woman on top... need your help!

[Guest]

Hey guys...

This is embarrassing, but I need your help. Been going out with my bf for 3 months, getting tired of the routine... So I thought I'd try to take the lead and get on top, but it seems to me like I physically cannot do it in that position. Tried it 4 or 5 times now and it DOES NOT WORK!!! Getting frustating now! And I don't know why it isn't working... could it be because I'm too short for him? Anyways, I need your help! This is a how to, right? Tell me how, please!!! Any advice is welcome! Thanks in advance

 

[Hotred911]

My favorite position is on top, but to be any help it would help to know what it is that's not working for you? Let me know and I'll try to help.

 

[BigEd2000]

The only reason I could guess that you are unable to have sex this way is because your BoyFriend is portly or fat. I am a big guy and 8 or 9 times out of 10 i have sex on my back - so I am not sure that this is even the case. I think the key is to make sure you hold your BF's dick and position it. You also might want to try having sex with him on top first and then roll over.

BigEd

 

[Champagne]

Problems

When i first started woman on top I had trouble making him stay there. Partially because he had a short cock and partially because I was trying to lay on him first.

The way I do it is to lick and slide my way down his body then kneel over his cock and using my hands guide the head into my pussy. It always worked except with big tummied men and then you just gotta try harder. I still have trouble doing it squatting but noone that I fuck really minds.


Champagne

 

[Guest]

I think Champagne zeroed in on my problem. It just doesn't stay in. I'll try it again sometime and see if your advice has solved my problem. Thanks a lot everybody!

 

[moonshado]

Try some new positions for you to be on top.. Have him sit in a chair, or on the couch, put pillows under his hips, raise his butt up some.
Moon

 

[Soblue]

Well, you've got to get it good and hard first

Give him some mind blowing head first, then straddle it. While you're squatting over him, work it in deeper a little at a time, get a good stroke going and that should work!

 

[dreamer]

Wow, this one was a shocker to me. I've always had the most success with the woman on top. Not to mention it's my persona favourite. I can't see how it could be an issue of your height though. One thing I have noticed though is this position can be much more successful for the woman if instead of moving up and down a lot focus on more of a grinding action.

Get things all hitting the right spot then work away at it. Also read Mr. GGG's monster thread...cause with the woman on top many of these results can be reproduced without the manual stimulation. And Whoa boy...look out then..

Keep us posted, so to speak, and let us know how things go.

Best of luck.

 

[millieteases]

For me, grinding definitely works better. My spouse is pretty normal, but that means he's not 10" long. Since we're both a bit portly, to put it politely, he has to get real hard. Then I slip him inside and rub and grind against him.

Sometimes I slide up and down, but when I do I try to keep myself hard against him - it's more like sliding up toward his navel and then back down rather than up into the air like you see in those porn pictures with the girls and their suction cup dildos. That seems to work better for both of us. He stays in and it feels so good on my clitoris.

Now, ask me about how it feels with hair and without...

 

[Cirrus]

Try leaning forward or back a little, depending on what angle his penis is at naturally when it's erect. My guy is average sized, and has a slight curve to his penis. He doesn't stay in if I don't lean forward a little bit. Also as someone else suggested, try putting a pillow under his hips, or have him bend his knees.

This position isn't really one of my faves since I'm a small lady and my hips are pretty narrow...it hurts my legs to do it for too long but a lot of women really love it.

 

[MissTaken]

When I first tried being on top, I would try to mimic the same hip thrusts that he used on me!

A huge no go for that one.

I raise one leg, straddle his waist and slide it in. Then, my movements are usually based on my hips being perpendicular to his.

Just keep trying subtle changes until you find what works for you. It will be sooooo worth it!

 

[curvacious]

instead of an up and down motion, try rocking your hips (forward and then back). It doesn't take as much motion, therefore his dick is less likely to slip out. Also, it may rub your g-spot just right and also rub him just right. Good luck to ya---keep experimenting 'till you find what works for the two of you.

 

[It'sasecret]

What a coincidence you started this thread! I have never cared much for me being on top, but that changed this past week. It was always a lot of work being on top, I think partly b/c of our height difference. It always was hard to get the leverage I needed to really make his cock go in and out. If I just kept him inside of me and kinda grinded my hips in it felt very good for me but did not do much for him. Anyway... I have never come from sex alone (in any postion), but this week I just kept grinding my hips into him which was rubbing my clit. I came for the first time from sex alone! (and from what WAS always my least favorite postion) Then to make it even better, he came with me on top as well, which he never did before. It was a whole night of firsts!

 

[lilpriss]

mmm.... being on top... wish there was someone here to get on top of...

everyone has had the best suggestions... moving to and fro is the best for me...also lying on top of him and then doing shallow thrusts is a good thing to play around with, but grinding against him is just sublime.

 

[moonshado]

well there are alot of good suggestions here.. has any of them worked for you?? i hope so, because being on top is GREAT
MOON

 

[BigEd2000]

mmm.... being on top... wish there was someone here to get on top of...

everyone has had the best suggestions... moving to and fro is the best for me...also lying on top of him and then doing shallow thrusts is a good thing to play around with, but grinding against him is just sublime.

Are you looking for volunteers ?

 

[Voosla]

Here's my tip, practice by masterbating on a stack of pillows. Stick a vibrator or something that you'll enjoy grinding on. I've just rescently been able to be on top. It's either because I started doing that, or cause i'm 9 months pregnant and my center of gravity is way off, this helps too.

 

[Guest]

get on him like you where going to ride a horse put his hard penis in your veary WET cuntget him wet too so he slides in ezor move your selfe forword or back to get him in as deep as you can them ride him as hard as you like and have a good time its great you can turn around and is like getting it frome behind but your doing it look down there you can see it in side you and you can play with his ball's and make him harder

 

[Aphrodisiac]

When I am on top , I simply grind down on him .. or I will gently rock back and forth. I never move up & down , that does not work for me, I perfer grinding and rocking ...

The only problem we seem to have is that the first try he will slide out ... and this is because I am so wet... but then our 2nd try is when it comes together like a puzzle.

 

[hansuminla]

Rodeo!

Hey, hope this post does not come across as arrogant... but I consider myself somewhat of an expert on this position! Rodeo... she is on top hanging on for the ride... is great because while she is riding, you can easily caress her breasts and clit!

Try to vary the position... she can lean forward and kiss you while you pump her hard and deep. She can also squat over you with her feet under her bottom... this allows her to vary the depth and pace.... very empowering for a woman! Rodeo works well on a bed or the floor, but I prefer the couch. Once she has straddled you, hold her hips and have her lean back. Place her calves on your shoulders... this allows for optimal stimulation of her g-spot!

Many of you will probably find the following statement hard to believe... but it is the truth! On numerous occasions I have been able to give a woman 10 orgasms or more in a single session! Try this... have her face you and straddle you on the couch, place her calves/ankles on your shoulders, grind her back and forth on your cock... start slowly and when she is close, increase the pace of your grinding. Here is the key... once she has cum, do not stop! Continue to grind but do it ever so slowly... count to 10 and then increase the pace of your grinding again! If the guy is able to control his ejaculation.... this can go on indefinetly or until she begs you to stop... which is very likely!

ENJOY... Rodeo is the best!

 

[moonshado]

Ummmm

Sounds very intense. Need to try this someday..how do you hang on? just her hips ? and legs?
Moon

 

[Thefraserman]

I've tried a few times on my back with my G/F but she complains that it hurts her knees, so we have to stop.

Usually it's just her legs in the air, or doggystyle.

Are there any other positions that can be used other than those three? We really want to try something new but we can't think of any good ones

Thanks