Would love to ask Women about what my wife means when . . .

[bobsch703]

Kind of in a weird place with my wife of 28 years right now. Through out the years she said and done some things that I now wonder about. Was she hinting at things, or was it just an off hand comment? For example, when we were newly married (maybe even when we were dating) on three different occasions when talking about people we dated, she said the guy she dated before me wanted to "piss all over" her. She didn't say it enthusiastically, but she didn't specifically say she was disgusted by it either. Thinking about it recently, she never actually said she told him no, and clueless me never asked "Did you let him?" Was she hinting that she wanted ME to piss all over her? Water sports never came up in any other conversations.
I have a few other sex related questions I'd love to get a woman's opinion on.

 

[Wonderland222]

Ask her, she probably let him.

 

[bobsch703]

Ask her, she probably let him.

Long story, involving her cheating then me getting prostate cancer, the marriage is sexless right now and we don’t even talk about sex anymore. If that changes I certainly will. Plus, despite the fact that she was a real slut before we married, she always says she’s too shy when I would ask her about stuff. Go figure.