Women - What (not who) turns you on?

Masculinity and intellect

Whether it be physical size, attitude, physical work, ability to build things or fix things, an outward display of manners - because he wants to- not because I need him to.



A strong chest, broad chest and arms, well defined leg muscles, chest hair I can run my fingers through, and an obvious desire for me when he sees me.
 
If id a only known this in high school, i would have had alot more confidence. Ok so i wasnt the high school Quarterback. I am reasonably intelligent, gentile, polite and masc. im good with my hands, can fix and build many things. I treat woman with respect. I think they should feel desirable. Yes im bisexual and i enjoy getting into the female role. But this perhaps helps me identify with a woman in some respect. Im alot more comfortable with my sexuality then i was when i was younger. As a man who often likes to get in the role of a female, i find these same characteristics attractive in a man. I love feeling vulnerable, desired, sensual, submissive and like a man who is respectful, has a gentile yet firm touch and is confident with himself.
 
I am seeking some insight for future stories on what turns you on. You, being people who identify as women. There are plenty of articles titled "What Turns Her On", by they are all about the sexy moves a partner can lay on a lady to get her juices flowing. So first insight is that women most often get turned on by people paying attention to them; or fantasizing about people paying attention to them. Okay. There's that little thing he does. But I want to do deeper (he said). I'm challenging you to think about why 'that' gets you hot. Silk pulling across your nipple. Which setting on the vibe? Why that setting? But before that, what flips the switch from, "I need a new pair of kicks" to "Whoa, if only someone would put their hand just ...?
showing of my stockings&high heels to men knowing how much it excites them,for doing this receive a spanking as punishment and at last i want a dominant , controlling man who demands me to be a obedient naughty slut for him ,please&tease him&others(and so many other things)
 
I am seeking some insight for future stories on what turns you on. You, being people who identify as women. There are plenty of articles titled "What Turns Her On", by they are all about the sexy moves a partner can lay on a lady to get her juices flowing. So first insight is that women most often get turned on by people paying attention to them; or fantasizing about people paying attention to them. Okay. There's that little thing he does. But I want to do deeper (he said). I'm challenging you to think about why 'that' gets you hot. Silk pulling across your nipple. Which setting on the vibe? Why that setting? But before that, what flips the switch from, "I need a new pair of kicks" to "Whoa, if only someone would put their hand just ...?
I find the back of other women’s necks desperately attractive, especially if she has her hair up. I want to kiss her there and work my way round to her throat.

With guys. Not trying to be cheesy, but within reason, it’s personality. I guess I might not go for a great guy who is covered in carbuncles, but otherwise, does he make me giggle, does he get my frequent weirdness, does he talk to me like another human and not some other species?

For myself, I get turned on by lots of things, from what I am wearing (uniforms, corsets etc.) to being restrained. Then as my writing is full of BDSM and fetish stuff, I guess it’s not that surprising really.

Em
 
A guy who subtly invades my space. Not in threatening way that makes me uncomfortable, just enough to make me feel his presence. Like he has every right to be there. That confidence is intoxicating.

And just like that my large masculine hand was in your panties holding and squeezing your ass. In your pussy. 6 AM on a cold New Jersey morning in your bed like we been married ten years.
 
That feeling of being in control, holding a partner in a place where they want an orgasm desperately, having a partner feel slightly uncomfortable about what they are doing not least because it is also keeping them very turned on, gently pushing a partner to explore where they have not been before and, naturally, having these things done to me.
 
My wife really enjoys knowledge in her pop culture interest. To be able to articulate them scores points her sexual interest book.
Be confident without being cocky.
And if you do get her naked with you, be attentive to her needs and pleasure. That will insure a return visit.
 
Hmm, this still seems to be dodging my original question: What, not who, turns you on? Maybe another way to ask it would be: When, as an empowered, independent woman, do you feel "ready for action?"
 
...the feeling of a hand exploring under my skirt. It gives me goose bumps.
For me, just teasing my inner thighs is enough to get me drippy. And this is magnified if done in secret while in a public place. I'll try to act outwardly unmoved so that anyone glancing at my face wouldn't suspect anything, but sometimes I may have to bite my lip.
 
My inner thighs are very sensitive and I'll get goosebumps all overt my upper thighs and my butt when teased there. I know that feeling in a public place and I love when it happens repeatedly until he feels how wet I am...just knowing that there is one other person who knows what's going on under my skirt is a huge turn-on.
 
A dominant man really turns me on. Not aggressive, but one who knows what he likes sexually.
A man who is sexually aroused by me, is a turn on.
A man who can engage in conversation easily.
Someone who wants to get to know me, both my sexy side and my real life thoughts.
 
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