would you, could you, with an ex?

[seXieleXie]

if you had the opportunity, would you sleep with an ex-boyfriend or -girlfriend again?

the details:
neither you nor the ex are currently attached. the breakup was ugly but it was quite a while ago and you've kept in touch since. there is no chance the sex would lead to getting back together, it would basically be one fuck and then you wouldn't see them again for several months.

would you do it? why or why not?

 

[Mensa]

Would you, could you with an ex

Not even if I'm under a hex.

(apologies to Dr. Suess)

 

[Laurel]

Sure. Assuming we're both single and needy, why not?

 

[Mensa]

Sounds good to me!

Sure. Assuming we're both single and needy, why not?

I qualify! How about you?

 

[Rhys]

No fucking way

I remember why I slept with her. J was beautiful, sexy, talented in bed, and could wrap me around her finger.

But, then I remember the shit she put me through, I would have moved mountains, heaven and earth for her.

As good as it ever was, it is not worth the remembered agony.

So, in answer to your question...NO!

 

[Sassy7]

if you had the opportunity, would you sleep with an ex-boyfriend or -girlfriend again?

the details:
neither you nor the ex are currently attached. the breakup was ugly but it was quite a while ago and you've kept in touch since. there is no chance the sex would lead to getting back together, it would basically be one fuck and then you wouldn't see them again for several months.

would you do it? why or why not?

Yes, but only under the circumstances above, and one time only to show him what he gave up.

 

[Mensa]

Re: Re: would you, could you, with an ex?

Yes, but only under the circumstances above, and one time only to show him what he gave up.

Or why.

 

[Laurel]

Re: Sounds good to me!

I qualify! How about you?

Almost...1 out of 2.

But you're not my ex..

 

[Mensa]

Re: Re: Sounds good to me!

Almost...1 out of 2.

But you're not my ex..

Nit-picker!

 

[The Squid King]

Would I?

I see one of my ex's about every 3 months for that very thing.

In another life we were probably meant to be together,

but since we can't be together,

we can at least fuck each others brains out.

 

[JaymesBlond007]

Sure, why not?

We are both adults about it. We can go out for a while, to the bar or what-not, and actually enjoy the evening. She knows that she doesn't have to play little games to get my attention and vice-versa.

I find it nice that I know exactly what to expect. No "Why didn't you call?", or "When can I see you again?", talks. Just sex...

Great, sweaty, kinky, and sometimes even a little bit nasty, but all-in-good-fun sex.

 

[freakygirl]

Nope, I wouldn't..

because neither one of them were good the first time around.. why waste my time?

 

[Guest]

 

[seXieleXie]

i don't think i could, especially not with the one who is offering. too much emotional history between us.

 

[JaymesBlond007]

Hence the poll

Aaahhh, I see...

 

[seXieleXie]

well, i made my mind up before i posted the poll. i was just wondering how others felt on the issue.

 

[LadyDarkFire]

I'd have to say no. With all of my ex lovers, especially the ones with messy breakups, I have too much emotional history with them. Thinking of the most recent one, that was, to say the least, Hell, it would just be to hard. I loved him so much, and then to go through the pain that our break up put me through, I wouldn't want that brought back to the surface. The level of closeness required for me to truely relax and enjoy myself would not be there, and there would be the haunting pain brought back. Things like the after shave he wore, or the way he held his head when he was contemplating still surface at odd times, and to have a reminder of THAT much of him would hurt too much. Even if it wouldn't bring back old pain, I would still decline, because that brief moment of closeness would definately lead to the "what might have beens" and I definately do NOT need those.

 

[latinocutie19]

Good point Lex...

YUP!!!! If i was ever to break up with my g/f right now, i wouldnt be able to....even though we've each put eachother through hell and then some. Like you and others have said....toooooo much emotional stuff!! Noowwww....the girl nextdoor(ok, across the other end of town!)...!!!!...HELL YEAH! We've seen eachother in public before and theres some definite tension between us even though we never did during the short time we were going out.
;-)

 

[Debbie]

would you, could you, with an ex?

Nope.
I could not, would not sleep with my ex ever again. It was hard enough to get rid of him the first time.
(Damn you Mensa now I have the Green Eggs and Ham words going around and around in my head)

 

[patient1]

Nah

I would not , could not ,
just for fun,

I would not, could not,
it is done,

I would not, could not,
help but care,

I would not, could not ,
even dare.

I would not, could not,
with an ex

I would not, could not,
just have sex!

 

[Debbie]

Re: Nah

I would not , could not ,
just for fun,

I would not, could not,
it is done,

I would not, could not,
help but care,

I would not, could not ,
even dare.

I would not, could not,
with an ex

I would not, could not,
just have sex!

You did that on purpose! Didn't you!

 

[LadyDarkFire]

Re: Nah

I would not , could not ,
just for fun,

I would not, could not,
it is done,

I would not, could not,
help but care,

I would not, could not ,
even dare.

I would not, could not,
with an ex

I would not, could not,
just have sex!

I managed to avoid getting "Green Eggs and Ham" on the brain through Mensa's post. DAMN IT! If that was Intentional, you are one sadistic bastard!

 

[Debbie]

Re: Re: Nah

I managed to avoid getting "Green Eggs and Ham" on the brain through Mensa's post. DAMN IT! If that was Intentional, you are one sadistic bastard!

Good I am glad I am not the only one being tormented by the Green Eggs and Ham words! LOL It was funny though.

 

[patient1]

Nah

I didn't read that far before the verses started to come together.

If I were teasing , I'd have used a winking smilie.

It was the title I couldn't resist

I thought sex was about intimacy & emotion. I read a post elsewhere today that says that the sex is pure in this scenario.
I take their word for it. I know I'm not made that way.

Sorry I bothered you. I am proud of the verses. They were fun to write.


Can we be friends?

 

[Dr Tiger]

Hmmmm? Would I, Could I be tempted?

Thankfully each relationship has gotten progressively better. So, No I would never have slept with an ex.

With the relationship I have now she is slowly erasing all memories of anyone before her. That is how good this relationship is and how important she is to me.

So, the answer would be No, Never.

Oh, btw, this is a specialized name which I have created for specific moments. Tiger_n_nj

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