Would you sleep with a married person?

[Story_Daddy]

apparently... never would have thought I would, but....

 

[ndoorfin]

I do and have asked her to marry me but she cares for her husband

 

[desireinyellow]

What about cheating for the emotional connection? I have two friends that have cheated, not with each other, for that reason. One said she wanted to feel something. She said her husband is cold and doesn't care to share his feelings with her so she went looking for someone who did. Only after having that emotional connection, an emotional affair, did it progress to physical. With my second friend he said that was all he was looking for was some one to fill the emotional void caused by a loveless marriage.

 

[toshiskitten]

I wouldn't. That's a whole lot of drama I don't need in my life.

 

[hotassbitch12002]

i have before

 

[hornyGirl101]

I've slept with a ton of married guys.....

Some of the best sex I've ever had.

 

[tallman1970]

I've slept with a ton of married guys.....

Some of the best sex I've ever had.

I like that, when I was married I fucked around a little with younger women and it was pretty amazing. They loved what I did to them because they were so responsive and so very wet.

 

[principessa11]

What about cheating for the emotional connection? I have two friends that have cheated, not with each other, for that reason. One said she wanted to feel something. She said her husband is cold and doesn't care to share his feelings with her so she went looking for someone who did. Only after having that emotional connection, an emotional affair, did it progress to physical. With my second friend he said that was all he was looking for was some one to fill the emotional void caused by a loveless marriage.

It's still cheating. I know men and women both whose marriages have fallen apart because of emotional affairs. Some progressed to physical affairs, and some didn't.

Cheating, whether for emotional reason or for a physical connection, is not going to make your marriage magically better. If you're so unhappy in your marriage that you feel the need to cheat, you'd be better off putting that time and energy into fixing the relationship with your spouse. If it's not salvageable, then leave.

 

[burntnorton]

It's still cheating. I know men and women both whose marriages have fallen apart because of emotional affairs. Some progressed to physical affairs, and some didn't.

Cheating, whether for emotional reason or for a physical connection, is not going to make your marriage magically better. If you're so unhappy in your marriage that you feel the need to cheat, you'd be better off putting that time and energy into fixing the relationship with your spouse. If it's not salvageable, then leave.

Yeah, I don't know. I have close female friends. We go out for drinks....we talk about different things, we can be close, talk about anything. I have male friends who are just as close, if not closer. I'm not having an "emotional affair" with any of them.

 

[principessa11]

Yeah, I don't know. I have close female friends. We go out for drinks....we talk about different things, we can be close, talk about anything. I have male friends who are just as close, if not closer. I'm not having an "emotional affair" with any of them.

That's just being friends. When you're turning to your friend of the opposite sex though for companionship, to discuss your emotional life, hopes, dreams, etc., when you look to that person for support, fun, friendship, intimacy, etc., instead of your spouse, that's when I think it gets into dangerous territory. Having friends of the opposite sex is fine. Fantasizing about sex with that friend, fantasizing about building a life with that friend is not fine.

There is definitely a line there, and if you have to hide what you're doing with your female friends from your wife, then you've probably crossed it.

 

[Scrubber]

I think that emotional fidelity within a marriage is far more important that physical fidelity. If you don't have an emotional bond the marriage is dead, in my opinion, whereas it can survive a physical affair that does not threaten that bond.

 

[Sundayschild]

I think that emotional fidelity within a marriage is far more important that physical fidelity. If you don't have an emotional bond the marriage is dead, in my opinion, whereas it can survive a physical affair that does not threaten that bond.

Totally agreed, with the addendum that it may not be there in the first place.

 

[wordsandballs]

Totally agreed, with the addendum that it may not be there in the first place.

I would, yes.

 

[Domesticity]

I have. A person's marital status never mattered to me if I was looking to have fun. Not proud of it but there it is.

 

[lil52hotrod]

Yes! I have slept with a married lady! Currently sleeping with 2 different married women, have been for awhile.

 

[panty_aussie]

i have slept with one recently

she has number of kid i doubt they have the same daddy

i have only seen her once she is always busy she is constantly fucking a different guy every week.

she was fun but way too much effort she obviously not worried about hubby cause she must at least sleep with 50 different guys a year

she was telling me about a guy she worked with she fucked

 

[Ahi_Viking]

have

My lady had a long-legged blond she started hanging around with. The girl's husband wouldn't touch her, for a long, long time. The girls seduced a few times. It was incredible. And, she said it was the best sex she had ever had. She gave the most incredible head I've ever experienced - there was no holding back for me. And, she loved to finish me first with her mouth (but, I'd always go a couple more rounds afterward). Fuck...I better not think about it. After us she went on a spree with different guys, all married. I can just imagine all of them yelling out when she'd suck them - haha.

I hope I don't get flamed for this but I've come to realize that the women who were hottest in the bedroom in my past always had a steady boyfriend or husband. It's like the sex is such a release for them, like it's nice for them to have a secret sport screw. Often, it would be a woman I met that night who would confess to me the next morning. Go figure...

 

[sexywifegail]

Yes. Been there.

 

[desireinyellow]

I never thought so but boy was I tempted...

 

[L8tnIt]

All married and divorced people have had sex with another married person before... It was with their spouse.
Now sex with another person who is married to someone that isn't you...

 

[CuteBrat]

I totally have a thing for older married men.

 

[Shimp]

I totally have a thing for older married men.

Yes you do. Hi doll

 

[CuteBrat]

Yes you do. Hi doll

your yahoo says You are too busy for me...

 

[Runr4Life]

Got my share with a married woman two weeks ago. Flat out told me she was, and just wanted some revenge sex. I felt I had to help her out.

 

[sexy_hottie_2003]

Yes I have slept with a married man before. Wife got pissed though. Oh well. I gave him something she couldn't. Let him go down on me. Poor man was starved.