Same with me. I met my future wife when I was going out with a very wild girlfriend. My future wife was still in her first marriage, and my girlfriend and I were going to swinger clubs and having some really wild sex. Finally my future wife divorced her husband and asked me to breakup with my girlfriend, which was hard to do because of the sexual aspect. But love overcomes lust sometimes and I’m still happily married. But sometimes I do miss the wild sex…If I was allowed. Which I’m not.
I had a ‘transition’ period when I was seeing them both