wondering what it's like?

[mew_78-02]

wondering what it's like? fmf that is.

My hubbie has been after me for awhile now to explore my bi-side. The more he talks about it the more curious I get. I'm just afraid of rejection when I go looking for some one to help me out with this. SSSSOOOO if you can help or have any helpful hints let me know.
Till then, MEW

 

[bibreezz1975]

Don't be afraid of rejection or you will never try it. when you begin to explore this, it is not easy but it does get easier. Just remember if you are rejected you do not have to see that person ever again so who cares. Girl friends you trust and that have similar feelings is a good place to start.

Talking from experience

 

[mew_78-02]

What about the third person?

I want to tey this but I'm also afraid that my hubbie will like it too much aor like her too much. I would also like to tey it on my own first to see if I could even do it.
We have done the fmm thing but that was differentfor me. I knew that I didnt have to worrie about him running away with another guy.
My biggest question is how do you approach another woman about this?????

 

[Lady_Sam]

Re: What about the third person?

I want to tey this but I'm also afraid that my hubbie will like it too much aor like her too much. I would also like to tey it on my own first to see if I could even do it.
We have done the fmm thing but that was differentfor me. I knew that I didnt have to worrie about him running away with another guy.
My biggest question is how do you approach another woman about this?????

My concern here is that you express a fear that he will prefer the other woman. Perhaps, if you want to try this, first try it without your husband around. And believe it or not, I found the easiest way was to talk to my lesbian and bi friends.

 

[mew_78-02]

fear

Yes I am afraid that he will be more attracted to the other woman, and thats what I cant get over. I want to do this, but I find that this and finding someone are the biggest problems.
MEW

 

[mew_78-02]

going up

 

[warrior queen]

Re: What about the third person?

I want to tey this but I'm also afraid that my hubbie will like it too much aor like her too much. I would also like to tey it on my own first to see if I could even do it.
We have done the fmm thing but that was differentfor me. I knew that I didnt have to worrie about him running away with another guy.
My biggest question is how do you approach another woman about this?????

sounds like you are not ready to do this yet.

if there are any insecurities within your relationship, either from your side or your hubby's, then my advice is to keep this in the fantasy and don't go rushing into making it a reality.
at least until you both have sorted out the issues surrounding it.

you both need to trust eachother absolutely before allowing someone in.

 

[jeepman6]

Re: What about the third person?

I want to tey this but I'm also afraid that my hubbie will like it too much aor like her too much. I would also like to tey it on my own first to see if I could even do it.
We have done the fmm thing but that was differentfor me. I knew that I didnt have to worrie about him running away with another guy.
My biggest question is how do you approach another woman about this?????

sounds like you're really not ready for this. Seems to me that he really loves you though and wouldn't leave you for this other woman whoever she may be. Keep in mind that he did a mmf with you and yes you didn't have to worry about him running off with the guy but was he worried that YOU might run off with him? He did it despite any concerns he may have had so that should tell you just how much he loves you. Good luck in your decisions and be safe.

 

[mew_78-02]

thank you to all

Well this has been a very eye opening conversation for me. As to me not being ready for this I won't know till I try it. So lets keep talking and maybe I'll grow balls enough to quit being afraid and do this.
thanks mew

 

[mew_78-02]

it was easy.

well i have finally done it. and it was great! found a good friend also we will be having alot of fun together. just thought I would let you know. love mew

 

[warrior queen]

Re: it was easy.

well i have finally done it. and it was great! found a good friend also we will be having alot of fun together. just thought I would let you know. love mew

sounds like you got over your fears re: hubby.

glad it worked out for you

 

[Stiffy Says...]

Mew....

...if it feels too pressured, scary or bad, just don't do it. Be honest with your lover and yourself, and all should work out just fine. Don't feel pressured to folow through if you chicken out, it is ok.