Would you rather...

[april-wine]

Of course it's them.............How can anyone not like a woman who can roll her tongue like that...................

 

[Guest]

Wiggles, do you find it's the same online and offline? I mean, is it easier here or there?


Lisa, my first instinct is to slink away.


Bring on the red for LK! Hell, bring on the shots for me.

April, you're so good for a lady's heart and spirit.

 

[cutie pie]

Cutie Pie, I agree. But, I do have to wonder. She seems much more carefree than I.

Appearances can be deceiving. My best friend comes across as being very strong and independent. I know the real truth. . .she's worse than I am (or was)!

Edited to add: Sounds like red is the fave this evening. Who's pouring?

 

[april-wine]

Red. Lots of red, please. It's a red night.

Bottoms up my friend..............

http://www.jp.from-hanna.com/leisure/hobbies/wine_note/img/img01.gif

 

[Guest]

That's the scary thing. She really doesn't care! She's confident and carefree.
She's a rare gem. Believe me, I've tried to crack her. We're both social workers- we know all the tricks. Heh.

 

[april-wine]

Body shots honey?????????????

http://www.shotglass.org/img/0644--c.jpg

 

[Guest]

Yes, please. And, keep 'um coming.

 

[Wiggles]

Wiggles, do you find it's the same online and offline? I mean, is it easier here or there?

I would say it's easier online, it's less personal to me. It's easy to get lost in the crowd and not even notice the other person.

Offline you have to deal with this person. The only reason you're around them is because you have to be, at work or in a family. You have to be in close quarters with this person and acknowledge their presence.

 

[Guest]

Wiggles, I didn't see it that way. Thanks for giving me perspective.

 

[sigh]

I guess if I'm being ignored, I sort of figure I'm not liked so it's the same either way.

Now who do I talk to to get a glass of wine around here?

 

[Guest]

Sigh, you come across with such ease of life. A calm spirit.

Here, have a glass or two or three...

 

[april-wine]

Hmmmmmm ignore shmignore........Fuck em.....they really don't know what their missing.......


Besides if others ignore you ladies, I get to spend all kinds of time talking with ya.........

 

[bluntforcemama]

I'd rather not know... for some reason I find more comfort in ignorance.

 

[sigh]

guzzling the wine...

Now I have to go wash my son's hair. Gotta run.

 

[Guest]

Myst, is that due to your comfortability in your own skin?

 

[LukkyKnight]

Body shots honey?????????????

http://www.shotglass.org/img/0644--c.jpg

Whatever you pour, wherever... It's part and parcel with the thread itself, attention and upfront is where it's at, IMHO.

 

[bluntforcemama]

Myst, is that due to your comfortability in your own skin?

Probably. Why change yourself for someone if they can't accept who you are? Unless I've done something I know is stupid to that person who chooses to make my life difficult, I'm not going to worry much about it. But like anyone, I can pull some hair-brained stunts that I'm ashamed of. Perhaps this is why good friends are hard to find, but easier to keep: they're kindred spirits who have been searching for you and much as you've longed for them.

 

[Cheyenne]

If I'm ignored, I'll make the assumption that either I'm not liked, or I did something that wasn't liked. If there's another reason, I'd like to know what it is. But, if I don't know you at all, then it doesn't matter to me if you like me or not so don't tell me.

 

[Shaq]

I'd rather know that a person disliked me. One because if they tell me and I think that they have valid reason I may want to change something about myself to amend the problem. Being ignored is just rude, even if you don't like a person pretending they aren't there is disrespectful.(hypocrite comment:Level 4/10)

But also I may misinterpret being ignored and I may want to be around the person ignoring me....I probably wouldn't want to be around someone who didn't like me so if they told me I would save myself the indignity of one sided amicability and they could be rid of me...

 

[Guest]

Thanks for adding your thoughts Myst, Cheyenne, and Shaq. It's something I've been pondering for a while. And, as usual, you guys have helped me.

 

[NeoMeiouSetsuna]

i would rather be told they don't like me. besides, depending on who it is, i might be glad that they don't like me.....

 

[Guest]

*lol*

Well, that's an interesting way of looking at it!

 

[markb325]

Ignoring me would not be in someones best interest. I can't stand to be ignored and I tend to make a very big pest of myself till they do tell me.

 

[Guest]

Mark,
You a pest? Nah. I understand your position, though.

 

[april-wine]

Now that's what I like to see.......A smiling raindancer........