Women. Help Please. Please.

[wkdclwn]

Here is the deal. I have been with my girlfriend for the past 8 months off and on. She swears she loves me and wants to get married etc. The last few days she has been acting extremely weird. Not talking 2 me. Not being available 2 speak w/ me until well after midnight when she knows I have work the next morning so of course I cant talk 2 her then. She supposedly has been in New Orlenas w/ her brother and his fiancee, but I have talkd w/ her 4 times since she was down there ans she says they are out and she is in the hotel lone So I did a cardinal sin and snooped into some info. Found something from another guy 2 her saying I apologize and u r going 2 see the real me and I will get u back etc. Am I overreacting ladies or is she cheating? That is not the whole story from he tio her, but that is a vast majority. Him saying he is noig sneaking around anymore and the other night meant alot to him and he must have her etc. Please women your opinion. I need something here before I go crazy. Am I overreacting or is she lying 2 me?? Opinions please women. I need womens outlook here. Is he just an old friend who had girl trouble and talke dhis way through it w/ her, or is there more 2 it. Please ladies. Please. Thank you. I have not mentioned 2 her yet that I know about the talking between her and he.

 

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[cybergirly]

I agree with foxinsox's, doesn't sound good. You need to talk to her, and if I were you I would NOT mention your little "snoop" through her stuff, if there is nothing going on she is going to have serious issues with your level of trust.

 

[wkdclwn]

more2 the story. I asked her point blank if there is something 9i need 2 know about. if there is anything she is not telling me. all of a sudden she has 2 go 2 bed and she will talk w/ me 2 morrow. i know w/o asking. i just need female opinions. my female best friends are out 2 night for some reason and i cant get them. so i am turning to here. she wont answer me when i conmfront her. i havbe not told her about the little info i know she has written. she just knows i thing she has been acting weird and i thuink she is up 2 something. she knows nothing about the info i know.

 

[Bidin~Time]

Did I understand correctly that she is out of town? If that's the case, wait until she gets home, you can't talk over the phone as she has already proven.

Only she can answer your questions, but make sure you're prepared for her answers. If she says she has been with someone else, are you prepared for that? Have you decided what you'll do with that information? Take your time and think it through.

And good luck.

 

[cybergirly]

Her not wanting to talk to you doesn't sound good. I could give you alot of maybe she's just tired, maybe she's stressed about something else, ect. ect. ect...

But honestly, if a woman doesn't want to talk there is generally something wrong. My advise is corner her, make her talk to you. But be prepared to hear things you don't want to hear.

Good luck.

 

[tyme]

I agree with what everyone has said and would wait to talk face to face. alot harder to lie to someone's face. You need to think what you will do if she is. Like the rest said a women not talking means something is wrong in MOST cases. Good luck