often. After my ex suggested we add them to our sex life, I naturally became very comfortable with them intimately and somewhat emotionally attached. I knew their husbands well, I knew what they didn't provide for their wives. I always tried to consider that and make sure they were fulfilled, physically and emotionally.

One husband was an asshole, and the others were vacant emotionally, so I had an excuse for fucking their wives behind their back, it made it right in my mind. I believed I was doing some kind of community service.

The crash and burn..... It's odd how some actions or behaviors, can come back and bite you in the ass in very destructive ways. I was a happily married father of four amazing children. I had a great job, we lived in a 5 bedroom home in a very affluent suburb. It all fell apart. That was 20+ years ago. At the time I blamed my ex for the root cause of our demise, her continual need for more, the lack of contentment in our relationship, our financial status, and her frustration in being a mom for the large family she demanded we had, were all contributing factors.

I certainly don't want to lead you on in thinking I was simply fulfilling my desires to fuck any woman I wanted. There were in fact unspoken rules about what and who I was sexually active with. Maybe they should have been more clearly defined with hard boundaries. It wasn't like my wife had never desired another man and I refused to allow it. I approved and joined her or stepped back and gave her the space. We had gone to glory holes to satisfy her craving for anonymous, faceless cock....she had her twink experiences, playing mommy. We were equal participants.

It was when her bitterness and denial of her role, her inability to be accountable for her actions surfaced. All the blame landed on me. I was the evil cheating husband and now it was her turn, "And by the way, I never loved you.....fuck you, I'm leaving you for another guy"

Twenty plus years later the scars of betrayal are no longer built on anger or devastation, just sadness in what could have been. My children are grown adults but still in some way grapple with "mom and dad are divorced."

 

[OldFred65]

We do it all the time. We have several bi couples we swing and swap with including our son and daughter and their spouses.

 

[goodsonformom]

We do it all the time. We have several bi couples we swing and swap with including our son and daughter and their spouses.

Sounds perfect to me.....

 

[bbw4youngercocks1]

I did a couple of times (albeit unknowingly; I didn't find out they were married until after the fact) and admit the sex was pretty hot

 

[LizVegas79]

I would want my husband's permission first, but if he said it was okay I would.

Unless I was friend's with the guy's wife. Then I wouldn't.

Not sure what I would do if the option was to sleep with a married woman and I was friends with her husband.

To me, same sex sex isn't really cheating. But, I know that's not how most people feel about it. Plus, I'm a total hypocrite because if I ever found out my husband was sleeping with another guy I'd be extremely hurt (after I got over the initial shock lol) and then probably super pissed and then back to extremely hurt. So, with all that said, I should change what I wrote above and say yes with a married woman if I didn't know her husband, but no if I did know her husband.

 

[grannykat]

You'd be amazed at how many older men there are whose wives have retired from the sexual part of their relationships. I take care of quite a few of them. We all deserve a fulfilling life.

 

[TastySuckToy]

Done breast play and received BJs from married women, but nothing beyond that. I tend to be very cautious in such situations, both for discretion and not wanting to get involved in any drama.

 

[gunthernehmen]

You'd be amazed at how many older men there are whose wives have retired from the sexual part of their relationships. I take care of quite a few of them. We all deserve a fulfilling life.

Sadly, I would not be surprised.

Although far too far away for practical matters, I appreciate your attitude and civic participation.

 

[mijayoo]

Only if I had permission from his wife

 

[LizVegas79]

Only if I had permission from his wife

OMG that would be soooo hot!!

 

[Gelista]

So long as it was discreet, i'd have no issues. Play on the anxiety of getting caught for both of us, would make it all the more hotter