Would you do a midget?

[matriarch]

I've seen some pretty distasteful threads on here, but this one's up there with the worst.

Disgusted and saddened Auntie.

 

[CeriseNoire]

Thank you, Starrkers. You aren't the only one.

Makes it seem like "midgets" are like some sort of anomaly or a toy. Something weird and "not normal" to be shocked by if you ever considered having sex with them — for the people they are.

"Would you do that defective human being?"

What, if the internet existed thirty or forty years ago, it'd be, "Would you do a Negro?" "Would you do a Chinaman?" "Would you do a squaw?"

That was my first thought when I saw the title.

 

[Remec]

Inquiring Minds Want To Know.

Would you do a midget?

Depends on whether I found her sexy and appealing enough to "do", just as with a regular-sized woman. I will say, however, that if she was a dwarf as opposed to midget, I would prolly be less inclined, but I never completely say no since it all comes down to each person in and of themselves.

 

[Corylea]

Is this thread intentionally offensive?

 

[SweetWitch]

Speaking as one of short stature, (often called a midget by nearly everyone in my family) I say lighten up. It's just a question, not a politcal statement, as far as I can tell. Too much is taken far too seriously around here. For crying out loud, we all write about sex and some in the most societally offensive ways.

 

[IrezumiKiss]

Speaking as one of short stature, (often called a midget by nearly everyone in my family) I say lighten up. It's just a question, not a politcal statement, as far as I can tell. Too much is taken far too seriously around here. For crying out loud, we all write about sex and some in the most societally offensive ways.

I don't think so. Are you just "short" or are you honestly on Peter Dinklage's level?

If you're not truly a part of what's being laughed at here, then it's not and never will be the same.

Would you ever "do" a cripple?

Would you ever "do" a retard?

Just asking. Because you're probably "normal" and they're the freaks.

Would you? Since midgets "or people to."

 

[gauchecritic]

I don't think so. Are you just "short" or are you honestly on Peter Dinklage's level?

If you're not truly a part of what's being laughed at here, then it's not and never will be the same.

Would you ever "do" a cripple?

Would you ever "do" a retard?

Just asking. Because you're probably "normal" and they're the freaks.

Would you? Since midgets "or people to."

I'm not so sure about that. The label might be offensive but the question is as valid as "Do you prefer shaved or natural?" The implication there is that natural isn't 'natural'.

Similar questions have been asked but not in so apparently an offensive manner. "What's with the interracial category?" "Are boob jobs selling fake goods?" and etc.

 

[SweetWitch]

I don't think so. Are you just "short" or are you honestly on Peter Dinklage's level?

If you're not truly a part of what's being laughed at here, then it's not and never will be the same.

Would you ever "do" a cripple?

Would you ever "do" a retard?

Just asking. Because you're probably "normal" and they're the freaks.

Would you? Since midgets "or people to."

Actually, I dated a gentleman for a long time who was in a wheelchair, so yes, I would do a cripple. He was a great guy and it was some of the best sex I'd ever had.

My family lineage is not white. I'm of mixed blood, a bad thing where I grew up. My grandmother was called "squaw", I've been called 'breed. I once watched men in sheets pull my grandmother from her home after she had hidden me in the basement.

At 20, I was attacked and my face beaten beyond recognition. I spent a long time having it repaired. People stared, pointed fingers, turned away in disgust. Just when I had it all back together, I went face-first through the window of my car. The process started all over again, only this time my head was shaved and I was stitched back together like Frankenstein's monster.

Normal? That's subjective. As far as being a freak, I can tell you what that's like first-hand. I was lucky to see the world from both sides, and even luckier to still have my sense of humor. I had to maintain that sense of humor for my bother who ended up in a wheelchair after a car wreck. He didn't like for us to get all dramatic and eye him with pity. It pissed him off.

 

[voluptuary_manque]

And with that, perhaps this attack of Political Correctness can die down? Sheesh!

 

[IrezumiKiss]

Actually, I dated a gentleman for a long time who was in a wheelchair, so yes, I would do a cripple. He was a great guy and it was some of the best sex I'd ever had.

My family lineage is not white. I'm of mixed blood, a bad thing where I grew up. My grandmother was called "squaw", I've been called 'breed. I once watched men in sheets pull my grandmother from her home after she had hidden me in the basement.

At 20, I was attacked and my face beaten beyond recognition. I spent a long time having it repaired. People stared, pointed fingers, turned away in disgust. Just when I had it all back together, I went face-first through the window of my car. The process started all over again, only this time my head was shaved and I was stitched back together like Frankenstein's monster.

Normal? That's subjective. As far as being a freak, I can tell you what that's like first-hand. I was lucky to see the world from both sides, and even luckier to still have my sense of humor. I had to maintain that sense of humor for my bother who ended up in a wheelchair after a car wreck. He didn't like for us to get all dramatic and eye him with pity. It pissed him off.

Thanks for your candor and your story is very appreciated. I have had some similar experiences inside my own family.

And with that, perhaps this attack of Political Correctness can die down? Sheesh!

Hey, I'm not so naive not to know that when it comes sex, porn and erotica, nothing is or even has to be "fair." Hey, Bridget the Midget probably doesn't give a shit about this, she's made a career out of her dwarfism and pansexuality.

http://www.midgets4u.com/images/f1.jpg

http://www.midgets4u.com/images/f5.jpg

http://www.fuckingmidgets.co.uk/images/bridget-the-midget-gangbang.jpg

Actually, these are kinda hot. You're right, screw political correctness! Where the midgets at? Porn makes everything "ugly" all beautiful again, don't it?

However, I think there's a modicum of respect due to certain people when you're talking about them objectively, especially when they don't have the benefit of walking down the street being unnoticed like the rest of us "normals" because of their at-birth freak categorization by the beautiful people. But as the OP conveniently reminds us as an afterthought choice, the midgets "or people to," after all. Feel free to laugh at this all you wish. I think the way it came across was bullshit, but then again, maybe saying "Has anyone ever had or would have sexual relations with a person under three and a half feet" just doesn't have that je ne sais quoi.

 

[SweetWitch]

I feel sorry for her. That's one homely dude she's screwing.

Oops... I'm so bad.

 

[keeblercrumb]

Dreams of Polina

I feel sorry for her. That's one homely dude she's screwing.

Oops... I'm so bad.

Which one?

-KC

 

[only_more_so]

Inquiring Minds Want To Know.

Would you do a midget?

Heck, even average height women look like midgets next to me. So really short wouldn't be much different.

 

[SweetWitch]

However, I think there's a modicum of respect due to certain people when you're talking about them objectively, especially when they don't have the benefit of walking down the street being unnoticed like the rest of us "normals" because of their at-birth freak categorization by the beautiful people. But as the OP conveniently reminds us as an afterthought choice, the midgets "or people to," after all. Feel free to laugh at this all you wish. I think the way it came across was bullshit, but then again, maybe saying "Has anyone ever had or would have sexual relations with a person under three and a half feet" just doesn't have that je ne sais quoi.

What is normal? Who are these beautiful people of which you speak? Am I ugly because of my scars? I can tell you that I wear them with pride. They mark me as a survivor.

I have an extremely handsome cousin. He’s gorgeous from head to toe. He’s built like a brick shithouse and people stare at him constantly. The flipside is that he has severe autism caused by brain damage at birth, without hope of any form of communication or any notice of the world around him. He merely stands around smiling and looking fine. Is he “normal” or is he a “freak”?

What if we take a look into the minds of these supposed normal people? What would we find there? Some very dark and miserable things, I’d wager. Those things are inside us all.

I say that all people are normal and all people are different in their own special ways. I reserve the word “freak” for those who commit horrendous acts, such as that freak who pistol-whipped me.

Beauty is all around us and in everyone. It’s in the nearly sightless eyes of our neighbor’s son while he laughs and plays with my daughter. It’s in the way a frail old woman smiles when you reach out a hand to offer assistance. It’s in the joy of a disabled boy when he wins a medal in the Special Olympics. And it’s in anyone who can love, appreciate and embrace those around us.

Ugliness is there, too. It can be found in attitudes and personal vision. Every time we shield our eyes in horror or whisper behind our hands over someone who looks different, we show our ugliness. Every time we say things such as, “You should be ashamed and have pity because he/she is different,” we expose our contempt.

Sympathy is good, as is empathy. Pity is not. It assumes that the target of that emotion is weak, indefensible and useless. Such is not the case. During his time in a wheelchair, my brother was still quite capable of starting a brawl and defending himself quite admirably. My cousin gives us all something dreamy to look at. My grandmother was able to quickly forgive those that attacked her and go on to heal one of their sons.

Embrace difference or point it out to others. That is a choice we all have to make. I’m different. I like being different. It’s a hell of a lot more fun than being “normal”.

 

[SweetWitch]

Which one?

-KC

The first one.

 

[Anna_Malia75]

What is normal? Who are these beautiful people of which you speak? Am I ugly because of my scars? I can tell you that I wear them with pride. They mark me as a survivor.

I have an extremely handsome cousin. He’s gorgeous from head to toe. He’s built like a brick shithouse and people stare at him constantly. The flipside is that he has severe autism caused by brain damage at birth, without hope of any form of communication or any notice of the world around him. He merely stands around smiling and looking fine. Is he “normal” or is he a “freak”?

What if we take a look into the minds of these supposed normal people? What would we find there? Some very dark and miserable things, I’d wager. Those things are inside us all.

I say that all people are normal and all people are different in their own special ways. I reserve the word “freak” for those who commit horrendous acts, such as that freak who pistol-whipped me.

Beauty is all around us and in everyone. It’s in the nearly sightless eyes of our neighbor’s son while he laughs and plays with my daughter. It’s in the way a frail old woman smiles when you reach out a hand to offer assistance. It’s in the joy of a disabled boy when he wins a medal in the Special Olympics. And it’s in anyone who can love, appreciate and embrace those around us.

Ugliness is there, too. It can be found in attitudes and personal vision. Every time we shield our eyes in horror or whisper behind our hands over someone who looks different, we show our ugliness. Every time we say things such as, “You should be ashamed and have pity because he/she is different,” we expose our contempt.

Sympathy is good, as is empathy. Pity is not. It assumes that the target of that emotion is weak, indefensible and useless. Such is not the case. During his time in a wheelchair, my brother was still quite capable of starting a brawl and defending himself quite admirably. My cousin gives us all something dreamy to look at. My grandmother was able to quickly forgive those that attacked her and go on to heal one of their sons.

Embrace difference or point it out to others. That is a choice we all have to make. I’m different. I like being different. It’s a hell of a lot more fun than being “normal”.

Very beautiful sentiments. Dibs on doing Sweetwitch.

 

[Safe_Bet]

Very beautiful sentiments. Dibs on doing Sweetwitch.

Oh no you don't! After reading her post, I oh so want to jump on Sweetwitch and be her monkey. Let's share! I'm uber short too, so we'll all fit!

 

[SweetWitch]

Does it matter that I'm a purely hetero gal?

 

[Safe_Bet]

LOL! We can always play Katy Perry’s “I Kissed A Girl” and see what happens…

If not, we can go find that ‘tripod’ dude and go for it! Hell, Katy’s got a song for that too!

“I Kissed A Girl” - Katy Perry.....http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_W_M34VVU08

“Use Your Love” - Katy Perry…..http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h-8t9P5GBf4

 

[bronzeage]

Must be the fever, but I fail to see any humour in this thread.

Thank you, Starrkers. You aren't the only one.

Makes it seem like "midgets" are like some sort of anomaly or a toy. Something weird and "not normal" to be shocked by if you ever considered having sex with them — for the people they are.

"Would you do that defective human being?"

What, if the internet existed thirty or forty years ago, it'd be, "Would you do a Negro?" "Would you do a Chinaman?" "Would you do a squaw?"

I see the humor. I fail to see the research value of the poll.

The real question is, "Would you have sex with someone with whom you would be embarassed to be seen?"

We know the answer to that for almost everyone in the world is "yes".

 

[SweetWitch]

I see the humor. I fail to see the research value of the poll.

The real question is, "Would you have sex with someone with whom you would be embarassed to be seen?"

We know the answer to that for almost everyone in the world is "yes".

Give that man a cigar! He hit the nail right on the head.

 

[bronzeage]

Give that man a cigar! He hit the nail right on the head.

I give all credit to my hammer.

 

[Safe_Bet]

Thank you, Starrkers. You aren't the only one. [..]"Would you do a squaw?"

I sure as hell hope so! My occupation reads: Squaw / Slut / Soccer Mom.

Course, all I got from my well diluted indian heritage is nice high cheek bones and a desire to make 'tepee's' in guys pants!

 

[IrezumiKiss]

What is normal? Who are these beautiful people of which you speak? Am I ugly because of my scars? I can tell you that I wear them with pride. They mark me as a survivor.

I have an extremely handsome cousin. He’s gorgeous from head to toe. He’s built like a brick shithouse and people stare at him constantly. The flipside is that he has severe autism caused by brain damage at birth, without hope of any form of communication or any notice of the world around him. He merely stands around smiling and looking fine. Is he “normal” or is he a “freak”?

What if we take a look into the minds of these supposed normal people? What would we find there? Some very dark and miserable things, I’d wager. Those things are inside us all.

I say that all people are normal and all people are different in their own special ways. I reserve the word “freak” for those who commit horrendous acts, such as that freak who pistol-whipped me.

Beauty is all around us and in everyone. It’s in the nearly sightless eyes of our neighbor’s son while he laughs and plays with my daughter. It’s in the way a frail old woman smiles when you reach out a hand to offer assistance. It’s in the joy of a disabled boy when he wins a medal in the Special Olympics. And it’s in anyone who can love, appreciate and embrace those around us.

Ugliness is there, too. It can be found in attitudes and personal vision. Every time we shield our eyes in horror or whisper behind our hands over someone who looks different, we show our ugliness. Every time we say things such as, “You should be ashamed and have pity because he/she is different,” we expose our contempt.

Sympathy is good, as is empathy. Pity is not. It assumes that the target of that emotion is weak, indefensible and useless. Such is not the case. During his time in a wheelchair, my brother was still quite capable of starting a brawl and defending himself quite admirably. My cousin gives us all something dreamy to look at. My grandmother was able to quickly forgive those that attacked her and go on to heal one of their sons.

Embrace difference or point it out to others. That is a choice we all have to make. I’m different. I like being different. It’s a hell of a lot more fun than being “normal”.

I'm on your same page here, Sweet.

What I hope is this...even though we can see ourselves as perfectly human as we allow us to be seen as, our society at large is unfortunately driven by others outside of you who will put you in a specific place in order to deal with you or even accept you. This is a fact of human nature and possibly a force of social entropy we can't completely eliminate in the negative. Sometimes it removes that bit of dignity that should be given to you sight unseen as a human being living in the world. Most progressive minds won't go there because they don't have to, but others not so progressive will because those who aren't "normal" have been set up for their amusement by nature of their "deficiency" and because they can. Case in point, it is extremely rare to see anything dealing with midgets outside the realm of comedy or exploitation. Well, hey, that's the world, yes. But why haven't we seen an equal amount of the many facets of people of their size? Where's the verity of their humanity outside of their now automatic social laugh-track when they step into a room?

So what I hope is that your extremely handsome cousin gets a square deal from others he may be attracted to in the realm of his sexuality without being made to seem like the "other" —*a specialty kind of human being that you just fuck around with for fetish's sake but never respect. Or I'll put it this way: You're out on the town with your cousin and two "hotties" give him the look-see. And you hear one of them say, "damn, he's good-looking. I bet he's packing some good heat down below."

And the other says, "Yeah, but would you fuck a retard?"

Basically that's what this thread asked. And that's what people do. Not about petitioning for pity or anything, but about showing some respect. You can't help the way people think, but you can plant a seed in the soil of their narrow-assed minds by saying something to make them think about shit the next time they feel free to yap, you know?

Sorry if this is being too "serious." I can post more midget porn, if ya like.

 

[SweetWitch]

I give all credit to my hammer.

I'm sure it's quite a fine hammer, too.

I sure as hell hope so! My occupation reads: Squaw / Slut / Soccer Mom.

Course, all I got from my well diluted indian heritage is nice high cheek bones and a desire to make 'tepee's' in guys pants!

I didn't even get the good cheekbones. But I did inherit a few, rather unseen, things from my grandmother.

I'm on your same page here, Sweet.

What I hope is this...even though we can see ourselves as perfectly human as we allow us to be seen as, our society at large is unfortunately driven by others outside of you who will put you in a specific place in order to deal with you or even accept you. This is a fact of human nature and possibly a force of social entropy we can't completely eliminate in the negative. Sometimes it removes that bit of dignity that should be given to you sight unseen as a human being living in the world. Most progressive minds won't go there because they don't have to, but others not so progressive will because those who aren't "normal" have been set up for their amusement by nature of their "deficiency" and because they can. Case in point, it is extremely rare to see anything dealing with midgets outside the realm of comedy or exploitation. Well, hey, that's the world, yes. But why haven't we seen an equal amount of the many facets of people of their size? Where's the verity of their humanity outside of their now automatic social laugh-track when they step into a room?

So what I hope is that your extremely handsome cousin gets a square deal from others he may be attracted to in the realm of his sexuality without being made to seem like the "other" —*a specialty kind of human being that you just fuck around with for fetish's sake but never respect. Or I'll put it this way: You're out on the town with your cousin and two "hotties" give him the look-see. And you hear one of them say, "damn, he's good-looking. I bet he's packing some good heat down below."

And the other says, "Yeah, but would you fuck a retard?"

Basically that's what this thread asked. And that's what people do. Not about petitioning for pity or anything, but about showing some respect. You can't help the way people think, but you can plant a seed in the soil of their narrow-assed minds by saying something to make them think about shit the next time they feel free to yap, you know?

Sorry if this is being too "serious." I can post more midget porn, if ya like.

It's not likely that I'll be taking cousin Tony on the town at any given time. He would derive no enjoyment from it or even know what was happening, so that arguement doesn't really stand.

I have taken my brother out on numerous occasions, however. One particular night stands out in my mind. A table of young females, sitting not far from us, were talking about what a shame it was that a nice looking guy like that was confined to a wheelchair. "What a waste," one said.

My brother heard the whole thing, gave me a disgusted look. Then he thought about it for a minute, turned his chair around and rolled to their table.

"You know, girls," he said, helping himself to their pitcher of beer, "I feel sorry for you. I was thinking of taking one or more of you for a ride in this here chair, but I see that you're not ready. Your brains are crippled."

He started to roll away, turned back and said, "By the way, it's as big around as your arm and fully functional."

We left then, amid gaping mouths and women craning their necks to see his crotch. Hell, at nineteen, I'm quite sure he didn't mind being objectified, even a little bit.

I'm not a midget. By the same token, I'm not tall, leggy and svelt. I'm far from what others consider gorgeous, but I've no idea what it's like to be a midget. I also don't know what it's like to be confined to a chair or confined to the prison of my own mind. I don't presume to speak for those who are.

I can only speak for me and my own experiences. As you said, it's human nature to exploit and objectify. We can do nothing about how others behave. We can only account for ourselves.

Standing around jabbing a righteous finger in the faces of others does nothing to help the situation. If a preacher stands in a barroom, thumping his bible and touting the virtues of temperance, do you think it will make the drinkers give up the booze and show up for church on Sunday morning? Not likely. They'll order another round and laugh in his face.