Women with other Women - Sex Practices

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

Question for Women Who Have Sex With Other Women - Preferred Sex Act

In porn, I see Lesbian and Bi women using strap-ons on each other. Is this the usual practice in real W2W sex? It seems unrealistic that an artificial cock would be what Lesbian and Bi women are seeking. My question is not about any "love" aspect in a relationship, it's just about what your preferred sex act is.

From my unexperienced view, the preferred sex act wouldn't be using an artificial cock on each other, but it would be more pleasuring each other another way.

I understand if one woman is role-playing a man in Bi, or is the more masculine in a Lesbian relationship; but if you're Lesbian or Bi you want the sex a woman provides when having W2W sex.

I'm Curious.

 

[MeganFachs]

For myself and my girlfriend, we enjoy 69 the best. Not strapon.

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

I'd think that is what the ultimate sex act would be for 2 women together. Licking each other to orgasm in a 69. Both pleasing each other simultaneously. As a man, I myself enjoy oral more than fucking and my wife and I usually 69 to orgasm.

 

[SPARTAN047]

I'd say it's mostly pussy and occasional ass licking from what I hear by lesbians.

Fingering is as popular if not more.

 

[Britva415]

Is this the usual practice in real W2W sex?

Everyone's different.

There are definitely FF couples who like to do this. Do they do it every time? I couldn't say. But I expect that there's someone out there who would say, yes, for them, it is "the usual."

Of course that doesn't apply to all of lezdom.

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

We males can speculate, but unless we, ourselves, are in a FFM Bi arrangement - meaning that we've been there in person to witness the W2W sex, and the women are "left to their own devices" - our theories are merely academic.

I was hoping to get some responses from women who are in Lesbian relationships or FFM Bi arrangements. Only they really know their preferences.

Thanks Megan for your response. By the way, I was prompted to view a 'similar' thread, "Lesbian Preferences Discussion", that you started about W2W sex. I will read through it, but won't stick my dick into it, in respect of your 'no men' request.

 

[KissinKate248]

Bisex fem4fem here + in my experience when w another woman, sex doesn't always lead to penetration. That's the beauty of sapphic sex. We know and understand how to pleasure each other very well without focusing so much on penetration. Therefore the act of penetration itself becomes more of an added "bonus" rather than a role we feel we have to step into if that makes sense. Ofc all women are different, but this has largely been my experience.

 

[soflabbwlvr]

I can tell you what I have observed. My wife and I were in the lifestyle for 16+ years, and during that time she had a lot of sex with women and we observed a lot of sex between two women. Mouths, fingers, vibrators and dildos were all used extensively. Never once did I see a strap on put to use.
On the other hand, there are are a lot of them available for purchase and they have been around for many years. They aren't all being used by women pegging men. So, it must be happening, but probably not nearly as much as porn videos would have you believe.

 

[Gwensotherside]

I sometimes enjoy sex with a woman friend who is really into wielding her strapless strap-on but I'm rather submissive and she's a switch who loves to play games. With her it's more about symbolism and power-play, her being in charge, making sure I understand that I am merely her plaything there to be used rather than anything physically sexual. Though having said that if she orders me on all fours, shafts me from behind and presses a vibrator to my clit... mind blowing, Heaven on Earth.

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

Bisex fem4fem here + in my experience when w another woman, sex doesn't always lead to penetration. That's the beauty of sapphic sex. We know and understand how to pleasure each other very well without focusing so much on penetration. Therefore the act of penetration itself becomes more of an added "bonus" rather than a role we feel we have to step into if that makes sense. Ofc all women are different, but this has largely been my experience.

Thanks for your response Kate. As I stated, I can only guess since I've never seen women together outside of porn, but I guessed that penetration of each other is further down the list of preferences. In a Bisex FFM scenario, there's a male there to provide penetration. In a Lesbian scenario, by definition, the women are not looking for a man to penetrate them, but rather some other form of sexual activity.

 

[MeganFachs]

Finger penetration is a part of 69 oral for my girlfriend and I

 

[MichelleSwan]

Question for Women Who Have Sex With Other Women - Preferred Sex Act

In porn, I see Lesbian and Bi women using strap-ons on each other. Is this the usual practice in real W2W sex? It seems unrealistic that an artificial cock would be what Lesbian and Bi women are seeking. My question is not about any "love" aspect in a relationship, it's just about what your preferred sex act is.

From my unexperienced view, the preferred sex act wouldn't be using an artificial cock on each other, but it would be more pleasuring each other another way.

I understand if one woman is role-playing a man in Bi, or is the more masculine in a Lesbian relationship; but if you're Lesbian or Bi you want the sex a woman provides when having W2W sex.

I'm Curious.

Cuddling and touching I enjoy the most, scissors gets the best results for me

 

[lucy_anne21]

Sex with another girl is so much more intimate. We appreciate how our bodies work, what feels nice and understand the others needs. It is often very emotional, and clingy. A lot of lovemaking between girls makes use of communication, kissing, cuddling, and caressing. From my point of view, I’m not keen on strapons, if I want to be penetrated, I’ll find a willing man. Definitely, Sioxante-Neuf is the most enjoyable, but I do like to submit to a woman pelvic thrusting me, particularly if they know how to achieve clitoris to clitoris. Fingering is nice too, but can be a bit too rough sometimes.

Lucy.

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

Sex with another girl is so much more intimate. We appreciate how our bodies work, what feels nice and understand the others needs. A lot of lovemaking between girls makes use of communication, kidding, cuddling, and caressing. From my point of view, I’m not keen on strapons, if I want to be penetrated, I’ll find a willing man. Definitely, Sioxante-Neuf is the most enjoyable, but I do like to submit to a woman pelvic thrusting me, particularly if they know how to achieve clitoris to clitoris. Fingering is nice too, but can be a bit too rough sometimes.

Lucy.

....you had me at Sioxante-Neuf.... What a "tasty" idea

 

[poppypopper]

There is much more tenderness. When we make love we are not 'eager' to get of as a man is, men want to explore and only want to think they have pleasured a woman, but they do not understand. I tried to teach my husband but he thought he. Knew better..... he was so so wrong. My present gf is so loving and caring!

 

[ElvieG]

I'm bi and part of a FFM threesome. You can't really go wrong with oral sex or sissoring, but the best thing for me is seeing the expression on her face while I'm masturbating or fingering her. We don't own a strap-on and rarely use toys on each other.

 

[lil_jenni]

I just recently tried a strapless strap-on with my FWB. She had used it with a different FWB, and convinced me to try because I had never used a dildo or strap-on when with a woman. It was fun, on both ends of it because it's made to hits all the right places, but it's not something I'd want all the time. I have Hubby for when I want something inside rme.

Usually, it's mainly oral... Lots of oral... Oh, and fingers. Maybe vibrators on occasion. But I'm not a big fan scissoring, although part of the fun of being with a woman is trying different all the different possibilities and exploring.

 

[NightBirdNYC]

I love the kissing! And who better to pleasure a clitoris than someone who has one! I’m bi, I love men, but there is something so tender, knowing, and close to nurturing being with a women
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[SweetBaybeeGirl]

For me, a strapon isn’t very common. Toys are! I also enjoy a feeldoe. But fingers and mouth are my favorites.

 

[magic_rat]

We males can speculate, but unless we, ourselves, are in a FFM Bi arrangement - meaning that we've been there in person to witness the W2W sex, and the women are "left to their own devices" - our theories are merely academic.

I thankfully am in such a relationship, I'm poly with 2 bi girlfriends.

Their play is mostly fingers and oral, with use of toys (we own a strap-on, nobody's ever used it) with the wand being the favourite.

However, as with straight sex, couples will couple in different ways.

 

[MeganFachs]

After using a strapon a couple times at my request we haven’t used in a couple months I think. We’re enough.

 

[lily_wall_]

I've always been with a bi women, so idk how it is with a lesbian. We've never used strapon when it was just 2some. There were a few times I had strapon used on me, but it was more for the men's viewing than for our pleasure

 

[Brianna96]

I nearly aways use a strap-on or two and I will admit it is huge turn on due to the power dynamic especially if I am using one on a much older woman and then there is the fact that strapons never go soft.

 

[NightBirdNYC]

I nearly aways use a strap-on or two and I will admit it is huge turn on due to the power dynamic especially if I am using one on a much older woman and then there is the fact that strapons never go soft.

You can be sure of getting soaked if you used it on this older woman!
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[nothingatall27]

I nearly aways use a strap-on or two and I will admit it is huge turn on due to the power dynamic especially if I am using one on a much older woman and then there is the fact that strapons never go soft.

How is the power dynamic if you are using one on an older man?