Women's reactions: Men (especially YOURS) sucking a cock

[UtilityCurve]

Widower here, so I don't get to just ask my woman.

Sexy? Emasculating/feminiizing in a wonderful/please no way?

How would you react if he asked? How do you think you'd think about him maybe the day after?

There are quite a few of us who'd do it if it would be enjoyable for our girls to watch. But I'll be damned if even ONE female has ever suggested it or even said something positive about MM contact at all, much less fellatio.

Bottom line: Girls, you're never going to see it if you don't ask. If I may generalize from my own perspective, our curiosity (a minority opinion anyway, but I'd like to think it noble to find out what you've had to do!) and our default wanting-to-do-stuff-that-turns-our-female-partners-on setting are inhibited by the risk of a negative reaction from you. If it wouldn't be negative, this is just a tragic loss.

Thoughts, ladies?

 

[JS1979]

Very erotic. I've had a good MMF relationship.

 

[DiscoJedi]

Very erotic. I've had a good MMF relationship.

Curious about how the MMF came about. We have had no luck finding a third. DM if you like.

 

[gcs2718]

This thread needs a bump. I'd love to hear from and about women who have or want to watch their man suck a cock.

 

[Tygaara117]

I have no objection to a the thoughts or ideas to turn on our female partners. Female partners do a lot of thing for their male partners to turn them on. So why not doing something for them that turns them on. The thought of MMF three some is erotic in it self as she watches getting caressed by two men sensually that slowly turns her on while they both touch and caress each other in return.

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

I'm a guy. My opinion:

1) most women do not have the same interest (meaning little or none) in watching 2 guys have sex - suck a cock, anal, etc. Unlike the great majority of men who love to see women having sex together. I too am turned on by lipstick lesbian sex.
2) most guys who suck a cock in a MMF situation don't do it to please their female partner (that is, do it if it would be enjoyable for their girl to watch) - they do it because they want to, and they hope that the female will find it sexy, and not be turned off. Oh, I'd do it, not to please my wife, but to please me - hoping she wouldn't be appalled. So, unfortunately, I will never have a 3some with her, either with another man or woman - and, definitely, wouldn't suck cock, unless I miraculously got a message that she'd be OK with it.

 

[MichelleSwan]

Widower here, so I don't get to just ask my woman.

Sexy? Emasculating/feminiizing in a wonderful/please no way?

How would you react if he asked? How do you think you'd think about him maybe the day after?

There are quite a few of us who'd do it if it would be enjoyable for our girls to watch. But I'll be damned if even ONE female has ever suggested it or even said something positive about MM contact at all, much less fellatio.

Bottom line: Girls, you're never going to see it if you don't ask. If I may generalize from my own perspective, our curiosity (a minority opinion anyway, but I'd like to think it noble to find out what you've had to do!) and our default wanting-to-do-stuff-that-turns-our-female-partners-on setting are inhibited by the risk of a negative reaction from you. If it wouldn't be negative, this is just a tragic loss.

Thoughts, ladies?

Indeed people are missing out. If your spouse is curious you should indulge him. My husband apparently forgot to pack his undies for a vacation. There had been some question about him being in my drawers previously. I offered to lend him some of mine for the time being, and we've never looked back.
People need to talk openly about such things regardless. Set boundaries and comfort levels. You never know what your missing, because we know what your doing.

 

[Bossybats]

So my wife has no desire to see mm action, my gf thinks it would be hot to watch me suck a cock or get fucked

 

[Melodi24]

Sign me up!! I've asked and it's a no go

 

[whenagain]

Sign me up!! I've asked and it's a no go

Maybe just tell?

 

[Melodi24]

Maybe just tell?

If he wouldn't go for me telling him that I want to see him with another woman, it probably still wouldn't work for that either

 

[whenagain]

If he wouldn't go for me telling him that I want to see him with another woman, it probably still wouldn't work for that either

Fair enough. If he were open, what would you like him to do?

 

[OldSoldier96]

If he wouldn't go for me telling him that I want to see him with another woman, it probably still wouldn't work for that either

I offer as tribute.

 

[Burstplayer]

This has become an issue in our relationship. I finally told my wife my interest in cock, beyond curiosity. Said I had and wanted to play again. We play with dildos, with me sucking them as foreplay to pegging, but it's clear to her I want and need to have more live cock. However, she has NO interest at all in participating or even watching, though she doesn't want or allow solo play. It doesn't turn her on at all and she's playing along with the Bi thing for me, but is somewhat repelled by it, especially if it was presented for real in front of her. Oddly, she has no issue pegging me. It's the 3rd party thing, not viewing me less masculine sucking cock or getting fucked in the ass.

 

[Melodi24]

This has become an issue in our relationship. I finally told my wife my interest in cock, beyond curiosity. Said I had and wanted to play again. We play with dildos, with me sucking them as foreplay to pegging, but it's clear to her I want and need to have more live cock. However, she has NO interest at all in participating or even watching, though she doesn't want or allow solo play. It doesn't turn her on at all and she's playing along with the Bi thing for me, but is somewhat repelled by it, especially if it was presented for real in front of her. Oddly, she has no issue pegging me. It's the 3rd party thing, not viewing me less masculine sucking cock or getting fucked in the ass.

I would gladly sit and watch

 

[Cabeza]

This has become an issue in our relationship. I finally told my wife my interest in cock, beyond curiosity. Said I had and wanted to play again. We play with dildos, with me sucking them as foreplay to pegging, but it's clear to her I want and need to have more live cock. However, she has NO interest at all in participating or even watching, though she doesn't want or allow solo play. It doesn't turn her on at all and she's playing along with the Bi thing for me, but is somewhat repelled by it, especially if it was presented for real in front of her. Oddly, she has no issue pegging me. It's the 3rd party thing, not viewing me less masculine sucking cock or getting fucked in the ass.

My wife is the same. She doesn’t mind my homoerotic kinks but is definitely not okay with me (or her) doing anything with a third party for real.