Women and strap ons

[Britwitch]

After copious hints from Mr Britwitch, have bought our first strap on as a birthday surprise for him
Will get to try it out at the end of the week when the big day arrives...I am so excited just thinking about it... ...will be sure to report back on the results

 

[deluxe3000]

love it

haven't read the whole post. however, love the occasional strap on play. my then girlfriend, now wife, used to be sort of into it when we were dating. but now, she's not which is really too bad because, as a man, it is nice to have a little role reversal and be the recipient of the fucking (even if it's a fake cock). it is nice to play the female role while your SO plays the male role. loovve occasional strap on play. i miss it.

 

[OpenMouth]

I may have made a breakthrough with my wife. We had a long talk last week, and we are going to open up to each other totally. Life is too short for inhibition in the boudoir.

I anticipate being on the receiving end of some strapon action VERY soon.



I'll make sure I let you all know how it's going...

 

[Lust Engine]

http://titillations.homestead.com/files/A/b87.jpg

 

[OpenMouth]

Fantastic pic! I think she'll really like that, where d'you find it?

Things are going well so far; last night we looked in the Ann Summers catalogue together (a good place to start..), and when we got to the page with the Strapon, I hinted that I'd like her to get one.

Less than half an hour later, I retrieved my 10" dildo from it's hiding place, and showed her it!

She was very impressed.

Anyway, she's going to buy a strapon, and a basque, and fuck me. She's also going to do me with the dildo and talk bitchy to me.

In return, she's going to put on too much makeup and dress up like a tart, I'm going to shave her pussy, cuff her to the bed and fuck her sensless. Seems like a fair deal to me!

Oh, wow. I'm getting somewhere!

 

[DarkLover]

I told my wife today that I would like her to use a strap-on with me, and she is willing.

What should I keep in mind when buying our first strap-on? Any suggestions?

DarkLover

 

[MelnMe]

Hi!

We're at that stage now, as well. Thinking of getting a 'feeldoe,' as Mel could do with strengthening those muscles.

Lovehoney do a harness complete with three dildos, which is another possibility.

Let us know what you decide, there are lots of reviews on orgasmarmy.com ...

 

[Dedlite]

the feeldoe is not a good choice for a first time user. It is awkward enough for a female to have to learn how to fuck a man with a "cock", but it would be twice as hard to learn while having to concentrate on clenching her muscles. Try a regular harness for a first time, u can always upgrade! (plus the feeldoe is kinda big for a first time)

 

[oldkinky]

My DW always uses an anal toy(Spectragels Vibrating Anal Beads, Anal T, Anal E-Z Bend or Anal Beads) to massage my prostate while she gives me a blowjob. Really intensifies my orgasms. Years ago I never thought I would like this, but as I understood the prostate the more interested I became. Then we did it. Wow!!! Nothing gay about this. I am straight as an arrow. Our next toy will be a strapon. One that is advertised on websites and looks interesting is the Bend Over beginner Kit. It comes with 2 small silicone dildos and a small vibrator for clit stimulation.

 

[Cenobite]

who wants some

Yes please

 

[brockl3]

Wife uses her strap on

My wife has used her strap on a few times on me and I love it. I think she loves it to because she talks dirty and feels a send of empowerment as she drives it home. We've done it in all positions and my fav is doggy. She has the Ultra Harness 2000. I hope the guys and gals that have not had the pleasure of receiving a strap on, experience it.

 

[just4pleasurz]

Strap on

Brock
where did you get this harness. Is your wife able to fuck you without using her hands to hold the cock as she enters you?

 

[brockl3]

We bought it from www.xandria.com

There are other places on the Web that sell it at a lower price. Here's a link to what it loos like. http://nawtythings.com/harness.html

It's pretty sturdy and I feel (no pun intended.) it's good for beginners. I would highly recommend the Ultra Harness 2000. If anyone would like to chime in, please do so.

 

[lifensf]

We started with something like this http://www.goodvibes.com/Item--i-1-9-XX-0512--m-17 We started with the tera firma but did not see it on the site. This is what I want to get to add to the mix http://www.goodvibes.com/Item--i-1-3-BA-BE05--m-80 Must say I really like it when we play with the toy! Favrot way is doggy style or me on my back and her on top with my legs bent at the knee and resting on her chest. Yee haw!

 

[lifensf]

Oh yah we always use a condom for two reasons. 1. quick clean up. 2. the dildo is silicon and pores so it adsorbs lube. Happy humping!

 

[deliciously_naughty]

I got my first strap on last week and used it on the DH this past weekend. It was a weird and cool experience. I got one that specifically had an ass plug instead of a large cock attached to it. We're planning on working up to a bigger one eventually.

 

[Zenheredonethat]

Greetings all! I know this thread has been pulled from the grave, but I thought about doing a little research on this and hope others will chime in.
My wife and I are having a little of a libido and communication renaissance. This is great! We had a discussion the other day. I was open and took the plunge of asking her for what I want. I love when she penetrates me (Fingers during sex or oral on a once in a while occasion). She mentioned that it is not easy for her, maybe we could get a strap on. My heart palpitated and my jaw must have hit the floor. Here is my quite reserved in the bedroom wife offering something I never thought would be a possibility.
Here is where you can help; there are so many options, how to choose? We talked about her desire for it to feel good as well. Strapless then? Vibrating or not? I am not new to exploring my nether region so size and dimensions?

Thanks for all of the hopefully helpful comments and questions that I hope will come from this. Feel free to dm if the forum is not your thing as well.
Thank you.

 

[Mrs_and_mr]

Wife has been pounding me for years and she loves it and so do I.

 

[Vivian251]

Reading all these stories is so fun! I might give it a try myself soon, sounds pretty amazing!

 

[Britva415]

Strapless then?

A "strapless" one with a strap could be the best.

Strapless ones aren't really effective without a strap. I'm not sure why we continue to call them "strapless." It's just code for "there's a bit which goes in her, too." I don't have the links but there are a couple of threads in the forums here, not necessarily this particular category, where people review and compare the various "strapless" types.

Might as well get a vibrating one. You can always turn it off if one or the other or both of you think it's better without vibrating.

 

[Bottomlover]

Reading all these stories is so fun! I might give it a try myself soon, sounds pretty amazing!

Do it! My SO of many years says it gives her a "weird psychological" rush. When we first started having sex, she put a finger in my ass. I told her it felt amazing and that she could use a strapon if she wanted. The next day she had a harness and dildo. She's gotten really good at fucking me.

After 20+ years, I still lick her pussy and fuck her in multiple positions until she's sated, and then it's time for me to get on my knees and be her bitch. Every now and then she'll dress me up and put makeup and a wig on me before fucking my ass. I'm ok with whatever makes her happy.

 

[wizard59]

Greetings all! I know this thread has been pulled from the grave, but I thought about doing a little research on this and hope others will chime in.
My wife and I are having a little of a libido and communication renaissance. This is great! We had a discussion the other day. I was open and took the plunge of asking her for what I want. I love when she penetrates me (Fingers during sex or oral on a once in a while occasion). She mentioned that it is not easy for her, maybe we could get a strap on. My heart palpitated and my jaw must have hit the floor. Here is my quite reserved in the bedroom wife offering something I never thought would be a possibility.
Here is where you can help; there are so many options, how to choose? We talked about her desire for it to feel good as well. Strapless then? Vibrating or not? I am not new to exploring my nether region so size and dimensions?

Thanks for all of the hopefully helpful comments and questions that I hope will come from this. Feel free to dm if the forum is not your thing as well.
Thank you.

I have read and chimed in on other Lit threads on pegging. I thought a Feldoe would be a good choice but many women replied that they hurt. I would think a strap on offers the option of changing size as you progress and one that has the other side that goes in her so she can get off also.
Good luck.

 

[Lingerie_Dreams]

am feeling playful

who wants some

So hot

 

[MaturemanAJ]

Got a 8" vibrator from the wife once and she said afterwards I have zero interest in my husband wanting anal sex.
She has done quite abit over the years so I don't have anything to complain about but if someone were to offer it I would go for it

 

[subdudeme13]

Got a 8" vibrator from the wife once and she said afterwards I have zero interest in my husband wanting anal sex.
She has done quite abit over the years so I don't have anything to complain about but if someone were to offer it I would go for it

You might mention to her that nothing, NOTHING, is better than a full body orgasm from being pegged. It does not happen everytime or for everybody but it is worth the effort.