Women's Sex Drive Declines after Marriage

[Guest]

Women's Sex Drive Declines After Marriage?

Nuh uh.

 

[Huckleman2000]

wow - good thing I wasnt in their research I would have ruined there theory

My sex drive has done nothing but increase every year. Now I will admit there are times I am tired but I'll still give it a go if hes up for it and if hes not I'll still give it a go.

Chantilyvamp, you're what we call, in the business, an "outlier".
If statisticians were more creative, you'd (more accurately) be an "outlayer".

 

[starrkers]

Apology graciously accepted, Rob. However, I am first to admit that it's not just men - women can be and are equally as guilty. Yes, there are issues like weight gain and wrinkles and hair loss and such that are to be accepted and yes even cherished. But there is a big difference between aging and letting go.

I am getting older, fatter, and more wrinkled. But when I want to make love - I hold myself erect (no pun intended), make sure I smell/taste good, and try my best to have that attitude that I'm nineteen and a passionate and crazy about sex and love like I feel inside, regardless of what I see on the outside. That's one way I show love and respect for my partner and his sexuality. Not all partners seem to remember how important that is - to feel needed, to feel that you'e giving, getting the best.
It's a lot of effort sometimes, but it's so important!

I believe your partner and my partner are on the same page.

 

[SimpleGifts]

Do whatever works for you as a couple to keep that initial fire burning. Don't sechedule sex and don't force it when you are too tired or stressed. Sontaneity is paramount.

While I agree with pretty much everything in your post, your comment on not scheduling sex reminded me of this article:

Scheduling Sex Is Sizzling Hot

While I agree that spontaneity is very critical, having "regular" sex has its own benefits. And I've been in a relationship where sex can only happen with advance planning and schedule coordination...and it was PLENTY good!

SG