wifewatcher1997
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My wife and I have been together for 27 years (dating and marriage) and I sill can't figure her out and she'd likely say the same in return.
On Friday night, she looked and me and said, "I want you so badly but I need sleep" and proceeded to go to bed. Even with cuddling and all, nothing happened and in the morning it was "we don't have time".
She will say that she doesn't want me to stray, to look at others, etc. and that she knows she isn't meeting my needs but I see women our age and older with higher sex drives than me. I know everyone is different and my wife has no problem going a long time without intimacy and love-making, but honestly, I need it every few days. She knows this, I've expressed it, and we talk about it, but nothing changes.
We both are professional with highly stressful jobs and that occupies a great deal of our time and energy. Last night I took her on a date night and it was the same, collapse in my arms in bed but no extra intimacy. Being told by her that I look good, which I don't think I do, is great, but having the romantic and sexual connection is what I need.
I am horny all the time and I come here for an outlet to escape what I am missing. I haven't strayed in nearly a decade and honestly, it isn't the right thing to do and with Life360 on our phones, it sure wouldn't be easy.
I know I am ranting and not getting to a point but I just needed to let these thoughts out. Communication is the key to any relationship and I do think we communicate well. I do my best to assist around the house, we're empty nesters, with laundry, cleaning, cooking, yardwork, and all, but the bedroom intimacy is missing and it's what I desire more than anything.
Any helpful thoughts or suggestions would be welcomed.
If you got this far, thanks for reading.
On Friday night, she looked and me and said, "I want you so badly but I need sleep" and proceeded to go to bed. Even with cuddling and all, nothing happened and in the morning it was "we don't have time".
She will say that she doesn't want me to stray, to look at others, etc. and that she knows she isn't meeting my needs but I see women our age and older with higher sex drives than me. I know everyone is different and my wife has no problem going a long time without intimacy and love-making, but honestly, I need it every few days. She knows this, I've expressed it, and we talk about it, but nothing changes.
We both are professional with highly stressful jobs and that occupies a great deal of our time and energy. Last night I took her on a date night and it was the same, collapse in my arms in bed but no extra intimacy. Being told by her that I look good, which I don't think I do, is great, but having the romantic and sexual connection is what I need.
I am horny all the time and I come here for an outlet to escape what I am missing. I haven't strayed in nearly a decade and honestly, it isn't the right thing to do and with Life360 on our phones, it sure wouldn't be easy.
I know I am ranting and not getting to a point but I just needed to let these thoughts out. Communication is the key to any relationship and I do think we communicate well. I do my best to assist around the house, we're empty nesters, with laundry, cleaning, cooking, yardwork, and all, but the bedroom intimacy is missing and it's what I desire more than anything.
Any helpful thoughts or suggestions would be welcomed.
If you got this far, thanks for reading.
