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Wow I actually really enjoyed reading this thread because I don't feel so much of a looser to put it mildly.

I am one of those women who has never had an orgasim with a man in any sense of word. I have been yelled at for it, rejected for it and made fun of for it. So I recently tried to tell the guy what I wanted. well that flew like lead weight. He would do his bussiness and leave me there then want to cuddle like that was the most passionate thing that ever happened. then he tells me he can't tell if he came or not. That freaks me out a little bit.

I just hope that someday I can learn with someone who is nt afraid to try things. Or someone who is not afraid to make changes when they kiss, a kiss is no longer good if it is the same pressure and such all the time. I do like my toys though.
 
WhimsyOne said:
Wow I actually really enjoyed reading this thread because I don't feel so much of a looser to put it mildly.

I am one of those women who has never had an orgasim with a man in any sense of word. I have been yelled at for it, rejected for it and made fun of for it. So I recently tried to tell the guy what I wanted. well that flew like lead weight. He would do his bussiness and leave me there then want to cuddle like that was the most passionate thing that ever happened. then he tells me he can't tell if he came or not. That freaks me out a little bit.

I just hope that someday I can learn with someone who is nt afraid to try things. Or someone who is not afraid to make changes when they kiss, a kiss is no longer good if it is the same pressure and such all the time. I do like my toys though.
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Some of us dream about meeting a woman like you. :)
 
Heatlessfever said:
orgasmed from being with a man?
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I'm counting this one - first time watching someone on webcam. Not only did I cum (which I've never been able to do w/ a man IRL) but it was so hot - I came twice... and we did it again a few hours later for another yummy session. Since I don't have a cam I didn't feel as self-conscious or pressured. Certainly didn't hurt that he was hot! :catroar:
 
I can say that I have a few times. I have good sex I dont judge it by how many times I "orgasm" or even if I do. Sometimes its just good without it, but thats my opinion, I would like more!!
 
As the old saying goes, "He who brags the most...Does the least." holds true. My husband is a quiet man, and gets me off every time. Sex with him is generally quiet, but I never fail to thrash, grind, buck,and even sometimes have to push him away.

Men in general though, have a lot to learn about satisfying women. The absolute worst are the ones with a "Come-on baby, you don't know what you're missing." An orgasm is what I would be missing!...Yes, I found that out through experience, and a big cock does not an orgasm make!
 
As a guy i'd like to offer my 2 cents worth. This is where communication between two people is so important. Each person needs to know what makes the other tick sexually. If you don't discover by trial and error or trial and success then you should talk about it. Tell each other exactly what you like oh and don't like.
 
siddey65 said:
As a guy i'd like to offer my 2 cents worth. This is where communication between two people is so important. Each person needs to know what makes the other tick sexually. If you don't discover by trial and error or trial and success then you should talk about it. Tell each other exactly what you like oh and don't like.
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Very true. I'm finding for myself that I am too good at the caretaker role. My needs/wants/desires when I'm with someone else don't even factor into the equation (which is something I'm actively working to change in several areas of my life). That's what helped to make last Friday night so great for me. Not only was the format one that afforded me a feeling of safety/security but also removed a lot of the pressure to please. The only body physically present on my end was my own - and I found it made an incredible difference. Since the interaction was online, we had to communicate more (and more descriptively) than we would have IRL.

So - my new "recipe" to try out:
1 part communication
1 part openness to learning
1 part commitment to change
mix and enjoy :)
 
wild_blue said:
<offers to be her toy... no batteries required> ;)
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So after getting all hot and bothered by looking at someone's naughty pics I wouldn't have to go buy batteries at 2:00am??? Cowboy are you sure you'd be able to handle me and 'stay up' ???
 
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wild_blue said:
Trigger has never let me down yet. You just have to know where to stroke him. :rolleyes:
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Oh I'll know how to stroke him and if he gets a little uneven on his gait.....sometime a rough ride can really be extremely enoyable.... nice way of shaking things up...... if the cowboy and his 'horse 'can keep up with me that is........:eek:
 
Heatlessfever said:
orgasmed from being with a man? :rolleyes:

Ever have shitty sex with an arrogant mother fucker who thinks he knows what he's doing?

The guy I lost it to made me come once of all about four times I let him fucked me.

One time the idiot was screwing me from behind and he was like, "I bet you have cum like ten times by now."

I tried to grin and bear it. On top of everything else, he expected me to give him a blow job, but he refused to eat the puss.

Why? Well, he complained to me about the pussy of every girl he had been with, then proceeded to complain about mine. Let's be frank, I am not exactly always amazingly soft and smooth down there, but he wasn't exactly a bowl of strawberries and cream in the cock region either. In fact, he was rather gross. I almost barfed on his dick a few times (it smelled nasty maybe because in retrospect, he was an ugly asshole), but I did it anyway.

Let the horror stories run rampant.
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I love giving oral but if he isnt giving, he isnt getting.

and to answer your question I have ever came during sex if I didnt cum before sex, orally or manually. :(
 
*sigh* well ive only been with two guys and neither could bring me to an orgasm..guess im a lone ranger for the time being lol
 
my god i think im going to love this thread!!! :D

my story is:

i had been partying with this guy matt for about a year. we had all the same friends. truth be told he was a complete asshole. he was hilarious when he was drunk but still an ass hole. he thought he was better than me..better than everyone. well one night we had been drinking and carrying on he tried to play game on me. i was tipsy and kinda horny so i said yeah! lets fuck...we went out to his car. he was still running his mouth about how good he was and his cock and this and that

by the time we were in the car he was so shit faced he couldnt get it up. i laughed at him and left.
 
but even though i had a bad experience with a dumb fuck my boyfriend makes me cum over and over again. he literally wont stop until i tell him im done for sure. i love it. ive never met a man who could have the will power to hold off as long as he does. i know it takes consentration. i love my man :D
 
male viewpoint

Alas,

As a man I must admit that all too often the communication seems to be the missing part of these failed sexual dealings. At least from my point of view.

There is that tremendous build up to the act, the chase if you will and then when it comes down to the act the two players suddenly clam up! What the hell is wrong with all of us?

Currently inmy situation, my wife claims to be clinacally depressed, although she has never been diagnosed professionaly as such. She has gained some weight and has a low self esteem issue. Try as I do to assure her that she is my love, our sex life has gone nowhere.

During the initial stages of our courtship sex was hot as hell! All night sessions that were fanfuckingtastic. The problem was that at that time (little did I know at the time) she was using drugs. Yeah, yeah I was drinling at the time and stupid me failed to notice a familar pattern. I just loved all of the eating of pussy that I was able to do and fucking her like there was no tomorrow.

Now the sad thing is that I find myself masterbating to a cyber lover and lit pics as a form of excitment for me. Communication is difficult as I am worried that any thing that I say will be taken as critisim and not as it is intended.

Perhaps we as a species are doomed to be self serving and seek out only our own satisfaction no matter the cost.
 
Natalya555 said:
but even though i had a bad experience with a dumb fuck my boyfriend makes me cum over and over again. he literally wont stop until i tell him im done for sure. i love it. ive never met a man who could have the will power to hold off as long as he does. i know it takes consentration. i love my man :D
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ha do you know where i can find one!?!? lol
 
Don't get no satisfaction?

This is what comes of both men and women relying on the Internet Porn sites and the porn so readily available commercially, for their Sexual Education!!!
The attitude engendered by those sites is shocking!! No respect and consideration of women's feelings!!! Absolutely debasing!
Multiple sex partners doesn't help either.
The secret is in being honest with your partner and a sharing, loving, relationship.
Sometimes it takes years for a woman to experience vaginal orgasm. Makes more sense to talk about it with your partner in a caring, loving manner and discussing personal needs!
Loving exploration with a chosen partner is way ahead of nailing foreskins to the bedpost!!

Also, check the REAL statistics about frequent partners and the %age incidence of cancer caused by the various types of sexual intercourse so frequently portrayed as "normal" on Porn sites!!
Not criticising! Just suggesting!!
 
I wanted to add that I think it's far easier to orgasm with anybody if you feel comfortable with yourself.

I used to worry that I looked bad, that I was taking too long, that he'd get bored. How many women have actually pushed a man's hand/head away because you feel like he's already been down their ages and it won't go anywhere for some time yet? Loads, I bet.

When I started to feel more secure and happy in myself; when I found some confidence and put great value in my own satisfaction; then it was so much easier to orgasm, for a number of reasons. And once I had - he knew all the steps.
 
For Me

A great turn on for me is watching my female friend masturbate to her first orgasim, I go between her legs and perform oral sex for her second and hopefully she is going to have one or more with the sex to follow as I have my one. Now the problem comes in "when the woman can only have one orgasim and then her clit is to sensitive to continue.
 
Well for what it is worth it, I consider that having had my pleasure and not my partner I would feel kind of a failure and also selfish about it, pleasure for both is much more satisfying I say......
 
I was with a man for a year (not my husband) and he told me he was tired of working for it. So he would lie on the bed, pull his dick out and expect me to enjoy it. When he told me me he didnt want to work for it, I decedied to give him a complex. I wouldn't make eye contact. Hopped up and down on it until he came (which didn't take long at all), and would quickly walk out of the room just to do anything else, completely ignoring him. Then he would ask me how the sex was. I would then proceed to list all the good fucks I have had making a point to leave his name out completely.

I maybe got off twice in the first three months I was with him. He noticed I would only come when he ate my puss. He would ask me if he was the best I ever had. I told him as strangers go you are in the 90th percentile and when he asked me who the best was, I would give him my husbands name.

LADIES! REMEMBER TO NEVER SETTLE!
 
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